Loving yourself for the benefit of others.

A woman dies and Death comes to her. The woman, seeing Death, smiled and said that she was ready.
- What are you ready for? – asked Death.
- I’m ready for God to take me to Heaven! – the woman answered.
- Why did you decide that God would take you to him? – asked Death.
- Well, how? “I suffered so much that I deserve the peace and love of God,” the woman answered.
- What exactly did you suffer from? – asked Death.
- When I was little, my parents always punished me unfairly. They beat me, put me in a corner, shouted at me as if I had done something terrible. When I was at school, my classmates bullied me and also beat and humiliated me. When I got married, my husband drank all the time and cheated on me. My children exhausted my soul, and in the end they didn’t even come to my funeral. When I was working, my boss yelled at me all the time, delayed my salary, left me on weekends, and then fired me without paying me. The neighbors gossiped about me behind my back, saying that I was a prostitute. And one day a robber attacked me and stole my bag and raped me.
- Well, what good have you done in your life? – asked Death.
“I was always kind to everyone, went to church, prayed, took care of everyone, took care of everything on myself. I experienced so much pain from this world, like Christ, that I deserved Paradise...
“Well, okay...” Death answered, “I understand you.” There remains a small formality. Sign one agreement and go straight to Paradise.
Death handed her a piece of paper with one sentence to tick. The woman looked at Death and, as if she had been doused with ice water, said that she could not tick this sentence.
On the piece of paper it was written: “I forgive all my offenders and ask forgiveness from everyone I offended.”
- Why can’t you forgive them all and ask for forgiveness? – asked Death.
- Because they don’t deserve my forgiveness, because if I forgive them, it means nothing happened, it means they won’t answer for their actions. And I have no one to ask for forgiveness... I didn’t do anything bad to anyone!
-Are you sure about this? – asked Death.
- Absolutely!
- How do you feel about those who caused you so much pain? – asked Death.
- I feel anger, rage, resentment! It’s unfair that I should forget and erase from my memory the evil that people have done to me!
- What if you forgive them and stop having these feelings? – asked Death.
The woman thought for a while and replied that there would be emptiness inside!
- You have always experienced this emptiness in your heart, and this emptiness devalued you and your life, and the feelings that you experience give significance to your life. Now tell me, why do you feel empty?
- Because all my life I thought that those whom I loved and those for whom I lived would appreciate me, but in the end they disappointed me. I gave my life to my husband, children, parents, friends, but they did not appreciate it and turned out to be ungrateful!
- Before God said goodbye to his son and sent him to earth, he finally said one phrase to him, which was supposed to help him realize life in himself and himself in this life...
- Which one? – the woman asked.
- THE WORLD STARTS WITH YOU..!
- What does it mean?
- So he didn’t understand what God told him... It’s about the fact that only you are responsible for everything that happens in your life! You CHOOSE to suffer or be happy! So explain to me who exactly caused you so much pain?
“It turns out I’m on my own…” the woman answered in a trembling voice.
- So who can’t you forgive?
- Myself? – the woman answered in a crying voice.
- Forgiving yourself means admitting your mistake! Forgiving yourself means accepting your imperfections! Forgiving yourself means opening up to yourself! You hurt yourself and decided that the whole world is to blame for this, and they do not deserve your forgiveness... And you want God to accept you with open arms?! Have you decided that God is like a soft, stupid old man who will open doors for fools and evil sufferers?! Do you think he created the perfect place for people like you? When you create your own paradise, where first of all you, and then the others, will feel good, then you will knock on the doors of the heavenly abode, but for now God gave me instructions to send you back to earth so that you learn to create a world in which love and care reign. And those who cannot take care of themselves live in the deep delusion that they can take care of others. Do you know how God punishes a woman who considers herself an ideal mother?
- How? – the woman asked.
- He sends her children whose destinies are broken before her eyes...
- I realized... I couldn’t make my husband loving and devoted. I couldn’t raise my children to be happy and successful. I couldn’t preserve a hearth where there would be peace and harmony... In my world, everyone suffered...
- Why? – asked Death.
- I wanted everyone to feel sorry for me and have compassion... But no one felt sorry for me... And I thought that God would definitely take pity on me and hug me!
- Remember that the most dangerous people on earth are those who want to arouse pity and compassion for themselves... They are called “victims”... Your greatest ignorance is that you think that God needs someone’s sacrifice! He will never allow into his abode someone who has known nothing but pain and suffering, for this sacrifice will sow pain and suffering in his world...! Go back and learn to love and care for yourself, and then for those who live in your world. First, ask yourself for forgiveness for your ignorance and forgive yourself for it!
The woman closed her eyes and began the journey again, but only under a different name and with different parents.

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We first understand death only when it takes someone we love. (Germaine de Stael)

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A person can come to terms with the thought of his own death, but not with the absence of those he loves.

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Love and death always come uninvited.

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9 years have passed since my mother's death....I love you very much mom! I still remember and cry! =(((

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I used to think little about death... but, in my opinion, giving your life for a loved one is not the worst death!

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Death is steadily pursuing us, and every second it is getting closer and closer. Death never stops. She just turns out the lights sometimes.

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Dying for a loved one is not the worst death...

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After his death, I have been living unconscious for three years now...

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Death is happiness for a dying person. When you die, you cease to be mortal.

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..the hour of death is unattainable for them, and this life is so unbearable that everything else would be easier for them.. (Dante)

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Mom, is death for life?...

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This is how it happens that dear people are taken away not only by death, but also by the army)

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If death do us part, I will find a way to find you...

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To learn to appreciate life one must face death.

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Suicide is not an option, some people understand this a second before death...

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It is very difficult to know that our love is doomed to death, that in a month he will no longer be here. . . He will be somewhere out there, far away. . . Where everyone is happy. . .

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Someone once said that death is not the greatest loss in life. The greatest loss is what dies in us while we live...

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Our world is built like a clock: eternity for the sake of one day, life for the sake of death, and death for the sake of love.

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Life... Monday - born, Tuesday - kindergarten, Wednesday - school, Thursday - university, Friday - work, Saturday - children, Sunday - death...

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Revenge is meaningless if its price is death.

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“It’s so easy to imagine you alive that it’s impossible to believe in your death...”

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This is not death, it just became a clock.

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Death is eternity. Life is just a moment in eternity. Appreciate this moment!

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Death is life. By dying, we make room for another to live.

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Death is not as terrible as its suddenness...

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Never joke about death, it may hear and come for you.

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Death is close enough that there is no need to fear life. (F. Nietzsche)

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It's easy to cry when you know that everyone you love will someday either leave you or die. The long-term probability of survival for any of us is zero.

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Life and death are just two moments, only our pain is endless.

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Only when we lose do we begin to appreciate... only when we are late do we learn to hurry... Only by not loving can we let go... Only by seeing death do we learn to live...

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Death is not the opposite of life, but a part of it.

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You and I are like two trains... If we meet, it will only be to death...

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I'm afraid of death, but I'm not afraid to give my life for my friends. I'm afraid of love, but I continue to love. I'm afraid of problems, but the support of loved ones helps. I'm afraid of a new day, but I continue to live...

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Death is something that cannot be taken away from us. Life is something that is given for a while...

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Death is worth living, and love is worth waiting for.© V. Tsoi

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I hate it. These tears. This pain. It's a constant feeling of loss. This death. I hate...

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A bad life leads to a bad death.

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- never mind, right? Now imagine that in an hour she will be hit by a car... to death...

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I love her to death and I don’t care what anyone says about us! The main thing is that I love her!

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"Virtual communication....virtual love....real suffering....real death"

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They say you won't be lucky if a black cat bites you to death.

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Woodpeckers caught marmots in the act, to death.

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Death is not scary. When we exist, she is not, when she is, we are no longer..

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Death will take and kill anyone. And you’re unlikely to defeat her...(c)

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There is a right by which we can take away a person's life, but there is no right by which we can take away his death.

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I want to be cremated after death, and the ashes mixed with COCAINE... and given a *track* for everyone, so that everyone can feel my *COMING*.

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Death is the only opportunity to see the dream to the end.

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So death has come... Hey, Death, will you have scrambled eggs?

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I don’t know what it’s like after death... But after unrequited love, life definitely exists...

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Eh... With such an Internet, you can only download death...

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It is very difficult to know that our love is doomed to death, that in a month he will no longer be here... He will be somewhere out there, far away... Where everyone is happy...

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Life is a slow death... A slow attempt at suicide, because we live and know that we will die someday...

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If we know so little about life, what can we know about death?

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Disappointment is a little death!

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Koshchei's death at the end of a needle. A needle in an egg, an egg in a duck, a duck in a hare, a hare in shock...

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I'll eat candy and die a chocolate death...

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If we were given a choice: to die or to live forever, no one would know what to decide. Nature relieves us of the need to choose, making death inevitable.

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One day I will find out who I was, and who I could have been, and who I couldn’t be, why I lived in this world, and why I died that day. I will see the temple of my soul, earthly, imperishable and untouched by the earth, I will understand the pattern and every thread in it, But then nothing can be changed.

If you want to do something, do it! So as not to lament before death!

No one stays in this world forever.

The birth of a person is an accident, and death is a law.

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It hurts most not immediately It hurts later after a few months When you begin to realize that you have died and that he will never come

Two lives Life begins more than once and is interrupted more than twice. And death from life is not a refusal, But an affirmation of its thirst, After all, we are given the opportunity to see the gap Not between death and eternal life, But only between the human will and that in which its motive is alive.

Say no to death!

People are mortal and therefore EVERYTHING is infinitely important.

If you are visited by thoughts of death, it’s not so bad. The trouble is when death is visited by thoughts of you

You live, and you don’t feel the time, everything is barefoot, and negligee, well, hello, girl with a braid, already???

I used to be afraid of death, but now I'm waiting for it! After all, then we will be together again! It wasn’t you who left this life, it’s me who stayed here!

Time loves no one, hates no one, is not indifferent to anyone - it takes everyone away!

People don't really die. They go to a better world and wait there for those they love. And then one day they will all return to this world again just like the first time.

The only thing worse than loneliness is betrayal, because it not only makes you lonely, but also kills hope.

They say that the worst thing is to outlive your children. How then do people live after abortions?

Live as if you will die tomorrow; Study as if you will live forever.

No one knows. Nobody knows the duration of their life. Nobody knows how many years are allotted. But many live with hope, and many live without it at all.

Take up arms and be prepared to die.

Immortals are mortal, mortals are immortal; They live by each other's death, they die by each other's life.

The subscriber is unavailable. And, God knows, what's worse. Isn't he waiting for you? Isn't it waiting for you? Don't be afraid, for now. There is no Love there, there the battery dies.

The beginning of merging with nature is a natural end.

People don't die from overwork. People die from senseless waste of energy and worry.

Death is an abyss that suddenly opens up in the path of unstoppable life; the living person suddenly, as if by magic, becomes invisible in an instant, as if falling through the ground and disappears into oblivion.

If there is internet in hell, many will not even notice that they are dead.

The good ones go to heaven. The good ones go to heaven, the bad ones are not taken to heaven. With a heavy and evil burden, they will face the Underground Judgment.

Life is the food of death

TO LIVE WORTHY is when my great-great-grandchildren come to my grave.

And a healthy person can be treated to death for the sake of money.

Memoirs are a way to embellish yourself before the gates of hell.

We know how to die, we just have to learn to live

Final concert: Playing the box accompanied by an orchestra.

TO DAD You left untimely and quickly, Having said goodbye to your family on the run, Having managed to tell you that I love you, Our whole house plunged into silence. Acquaintances and friends came to you. Your family is standing sobbing, The coffin was swallowed up by mother-cheese earth And rain and snow. saw you off

No matter how fate turns, you can find a way out of any situation. Everything can be corrected in this life, except death.

And our body is perishable, only the soul is valuable

No memory - no pain How can you not remember if you love? And how not to experience pain if only memory remains.

Only the one who has never lost a loved one does not know the pain of parting. Only the one who has not looked death in the face does not value life. And the one who has forgotten the history of the country of his heroes is worthless. And the shame is on the one who doesn’t want to know anything about the fatherland.

And life is only one day. Don't spend it daydreaming about the night or fearing it.

Death makes us forget the weaknesses of those who are gone forever, leaving us with only belated regrets.

The thought of death drives away boredom.

From a conversation with children (everything is simple and damn beautiful): -How do people die? - the stork carries them away.

There is no life without you, And there is no death. There is an EMPTINITY. Only a black, all-consuming emptiness that destroys everything inside.

One day, surgeon Ivanov lay down to take a nap on the table of pathologist Sidorov. In general, a stupid, absurd death.

People don’t die at 90, or in accidents. And the flu has nothing to do with it. People die after opening the envelope: “I don’t love you and the person died.

It's scary when innocent children die. But what’s even worse is that those who give orders to shoot at peaceful neighborhoods will not cry, will not regret what they did, and will even find an excuse for themselves.

In the premonition of death, three different fears converge: you do not know the day you will die, the reason from which you will die, and, finally, death itself is unknown.

You read obituaries and think: “Don’t bastards die at all?!”

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Before they die, people think about their past, as if they are looking for evidence that they really lived.

Cry, sing, love, just don't bury yourself alive.

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You will have to live with the pain of loss. There is no escape from this pain. You can't hide from it, you can't run away. Sooner or later it hits again and you want only one thing - deliverance.

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THE DEATH of a loved one is the most terrible grief that can befall a person. The pain of loss sometimes seems unbearable.

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Life and death are just two moments, only our pain is endless.

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Ah, I... I regret... I'm Calling... I'm Crying!!!

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Everyone died, what's the point of denying it now? But how can you understand this with your heart?

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Take me, Lord, instead of him, and leave him on earth!

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When you first face the loss of a loved one, then you understand the price of life and the inevitability of death.

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Denial of death. Family members may act as if their loved one is not dead; waiting for him, talking to him.

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No matter how sad it sounds, our lives are short and sooner or later we will all fade into oblivion.

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The feeling of loss gives rise to torment similar to the torment of a person thrown overboard a ship...

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Take care of those you love!!! Appreciate the minutes spent together! Know how to forgive! So that later there will be no excruciating pain for unspoken words, for unperformed actions!

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Probably, if you truly love a loved one, you will never come to terms with their loss.

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There was a poem carved on the stone wall of the temple called “Loss”, it only has three words and it has only three words. But the poet scraped them off. Loss cannot be read… it can only be felt.

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People do not regret what was or is. People regret lost opportunities.

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The loss of a loved one shatters our familiar world.

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Time may heal, but they don’t live long enough to forget someone who was dear to them.

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Death passes through the Earth, separating loved ones so that later they can unite in eternity.

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Friends always live in each other's hearts, even after one dies, he will remain in the heart of the other forever.

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You left so suddenly... It’s unthinkable that your life was interrupted like that, all we were left with were tears and the truth: Remember and pray all the time.

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There is no life on earth where there is no child. Why do I live on earth if children are dying?

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It is impossible to return, it is impossible to forget... Time is inexorable!!! Half a year has already passed. Life flows by... Realization has not come!!!

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Giving up your love is the most terrible betrayal, an eternal loss that cannot be compensated either in time or in eternity.

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We mourn for Lokomotiv, we feel sorry for the guys, but we were waiting for them in Minsk... Life is very unpredictable...

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The most important man in my life is you, daddy, and no matter how old I get, I will always remain daddy’s little daughter for you, and you are my main man, no one can replace you. May you rest in peace.

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It is very painful and scary to lose loved ones, relatives, loved ones, but with each loss the feelings become dull and the heart becomes colder...

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We must pray for those who have gone into the dream world of silent silence. So that tears do not flow from heaven, for us... for sinners... they.

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They say that time heals... It seems to me that it simply tears out pieces of our memory, with blood...

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It hurts to look into your eyes and realize that you can’t help... It hurts to be close and know that this is the last night... When the doctor declares death... The pain from the loss of those closest to you is unbearable! ... There is no replacement for them!!!

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Damn... it’s so scary... you see a person, say hello to him... and a couple of days later they call you and say that he’s no longer there... Scary...

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When a loved one dies, you feel like you have lost a part of yourself.

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Don't try to avoid painful experiences. Don't hold back your tears. What happened is a real tragedy. It must be felt, experienced.

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The memory of the deceased can become an incentive for further life.

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Only when we lose do we begin to appreciate... only when we are late do we learn to hurry... Only by not loving can we let go... Only by seeing death do we learn to live...

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Somehow I came to terms with fate... there were two of us... and you were alone there. We stocked up on a pound of salt with you... now my son and I eat it...

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Life is too short to have time to understand its meaning, death comes too quickly without having time to understand that there is only one life given.

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This status is for all those who once foolishly lost their soulmate and, because of pride, missed the moment when they could get them back.

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How to relieve the pain when a loved one leaves where there is no way back???

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Do you know why people look at the sky when it hurts them? So they try to hold back their tears...

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It's sad when people die!!! It’s even worse when the scum that killed them is still alive!!!

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Talk about the past in the past tense.

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I have a lot to do today: I need to completely kill my memory, I need my soul to petrify, I need to learn to live again.
Anna Akhmatova.

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And I burned everything that I worshiped, I worshiped everything that I burned.

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How often, for the sake of fidelity, you are tormented by loneliness, your love is not needed by the dead, your love is needed by the living.

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Loss of illusions - is it a profit or a loss?

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The worst thing is to lose what you believed in, hoped for, and then bam! and a black hole formed inside.

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The person cannot accept the loss. He experiences shock, which manifests itself in a complete lack of feelings.

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It’s just... periodically... it happens... your messages and voice are not enough... I ask... don’t forget me... gradually turning into the past...

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What heart can bear it??? All the pain and sorrow cannot be expressed in words. No one can love like a mother. How painful it is to lose your mommy.

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Departed feelings can still return, but a departed loved one never does.

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When one person dies, it is a sad loss, but the death of millions of souls is a statistic.

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A person can come to terms with the thought of his own death, but not with the absence of those he loves.

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The highest wisdom is in accepting death. It is important to understand that life does not end. We are all immortal. Our death is a tragedy only for our loved ones. - Mikhail Mikhailovich Prishvin

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You left the pain in my heart forever! Gone from this life forever! Dear, sweet and gentle, my beloved mother!

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I can’t live without you... My heart cries and my soul groans... I, too, my dear, have “GONE” from life.

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I recognize you... in the touch of a birch branch, I recognize you... in the river with seething water, I recognize you... in the dew that looks like tears, I know darling!!! you're near me.

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You may be 14, 20, 30, 42, 50... You will still cry when dear people leave.

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Getting attached to a person is a huge risk; when they leave, they take your soul with them.

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Those who have known the sadness of loss appreciate the joy of what is found.

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I love and remember. We remember those who left us, We remember those who closed their beloved eyes forever.

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Getting out of depression gradually becomes possible, mental pain becomes less. A person begins to look for ways to solve psychological problems that are not related to loss.

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Nobody dies too early, everyone dies on time.

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