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Psychology of success. How to start living your life and turn off the autopilot I am the owner of my life

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Men and boys are considered the stronger sex. However, recently women have begun to doubt this, because quite often men and guys run away from duties, are afraid of responsibility and generally behave infantile. If you do not agree with the women's opinion that they can be called strong, then it's time to correct the situation. You only need to start by becoming the master of your life, in the process of which you will become so strong that women will never dare to call you weaklings.

The male site site invites each reader to take the course of events in his life into his own hands. We invite you to become strong, self-confident, self-sufficient and calm inside, because if you learn to manage your life, then you will know how to manage other people and not be their puppets.

Man is the master of his destiny. Despite the fact that many people think differently, they say, circumstances do not depend on them, they thereby also make their choice in the direction that life circumstances decide their fate. In any thought, deed and movement, a person makes his choice. He could do this, or he could do otherwise, and as a result of his choice he gets a specific result.

Why is depression the most common occurrence today? In fact, depression is a disease that is already treated under the supervision of psychiatrists. And what the average person calls depression is actually a depressed state, depression or stress. And in this case, depression is not fate or fate, but a person's predisposition to react to external events in a certain way. The question of choice arises again: a person himself chooses how to react to this or that situation that does not threaten his life. This means that depression is the fruit of his reactions, and not fate.

All human problems are in his head. An individual perceives most of the events, words and the world as a whole through the prism of his own judgments, delusions and fears. For example, remember how some people easily take jokes addressed to them, while others become furious from the same words. This does not depend on the jokes themselves, just different people react differently to the same circumstances. Hence it turns out that problems arise only because a person himself creates them. After all, it was possible not to create problems, it was easier to relate to the loss of money, to the fact that you stepped on your foot or that a man who smelled bad was sitting next to you. But no, you decided to state that you are uncomfortable, you are disgusted, which is why the problem arose.

You cannot change the people around you without their own consent. You can often see that people are looking for answers to the questions: “How to make a child obey? .. How to make my husband earn more? .. How to make everyone obey me? ..”, etc. Note that the questions are built according to the following scheme: “What can I do to make other people do things that please me?”. In other words, you want other people to do what you want, regardless of the fact that they may want something of their own. And here you want to prove that you are right, but they are not. But this is a wrong position. Other people are just as right as you are, it's just that their rightness does not fit in with yours, it diverges from your worldview. However, they and you are right, but each in his own way.

Be responsible for your destiny! Many people think that fate is formed apart from their will and participation. Actually it is not. A lot depends on what a person thinks, what decision he makes at one time or another, what choice he makes. You make a choice already in whether to tell the other person about your feelings or not. And acting in one way or another, bring into the mechanism a specific development of events.

Be sure that destiny is not formed without your participation. You are a screenwriter, director and performer. You decide how you will react to the fact that you stepped on your foot - shout, call names, or quietly ignore. Your decision and actions are followed by what should naturally follow. Therefore, do not be surprised that people respond to your criticism with criticism, and a smile with a smile. Everything is natural.

Be responsible for your destiny! Know that it is better to spend time on solving the problem, and not on finding the ones to blame. For example, it is better to close the door to the room where a person is sleeping than to be angry at a cat that suddenly began to meow. By criticizing an animal that does not understand you, you will not achieve anything. However, by closing the door to the room, lowering the volume of the cat's cry, you will allow the person to rest.

Remember that there are no people in your life who prevented you from living the way you want. There is only you - a person who, once faced with obstacles, decided to no longer look for other ways for his own happiness. Therefore, do not take the position of an offended and passive person. If you want something, then do it, search, try, work on creating your desire. And while you are waiting for an apology or handouts from other people, your life will remain boring and uninteresting.

Only you are responsible for your destiny! And only you are responsible for what was, is and will be!

Man is the master of his destiny. And the evidence for that has been given above. As soon as you understand that a lot depends on your every step, word and choice, that only your attitude to the world, to circumstances and other people determines your destiny, your life will begin to change. You can live the way you want, but for this you need to take full responsibility for everything that happens to you. Of course, you may not always be masters of circumstances, but you personally determine most of your fate.

Life is really fascinating. And if it seems completely different to you, then you simply have not learned how to live. A successful person is guided by the motto "My world - my rules." And only in this case you can achieve something, be happy and live the way you want.

Many people get used to adjusting to the circumstances of life from childhood. Undoubtedly, being flexible is important, because life changes every time and requires a different approach to itself. However, being flexible does not mean "flexing", it means that you must see the circumstances that are happening to you and be able to interact with them. It is like walking up to a door and grasping the handle to open it: a circumstance arose before you, the solution of which was to pull the handle and push the door.

"My world - my rules" - be guided by this motto always and everywhere. You have been given your life, which you not only can, but must live as you wish. Not someone should tell you how to live, but you yourself should decide what you will have, how to live, where to stay, with whom to communicate, etc.

"My world - my rules" - live with this motto. Most people see life in dark colors, calling it difficult. Why? Because if you do not set the rules of the game by which you will live, then life itself will set conditions for you to which you will have to adapt. But it becomes more difficult to live, and it becomes that you are not always ready to be guided by the rules that others have set for you. You fight them, you run away from them, you constantly encounter them. You grieve, but only because you yourself have not made your own rules. If there are no rules for you, then someone else will put them in front of you!

What is meant by rules? This is the criteria by which you will choose your friends and partners for love, who you will work with, how much you earn, where to live, what to pay attention to, how to look, whether to love yourself just like that, what your self-esteem will depend on, etc. Rules - this is what you will be guided by in a given situation. And if you don’t set your own rules, don’t stick to them, then you start living by someone else’s rules, which will not always play in your favor.

"My world - my rules" - this means that you decide for yourself with whom you will communicate and whom you will immediately reject, how you will look and what not to pay attention to, whether you will love yourself or become dependent on the assessments of others people, etc. You decide for yourself how you will live in any area of ​​\u200b\u200blife, and adhere to these rules, no matter how other people or circumstances try to break them. You have the right to change your rules, but only at your own will, and not under pressure from outside. You can be anyone - fat or thin, rich or poor, famous or unknown. The main thing is that it is your decision based on your desire to live this way.

Therefore, decide for yourself how you will live: according to the principle “My world - my rules” or with the motto “How lucky, how circumstances develop”?

Let yourself be the master of your life

Let yourself be the master of your life! Many people are intimidated by this slogan, because they often begin to imagine it as a refusal to communicate with other people, an aggressive attitude towards everyone and neutral (don't give a damn) behavior. In fact, the masters of life lead the same way of being as other people. It's just that the difference between them lies in the consequences they bear as a result of communication with the outside world.

All people are social beings. And this means that everyone has the happiness to communicate with other people. Most likely, you have already noticed that there are pleasant and unpleasant people who accept you and criticize you. People are all different, and no one can avoid meeting the next person who will teach how to live, what to dream about and how to think.

But let yourself be the master of your life. This means that you must learn to solve any of your questions yourself. Teach yourself to independently make only those desires that are interesting to you, live the life that will please you, and think in a way that suits you. All people are different, and all of them will want to teach you their way of thinking, way of life and categories of wishes they make. But you don't have to live the way they tell you to.

Moreover, look at how they live. They are happy? Successful? Have you achieved love in your life? Raised adults and independent children? Or do they have their own "bunch" of problems that he can't handle? If people force you, but at the same time they live unhappily and unsuccessfully, then do not listen to them. They cannot teach you anything good, because they themselves do not know what it is like to live according to the advice they give you. They themselves have not tried everything in which you are instructed, otherwise they would have already lived happily, in wealth and love. Do they live like this? No? Then why are you listening to them?

You have the right to make and realize your desires yourself, and not to realize what other people require of you. You don't owe anything to the people around you. No need to adapt to them, it is better to be yourself. Be proud of yourself and protect your personality. If you are not a person like others, then it is more difficult for you. But behind the demands and advice of other people is the desire to make you the same as they are. And they do it not to make you happy, but to please themselves.

How do you eventually become the master of your life?

A person is born in a society where rules and laws are invented. However, life itself has no rules. There is only one law: "Survive or perish!". The rest of the world is not interested. How correct, obedient, cultured you will be is up to you. And the world is important that you know how to survive in it.

But since a person wants not only to survive, but also to live happily, he will have to study the rules of society. Be flexible, active, active and fearless, take risks to try your hand, and then you will achieve more. All of this will give you the knowledge and experience that will enable you to be the master of the life you want to live.


The article is addressed to the younger generation and to middle-aged people. Reading this article by an older generation of people can lead to deep depression and long-term mental distress. If you are not ready for this, you better stop reading. The purpose of this article is not to provide accurate calculations and statistics, but to make you think about your life and become "the master of yourself."

Some caveats:

I am not a graphomaniac theorist and never have been. In every line of this article - myself.

The current spelling prescribes before the hissing and deaf consonants in the prefixes “without-”, “voz-”, “iz-”, “raz-” the voiced “z” should be replaced with a deaf “s”, as a result of which the named “morphemes” in the composition words lose their meaning. Compare and catch your feelings when reading: shameless - shameless, heartless - heartless, prehistory - prehistory. In the first case, a blank shot is felt, in the second - hitting right on target (in this regard, DOTU enlightened me). I mark in capital letters, so as not to be considered illiteracy.

Brief introduction

Let's ask ourselves why this is happening: you won't have time to look back, but a year, two, three has already flown by. Life (your own and only life) slips away from you like sand through your fingers, and with each subsequent year, an oppressive feeling of guilt, dissatisfaction with life, resentment and disappointment grows subconsciously ... a lump of unfulfilled desires and missed opportunities grows.

I want to tell you, friend, why this is so. In fact, everything is obvious and lies on the surface.

The article is conditionally divided into three parts (no mysticism, just numbers, logic and conclusions).

In the first part, I will show you why You are not "the master of yourself".

In the second - ways to become them.

In the third part (especially relevant for the older generation), I will show one of the ways to delay the death of your body by 10-15 years and answer the question: “how to make life easier for yourself?” (again, without any mysticism).

The first part of the article. Why are you not "master of yourself".

Let's look at what and how the average person spends his life.

On weekdays (from Monday to Friday) every day we spend according to the following conditional scheme:

8 hours sleep
- 8 hours to work




All! the day is lived ... there are 24 hours in a day. Where is your life here? Where did she flicker? Eight hours of sleep? Eight hours of "favorite" work that you endure to pay off loans and repay debts? (8 hours .. ha! .. but many people are forced to linger at the workplace). Or in that one hour lunch break? No, and it's not here. All this time we sleep in reality, day after day acting semi-consciously according to an established pattern.

Let's put it simply: from Monday to Friday you live 0 hours, i.e. you do not live for yourself, at this time you belong to everyone, but not to yourself.

Every day off (Saturday and Sunday) we spend according to the following conditional scheme:

10 hours sleep

- We devote 7 hours to ourselves (self-education, self-development, hobbies, etc.)

those. 7 hours * for two days off = 14 hours.

Thus, in a week (and this is 168 hours), we lived for real and with benefit only 14 hours. If we divide the hours by the number of days, it turns out that we live a conscious life for only two hours a day, totaling 24. Or 730 hours a year (1 month) instead of 8760 (1 year). Or 1 year of real life at age 12, or three years for the entire time of our work experience (33 years) (from 22 to 55 years.). 55-65 years - this is the interval in which most people die, chewed by the system. By the time of retirement, such people, as a rule, have no real interests, no hobbies, no desire to do anything. There is only chronic fatigue, apathy, anger, dissatisfaction with life and a number of diseases that they are trying to cure on a more than modest pension.

These are rough and average calculations. Everyone can independently write down their life according to such a simple scheme. But I already foresee that you can’t get away from the ratio of 1 to 12.

Now ask yourself: to whom? and for what? you give away the only valuable thing you have - your life.

For some reason, it happened or you yourself decided that it’s quite normal: to exchange 11 years out of 12 of your life just to eat, have a roof over your head, be dressed and shod ... and only 1 year (out of 12! !!) to do what you really like and bring joy. Well, you yourself are the master of your life and you are free to dispose of it at your own discretion.

For the sake of interest - go to your friend and offer him, for example, to build a house for 11 years to live in it for only 1 year (here I smiled) - they will send you to hell and consider you a cretin. Or another example: you save money for the desired car for 11 years, knowing in advance that you will be allowed to drive it for only one year. Agree, BREDYATINA COMPLETE!!!

Nevertheless, (I will put it in slang) the vast majority of humanity subscribed to this “vtukhalovo”. Someone out of stupidity, someone because of intimidation and narrow-mindedness, someone because of their weakness in front of life circumstances and lack of faith in their own strengths.

It turns out that nothing has changed since the time of the slavery of Ancient Egypt, there was only a change of scenery, but the essence remained the same. A person is treated as much as he allows himself to be treated.

Become the Owner of Yourself

In this part of the article, I want to show how to become the "Master of Yourself" (sounds funny, doesn't it?).

I must say right away that “The Master of Yourself” is not a combination of philosophical research and theoretical conclusions. This is a dry practice ... a complex of phased restructuring of one's lifestyle ... independent management of one's life.

Let's proceed to the consideration of practice.

You can become a “owner of yourself”:

Partially
- to a greater extent
- in the full sense of the word

“The master of himself” in part.

In this case, we will reduce the fatal ratio of 1 to 12 by half and will be able to live “for ourselves” two months a year, instead of one, and this is already something.

Everything is simple and obvious to disgrace.

Just make it a habit to sleep 2 hours less than usual on weekdays and 4 hours less on weekends. For example, go to sleep at 12.00 at night and wake up at 6.00 in the morning on any day of the week. For example, on weekdays:

6 hours of sleep (instead of 8) = +2 hours/day
- 8 hours to work
- 1 hour lunch break at work
- 1 hour for a trip to work (on average in Russia)
- 1 hour for a trip home from work (on average in Russia)
- 1 hour to prepare for work (morning and evening)
- 4 hours to watch TV or play on the computer

Total on weekdays: 2 hours * 5 days = +10 hours on weekdays

Day off:

6 hours of sleep (instead of 10) = +4 hours
- 7 hours of watching TV or playing on the computer
- +7 hours we devoted to ourselves before (self-education, self-development, hobbies, etc.)

Weekend total: (4 hours +7 hours) * 2 days off = +22 hours.

Total: +10 hours on weekdays + 22 hours on weekends = +32 hours per week. Those. 4 and a half hours a day * 365 days a year = 1668.5 hours a year or +69 days instead of 30.

You will immediately feel that the days began to stretch longer and you have time to do more during this day. This makes sense, provided that you will spend this time “won” from conscious life not on TV or a computer, but on personal growth, self-realization, education, achieving your life goals, etc.

For example, in this case, you will automatically more than double your competitiveness among those who live one month a year, instead of two ... because, during this time, you will read educational books, articles, watch developing documentaries exactly twice as much movies, etc.

It is enough just to show your master's will. Just remember that the whole World around you is energy, ... and will is one of the forms of its manifestation.

"Master of yourself" to a greater extent.

After we have become partially “belong to ourselves”, it’s time to become the “Master of ourselves” to a greater extent (provided that you need it ... maybe for you, friend, two months out of twelve real life is enough for your eyes.)

Again, everything is simple and obvious to disgrace.

We do the following: you and I together stop watching TV and using a computer for entertainment (we use it only for the purpose of obtaining high-quality developmental information). That's all (I foresee your round eyes and profanity in my address).

We receive on weekdays:

6 hours for sleep
- 8 hours to work
- 1 hour lunch break at work
- 1 hour for a trip to work (on average in Russia)
- 1 hour for a trip home from work (on average in Russia)
- 1 hour to prepare for work (morning and evening)
- 4 hours for self-realization (instead of watching TV or playing on the computer)

Total on weekdays: 4 hours (which went to TV and computer) * for 5 days = +20 hours

On the weekend:

6 hours for sleep
- +7 hours (instead of watching TV or playing games on the computer)
- +7 hours we devoted to ourselves before that

Weekend total: 7 hours * 2 days off = +14 hours

Thus, we won a bunch more hours from life:

Grand total: 20+14 hours = “+34” hours per week or: 4.85 hours per day * 365 days per year = 1773 hours per year or + 74 days per year.

The total result of real life: 69 (partial master of yourself) + 74 (master of yourself with a greater degree) = 143 days (4 months and three weeks !!), and this already says a lot - it says that you have declared yourself as an owner, you are a man of will.

"The master of himself" in the full sense of the word.

Becoming a full owner of yourself is much more difficult than becoming it “partially” or “to a greater extent”. This is a big responsibility, first of all to yourself, but there is always a fallback: to continue on, day after day, exchanging your life for food, beautiful bright clothes and a lot of unnecessary things. There is always a choice and only you can make it yourself ... this is the manifestation of your essence - the essence of the creator of your own destiny.

The owner of himself is a person who independently, according to his will and understanding, manages his time and independently bears responsibility for his every step, without granting such a privilege to other people (bosses, creditors, etc.). Those. this is a person who lives a truly conscious life 24 hours a day and 365 days a year (and not 1-4 months), he knows what he will do tomorrow, the day after tomorrow, a month later, etc.

How to make it possible? The key point here is the most complete liberation from dependencies-attachments (material and non-material).

In general, I will not philosophize, but simply describe the path I have taken (assumes the presence of will and life purpose), which I call “Alpha and Omega of a reasonable person in the 21st century” and which is a schematic template of actions to free oneself from addictions.

Basic points:

0. Know the purpose of your existence HERE. Understand the meaning of your self-improvement.
1. Stop drinking alcohol of any strength, energy drinks, tonics; stop smoking anything
2. Engage in physical culture until old age.
3. Stop watching TV, minimize the use of cell phones, household appliances, radio, computers (use not as entertainment, but as a source of knowledge)
4. Stop using products of the "system": artificial synthetic products, carbonated drinks, products with dyes, preservatives and food additives; stop using legal food drugs: TEA (black/green), COFFEE, SUGAR, SALT, CHOCOLATE
5. Reasonable waste of sexual energy; sublimation and conservation of sexual energy
6. Get rid of feelings: envy, anger, pride, irritability, greed
7. Stop using foul language. Speak and write without conscious distortion
8. Become the master of your thoughts, get rid of the mental stirrer in your head. Clear and purposeful thinking
10. Overcome laziness and apathy towards the environment around you (events, people)
11. Get rid of debts and loans.
12. Dedicate yourself to what you love.

I have described the Path I have done (more precisely, a small part of it), which helped me become the “Master of Myself” in the full sense of the word. I did this for an example, not for teaching.

Each person has His own Way and to unravel it is one of the goals of a person's life Here.

How to make your life easier and delay its end by 10-15 years.

I won't write much here. I will write briefly.

3 basic points to make life easier:

1) Once and for all, take full responsibility for every step you take, for everything that was, is and will be with you, for your financial and social situation (for example, by publishing this article, I take full responsibility for what was written in it, as well as for the possible effect that it can have on the reader.Also, I am aware that by publishing this article, I risk gaining a number of ill-wishers, including active ones, but all this fits into my life concept).

2) Once and for all, give up the idea that someone owes you something and owes you something (the state, pension and social funds, administration, credit organizations, parents, family, loved one, etc.) ). Once and for all, stop taking other people's help into account. Believe me, you will avoid many, many disappointments. When you begin to count only on yourself, the future development of events becomes predictable for you and, as a result, manageable.

3) Always take into account and proceed from the worst case scenario. Having accepted this and made it a part of your life, you will never be caught in a bad mood, you will not experience disappointment and indignation: if the worst development of events occurs, it will never break you and unsettle you, since you a priori took this into account; if there is a more favorable development of events - you will always rejoice in this, because initially you did not count on it.

It is also quite simple to increase the life span by 10-15 years. Everything is again measured by the will and life goal (if its achievement implies a long and healthy life).

2 basic points that increase life span (no mysticism):

1) Daily consumption of leguminous sprouts, drink only purified melt water, gradually switch to a raw food diet.

2) Train yourself to eat every other day (please do not make round eyes and do not wave your arms). Now let's turn to dry logic and common sense.

Out of 12 months of the year - I eat only 6 months, out of 10 years of life - I will eat only five years, out of my whole life I will eat exactly half.

Let's look at a simple example. You buy 2 new cars. On the first you ride every day, and on the second every other day, for example, only on even numbers of the calendar. 10 years have passed. You've decided to sell your two cars and buy new ones... Do you feel what I'm leading you to? Both the first and second cars will be 10 years old, but the second, which was operated every other day (i.e., half of the total service life) will look 5 years old - both externally and in terms of parts wear and mileage, i.e. will be sold for a higher price than the first one, which worked for 10 years to the fullest.

Now let's transfer this to the human body. Is such a comparison appropriate? Quite!

The human body is a car, and the food taken is a fuel, which can also be of high or low quality.

The fact is that the body's reserves are somehow spent on digestion, splitting and dissolution of food, especially if the food is unhealthy, of animal origin, fatty, fried, boiled, etc. (i.e. we use our “car” both in the tail and in the mane). If we start eating every other day (we drive a “car” every other day) and, moreover, we take high-quality and natural food (we pour AI-95 into the tank instead of AI-80), then the service life of our body (car) automatically increases in twice.

The same analogy applies to a person's lifestyle. Any of us knows the answer to the question: who lives longer is a laborer (hard physical labor, nerves) or an orchestra musician (lack of heavy physical exertion, spiritual joy, balance). The answer is obvious.

Why I wrote "an increase in life expectancy by 10-15 years." The reason is simple.

1) The entire Internet is filled with daring headlines about longevity of 120-150 years and, as a result, you no longer take anything like this seriously.

2) The above, at the moment, is only a theory, since I am a young man in the prime of my life and strength and I am not 120-150 years old. I will be able to verify the correctness of this theory if my life span exceeds 100 years.

However, the logic is sound and I believe that many will agree with me. Effective time management

My understanding of the Goals common to all people of being Here (on Earth)

The first goal is to live

The second goal is the accumulation of the maximum possible life experience and a measure of understanding of the world,

The third goal is to help other people,

The fourth is to die (this is also an important experience).

Conclusion

Everything written in this article describes my personal Path, exactly my set of tools. You should not blindly adopt everything and follow what is written, just as you should not reject everything categorically. You can act more sensibly: 1) start thinking about your life and the Goal, 2) try this “scheme” on your lifestyle, take the most from it and discard the least valuable (in your opinion), 3) find your Path and follow it.

For people of mature age, I can say the following: it is never too late to start living for real. You should not worry about the past years, instead of taking a step towards a new life. Start yourself, here and now, to create your Life and Destiny and live your life fully and fully!

IN– presenter, consultant Elena Lozinskaya.

TO- client, S.

Presenter: Good afternoon How did you know about me?

Client: I read your channeling, which says that many people only read the messages and think that they are engaged in spiritual development. And I just have a crisis period in this matter, and as soon as I read this, I immediately signed up for a consultation.

IN: And what is your period?

TO: Incomprehensible. For a whole month there were no dreams with information, and this is already becoming uncomfortable. It's hard to understand where I've come, various doubts. Logic says that not everything at once, but there are always questions.

IN: How do you see yourself, on what segment of the path of this spiritual development are you?

TO: At the beginning. In February, I transferred myself to the second grade. Of course, this is all subjective. If we take the highest point - to come to unconditional love, then I have no idea when I will succeed.

IN: And what are the successes already? What allowed you to move to another class?

TO: Successes are small, only at the level of the first class in the study of the universe. Some six months ago, I did not yet know what we have upstairs. The concept of the Higher Forces was not in my head at all. Now I already have some idea what the Soul, Monad and Higher Self are.

IN: And what do you want? Where to go, to what state?

TO: To the state of the next density.This will give freedom, this is the abolition of serfdom.

IN: And how does it feel now, this lack of freedom?

TO: It is also not easy to understand that we are led by our every action, and only 11% of freedom. I would like to evaluate with your help where I have reached. Assess yourself from the outside. Although, by and large, consultations are sometimes even harmful, because all the answers are inside you. Sit down, take care of yourself and you will understand everything. But I want to be faster.

IN:(laughs) It's understandable. But to assess your level, to tell you where you've come, you need to know the goal. The next dimension is understandable, we are all going there. But 11% free will and that we are laboratory mice... I don't think so, for example. From my own experience, I believe that we can do a lot, almost everything. We just don’t see it, we just go through these lessons in which we are told: “You can’t do anything, everything is already built, the Higher powers decide for you.”

To some extent, we agree to this, we become led, we need this period when we accept this picture of the world, that our free will is very limited, that everything is decided for us. But then comes the realization that this is not entirely true. Because if that were the case, we wouldn't need to have this zeal, this impulse. If we are so limited, then why are we given this feeling of freedom, the feeling that we are Creators?

There is a very big illogicality here, and I realized for myself that this is an intermediate stage of understanding - that there are Higher powers and they guide us. Just like half a year ago you did not know that there were Higher powers, you thought that only the material world existed. But then the relationship with this Higher world is built: who are they to us, who are we to them? And everyone decides for himself.

And since we do not yet have this picture of the world, we accept the one that the contactee can give us. For example, S. gives a very beautiful picture, everything is painted: Architect, Determinant, Monad, Soul, all systems, etc. And it really suits someone - he takes it into service and moves on. He is comfortable in this zone, this framework suits him.

At one time, I also used it. But then I got cramped. I understood that yes, there are Higher powers, but for some reason my inner feelings told me that the position of only a performer no longer suits me, I am clearly not a laboratory mouse, because I can do much more. And I see it: I am changing my life, I am changing the lives of other people who come to me. And I begin to build my relationship with the Higher powers. And when they already contacted me, when I used my channel, got in touch with them, one might say, directly, I realized that we cooperate. And it's not my fault that I'm sitting here in the third dimension, and they are in higher ones - it's just that my place is here, and theirs is there, but we are doing one thing. And the closer our cooperation is, the more we can do.

I realized that this was my lesson: to get out of a very material person who has been engaged in a technical type of activity all his life, to come to an understanding that the spiritual and material worlds are separated only in our head, that it is all one. They are all next to us, they are around us, and it practically depends on us whether to take a step towards them and work together with them. Now I am closer to such a picture of the world that we are still the masters of what we decide. Therefore, when a person comes, I ask him: “What do you want?” To think very deeply: what do I want to do on Earth, where am I going?

Yes, it turns out that we are all transitioning, the whole Earth is transitioning, but this is a general process, we are not at a demonstration. No, this is an individual process for everyone, individual lessons, developments that we brought from past lives. It is very important to understand that we are the masters, on the one hand, and on the other hand, to take responsibility for this life. And no matter what the Higher powers tell us, we ourselves decide where to go and what we want to do.

TO: But tell me, this scheme is S. and not only him, do you doubt this scheme?

IN: No, it has its place. But I treat it as a structure that helps me. Who is the customer? As they also said in some message that the customer is a Soul. And the whole scenario is built under the Soul, which is defined by Architect, Qualifier, etc. They work for the Soul, they create a scenario for us, where we are already going through some lessons, we are developing. This is essentially an administrator who provides us with all the resources, the entire material base, all the scenery, the audience, the main director, but for what? In order for the Soul to be able to go through this whole performance, or change it, or rise above the stage and understand that it has already played enough ... All this is necessary, but who works for whom, who is primary and who is secondary - everyone determines for himself.

TO: Well, the script from them is 100%. Last year I had a channel with the Higher Self, this year it is no longer working, this is also one of the questions that I cannot fully understand. The very first thing I saw, the very first connection: they showed me that a person is a puppet. And the second: I was shown my future for 4 days ahead. That is, they showed that there is control and that the scenario is painted. There is no doubt about this. But your level of awareness is much higher than mine, which means you have the opportunity to influence your script, as I understand it.

IN: It probably turns out that it is. For example, a person comes to some meetings, everything is planned, he is given a schedule, let's say for the same 4 days, some kind of conference. But a person is not a robot, this is his will, he wanted to participate in this, he was not forced to. We need to see who is organizing this, at whose suggestion and for what? Then it’s already a completely different attitude to this, then you don’t just complain and passively live, now, they imposed me and have nowhere to go. Maybe life will not change, the entire schedule will remain, but the understanding of why this is changing will change. Even if the script is written - and why is it built in such a way that we must understand what we must realize. If we start from the fact that spiritual development is still going on, then this is all being built so that we understand something, learn something. We need to look from this point of view.

TO: Yes, that's understandable, that's the way it is. You go through school and exactly those lessons that the Soul ordered.

IN: Yes.

TO: She sometimes orders things incomprehensible. I wanted to clarify one of the questions: I was told that I was a planetary Soul, and I wanted to know from which civilization.

IN: You opened a connection with the Higher Self, but there was not enough trust. There is low self-esteem - you think that someone outside knows better than yourself. And you trust the other person more. It is clear that this is not an ordinary person, this is a contactee who allegedly transmits from the Higher powers, and you trust this information more. But this is also your lesson, you must understand who you really are, discover your essence.

TO: And the fact that the planetary Soul is really so?

TO: Somewhere it is, yes. There are doubts, low self-esteem, too. I have such a program that if I imagined some kind of goal and imagined that all this happened by itself, without much effort, then the result will be negative, and they will also hit me in the head. Everything is achieved through hard work. Therefore, I limit myself in dreams because of this.

IN: But dreams are brought in! Dreams are not yours. Therefore, they do not come true. They are also part of the picture that you have borrowed. You need to overcome this barrier and find your own. There is something very interesting there, but you deny it, do not recognize it, and therefore you use what the outside world provides, what others offer. And accordingly, you take the goals from the same place, from the same picture of the world. You need to dare and see what you really want! Not within the framework of the transition, not within the framework of the path of all mankind, not what we supposedly should do, but what gives you the feeling of flying! Because now it is one of the main criteria for its implementation.

All the Teachers tell us: “Look for what you like, what gives you pleasure, what brings joy! And that is your purpose!” It is so simple, but it is very difficult for us to overcome it! They say that start with some kind of hobby, with some kind of activity that is an outlet for you, where you rest with your soul, where you owe nothing to anyone, which, of course, does not bring you any income yet, but this is the main key. This is the channel through which your creative energy passes.

This is the first and main condition under which the Soul is revealed. It is very difficult to overcome this, because we are tied to money, we are tied to the result. Our life is built in such a way that in the first place we put the receipt of income and the provision of our livelihoods. But right now it all needs to be turned upside down and put in the first place what we love to do. It is very difficult, but this is the situation for many who come to me for consultations: they are fired from their jobs, their businesses are closed, their clients are removed, their income is reduced to zero, they are driven into a corner. Just to make a person think that it's time to do what he likes. You need to go and dig in this direction.

I start looking at a person, and there are such abilities that a person has never taken seriously, and my task is, among other things, to point out to a person his abilities, his gift. We are all unique individuals now, we all have extraordinary abilities, and we have come at this particular time to help the Earth transition.

TO: Basically, while you were saying I got the answer that this is a service. But this is a very general concept, it is clear that everyone should serve. I had assumptions, but so far it does not grow together what exactly to do, on which street to serve. About the financial component, which wildly interferes, I have no idea at all: is there something, do you have to give up everything?

IN: You don't have to quit, you have to live on something. But slowly already look towards the realization of what you want.

TO: And you can look at the state of health - the vessels worry me.

IN: How exactly does this affect?

TO: There are two points here: there is no proper blood circulation in the legs, and in the head, when I enter a meditative state, tension appears.

IN: Legs are a well-known metaphysical factor, in simple terms, you don't know where you are going. If you had some kind of goal, again your own, not introduced, but your real goal, then you would run there, you would not feel your legs under you. But while you do not see it for many reasons. There is a stagnation of energy in the form of a cloud in your head, because you are trying to understand a lot with your head, logically understand, decide, put on the shelves. But not everything is so clear there are things that cannot be understood with the head, logic, you need to accept with your heart, trust.

TO: My question is: could it be that loneliness is the choice of my Soul?

IN: How do you feel in this loneliness?

TO: I'm used to it, to be honest. I had 10 dreams on the same topic: meeting with love. And I don't understand: will loneliness ever end or not?

IN: It is interesting that you state each question as a fact. And what do you want: do you want to get out of loneliness or stay in it? And your situation depends on this - I started the consultation with this.

TO: May be. I'm not even ready to answer.

IN: Here you see.

TO: Absolutely.

IN: You have given the reins of power to someone. You ask the question upwards: “Why is it so, why did I find myself in this position? What is it: punishment, punishment or my choice? How did it happen? But still, this is a question outward, to a higher authority. You don't feel so bossy that you don't even know what you want. You perceive it as an inevitability, as if the choice does not depend on you.

TO: I just accepted this situation and considered it as karma.

IN: Yes.

TO: You have to learn to look in a whole new way. What you told me is a brand new look. I myself would not have thought of this at all, or not at all soon. We need to look wider.

IN: Someday you will get tired of being subordinate. Here you have your own business and you are not subordinate to anyone in your work, but your life passes in such a position. Once you take the first step, and then you can ask yourself the question: “What do I want? What do I want to do? You will at least start looking in this direction - you are so used to this position, when someone creates these conditions for you, and you accept these conditions, you live like that. And naturally asking questions: “What do I need this for? Why?" But never looked from the position of the owner. And when you get tired of all this, you will begin to unfold your wings and see what kind of energy you have, what unique abilities and talents you have. And when you get out on your road, that's when you might want someone to be around. It will be a completely different road, a different self-awareness.

When you catch your energy by the tail, and you want to do something, then this desire to have associates, including some kindred Soul nearby, will be completely natural. And then just such a person who can understand you, who can appreciate you will be able to be attracted to your light, to your energy. And now there is no this light, and it is difficult for a person to understand. When you begin to show yourself as real, then the other person will see and understand you, and will be attracted to this world.

One of the criteria for our implementation: we like what we do and we are happy in other areas. The era of asceticism, serving as a monk has already passed. In our time, a person should be happy, joyful, happy in relationships, comfortable, successful. When all spheres are worked out and light is shed in them, this is the real realization.

K: I would like to reach this point, to the feeling of joy, harmony and happiness. There is one more question about one message from S., there was such shocking information about the transition that I was even indignant. There is sometimes a problem with these messages in terms of inconsistency, but I did not count on such information.

Q: All channeled information is given to us in order to hook us. Somehow, we need to be awakened - who works with what, who how, who works with what tools. And these channelings are for us to think, get indignant or upset, or rejoice. And if some question worries, then you need to go and see why it worries, to get to the bottom. If it resonates, then there is something inside that resonates with it. People have been asking questions for a long time: “Why is there no truth there?” It will never be there, channelings are not intended to convey the truth to us, they are precisely for us to work on ourselves. In this way indirectly allowing us to develop and go our own way.

TO: I had a contact last year, and I just can’t determine from what level the essence was. It started with anxiety in the upper part of the chest, then I saw an alien, they showed some fantastic animals, the eye was in the center of the screen, they showed a piece of paper written by my hand - I didn’t have time to make out what was there. What level was it?

IN: It doesn't matter what level, what matters is what they wanted. Well, I'll tell you that they were from the fifth - it will not give you anything. The main thing is what they wanted to say or why they came to you.

TO: I don't know what they wanted.

IN: If they are already reaching out to you, then this is necessary, and not only for them.

I have organized courses through the Higher Forces, which are called. Just for such people who understand that they are from another civilization, but cannot understand what kind of function they have here, why they stayed here on Earth: whether they have a contract, or an agreement or something else.

And within the framework of this course, the first lesson is a one-on-one meeting with your Teacher and with your civilization, through a contact, of course. And many people take this opportunity to communicate and reconnect with the Master and with civilization, and see why this break happened, why no one remembers where he came from. We organize such a meeting, and the person has the opportunity to ask questions. They ask the name of the civilization, but they do not say or say very rarely, so that the person does not become attached. The main thing is what kind of energy this civilization has, what characteristics, what mission, and why a person continues to incarnate here on Earth. Whether he has worked his way out and wants to do something new - then they help him deactivate old programs.

It is about cosmic energies, on the subtle plane we travel in the Universe, and the Teacher tells in a very interesting way on the example of the development of other planets. The course is long-term, we meet twice a week, and you can join at any time. A fairly high level of awareness of the participants: as such, there is no course program, and people understand that this is the way, everyone goes at their own pace and decide for themselves how often to go and when to finish.

TO: There is interest. Still, you opened a new facet for me, over which I need to think. Yes, the logic gets in the way.

IN: Logic serves me very well, I am grateful that I have engineering experience in structuring. But now I use it to put together a common puzzle of all the information that comes to me from different channels: from a person, from the Soul, from a past life. I put everything into a coherent picture, I collect it into an image that I already give to a person, and he is perceived quite well by him. So the logic serves, but again, the same question: who serves whom?

TO: According to your feelings, are there many people already awakened on Earth?

IN: Not good. For this we have come here now with our abilities, with our capabilities. I think you also have this service, you feel it, you like it, but you still don’t know how. But you will find yourself.

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