Verified final essay on the topic "Friend and buddy - what's the difference?" in the direction of "Friendship and Enmity".

Introduction (intro):

“Do not have a hundred rubles, but have a hundred friends,” says a Russian proverb (not related to this topic, it seems that the proverb was written so that there were more words). In a person's life there is a huge number of people: sometimes enemies, and friends, and friends. But what is the difference between true friendship and friendship? Thesis: In my opinion, a friend is a person who comes and goes. You can help each other, have common interests, sympathy, but at the decisive moment it is a friend who will come to the rescue - a time-tested person who you can rely on with confidence.

TO comment: not the best start for an essay on this topic, BUT !!! The topic is disclosed, the thesis is there and it is very well designed)

Argument 1:

There are many examples of true friendship and friendly sympathy in Russian classical literature. For example, in Leo Tolstoy's epic novel War and Peace, the relationship between Andrei Bolkonsky and Pierre Bezukhov is an example of true friendship. They do not need the money of another, do not put emphasis on authority. Heroes appreciate each other's inner qualities. Bolkonsky - kindness and wisdom of Pierre. Pierre is the intelligence and justice of Bolkonsky's decisions. Heroes repeatedly help each other in difficult situations: some with advice, some with action. The line of their friendship runs through the entire novel, until the death of Bolkonsky, after which Pierre still treats the hero's son with the same love.

A comment: the author of the essay went in the right direction, but touched too superficially main problem. It is important to describe in detail some case when a person really helped his friend in difficult times, no matter what.

The proportions of the essay are slightly violated: the main part should be three times the volume of the introduction.

Argument 2:

We find an opposite example in the novel by A.S. Pushkin "Eugene Onegin". The relationship between Onegin and Lensky was described by the narrator as “friends from nothing to do”. The heroes communicate almost daily, personal topics also flash in the conversation, but Onegin does not disdain to make fun of the feelings of the romantic Lensky, and as a result, he puts his reputation above their “friendship”, kills a friend in a duel.

A comment: Again, too little argument.

Moreover, this argument is not entirely relevant to the topic. "At the decisive moment, it is a friend who will come to the rescue ..." the author wrote in the introductory part. That is, in order for the argument to fit the topic, one must either write about how a friend came to the rescue, or, conversely, describe a situation in which a person refused help or "disappeared" in difficult situation because he was just a friend. (for example, "Love of Life" by Jack London, where Bill left the main character with an injured leg alone, alone with the wild nature)

Argument 3:

It is impossible not to mention the "lyceum brotherhood" of the Tsarskoye Selo Lyceum, among which was A.S. Pushkin, I.I. Pushchin, V.K.Kyukhelbeker and many others. No matter how hard life was for them, memories of the Lyceum days always served as a voice of consolation:

Gives the same comfort

May he illuminate the prison,

Beam lyceum clear days!

• Pushkin wrote in verse to Pushchin (the poem "To I. I. Pushchin"), sent to distant Siberian mines ... Here one can observe true friendship. Lyceum students from the "brotherhood" until the end of their days tried to maintain relations and help each other.

We all know very well that a true friend is a person who is ready to share joys and sorrows with you, who is able to come to the rescue at a difficult moment. But how to determine who can be called a friend, and who is just a friend? Let's try to find the answer to this topical question.

Buddy- a close friend.

Comparison

A friend is the person with whom there is a certain inner closeness, in the support of which one can be one hundred percent sure. Friendships are based on a fairly long acquaintance and regular communication based on a discussion of each other's feelings and experiences. Friendship implies a good acquaintance and pleasure from superficial communication with a person. However, it is not connected with the desire to trust one's secrets, open one's soul and count on support from a friend.

Friendship often serves as an intermediate stage between acquaintance and friendship. After all, before trusting a person, you need to talk with him for a sufficient amount of time, evaluate his behavior in different situations. You may not see a friend for a long period of time, but when you meet, you still have a lot of common topics. If friends do not communicate with each other for a long time, then, most likely, their relationship will come to naught.

It is also believed that a true friend is one, in extreme cases - several. And there can be many friends in life. These are kind of fellow travelers moving in the same direction with you, but able to change the route without warning. Sincere friendship implies disinterested moral support, empathy and mutual assistance. A true friend simply not capable of betrayal and meanness. Staying anywhere in the world, he will sincerely empathize with your grief and no less sincerely rejoice at your victories.

Findings site

1. A friend is the person with whom there is a certain inner closeness, in the support of which one can be one hundred percent sure. Friendship is simply a good acquaintance and the pleasure of communicating with a person.
2. You can trust a friend with all your feelings and experiences, but with a friend, too deep topics are not touched upon.
3. Friendship means long-term acquaintance and regular communication, while a friend is a recent acquaintance who periodically appears in your life.
4. A true friend is one, sometimes several. There can be many friends in life.
5. A friend is open to selfless moral support and empathy and is not capable of meanness and betrayal, which cannot be said about a friend.

What is friendship? Everyone understands this word in their own way, but it is easy enough to give it a general definition. Friendship is a special type of relationship based on affection, respect, trust and care. Friends rejoice for the successes of each of them and empathize with the losses. They try to be honest with each other, always ready to help. Most often they are connected by common interests, but sometimes friends can be addicted to completely different things.

At the same time, people should respect each other's hobbies. There is a proverb: “A friend in need is known”.

It seems to me that this wisdom conveys the whole meaning of friendship. What is the difference between friend and buddy? In life, it often happens that friends become friends, move away from each other. Buddies are an environment that does not inspire much confidence. Such relationships do not oblige to anything and exist only for a certain period of time. They are quite shaky, easily arise and also evaporate.

Recall the novel by E. M. Remarque “Three Comrades”. The main characters of this work went through the First World War together. It was then, having gone through many difficulties and trials, they became friends. And then, years later, they opened

joint business. Robert Lokamp, ​​Otto Kester and Gottfried Lenz hold on to each other and do not leave in trouble. Need urgent health care Patricia, Robbie's beloved, and Otto, postponing all his affairs and problems, takes off and brings a doctor from another city. Lenz gets to a fascist rally, his friends take him away from there, and when he dies, Kester does everything to find the killers. Thus, Remarque in his work shows an example of true friendship.

Now let's turn to M. Yu. Lermontov's novel “A Hero of Our Time”. The understanding of friendship by the main character - Grigory Pechorin - is somewhat distorted. He believes that one of the friends is always the slave of the other. He does not know the value true friendship. Maxim Maksimych met Grigory in the Caucasus. A friendship developed between the two characters. They lived together, hunted game, they were interested in spending time with each other. The time came and they had to part. And now, a few years later, fate brought these people together again. Maxim Maksimych was very glad that he was about to see his old friend Pechorin. But the meeting turned out to be quite different. Maxim Maksimych, overwhelmed with the joy of meeting him, approached Pechorin with outstretched arms, but he greeted him coldly, only shaking his hand, which greatly upset Maxim Maksimych. Their friendship, although we no longer dare to call it friendship, was defeated in the fight against time. After the departure of Pechorin, Maxim Maksimych wept bitter tears of resentment, in his thoughts they were very good friends, friends for life, but it turned out differently. With this story, Lermontov showed the difference between the concepts of friendship and friendship for each person.

Thus, I want to conclude. We must be able to distinguish between friendly and friendly relations. After all, only with a true friend you will not be lost.

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Friendship. Companionship and friendly relations

Love

3. Family

1. Personal relationships are the result of basic human needs for:

‣‣‣ unity with other people;

‣‣‣ security;

* emotionally positive relationships;

* self-realization, etc.

Features of personal relationships: the significance of people for each other, the priority of the value of communication over the purpose of communication.

establishing personal relations contribute to:

* closeness of people;

* external attractiveness;

* similarity of beliefs, interests;

* mutual sympathy.

Forms personal relationships; love, family, friendship, dating, etc.

2. Love - this is a feeling of attachment to the object of love, the need for connection and constant contact with him.

Love can have a different moral value based on the object to which it is directed. Can be distinguished:

* love for the whole world, love for God, for all people, the ability for mercy (elevating love);

* love for the fatherland, people, etc.
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(lies in the basis of the worldview);

* love for parents, children, women or men (should be part of the meaning of human life);

- love for objects, activities (has no specific moral value).

Love between a man and a woman how moral sense:

* based on biological attraction, but not limited to it;

* affirms the other person as a unique being;

* means accepting a loved one as he is, as an absolute value;

* reveals the personality of the other (his best, not yet realized possibilities).

One can single out love-care (parental, fraternal, etc.). Its components are:

* care for the object of love (trying to protect him from dangers, problems, work for his good, etc.);

* responsibility (sense of close connection with the object of love, fulfillment of duty);

* respect, attitude towards the object of love as a valuable person.

3. Family - primary group of society. It is based on consanguineous, spiritual, economic and legal (although the family is not always formalized legally) ties of people.

In a family, a person acquires:

* feeling of safety, comfort, support;

* conditions for self-improvement;

* relief of everyday worries;

* moral consciousness, ideas about good and evil, human relations, etc.
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(for kids). Family relationships imply :

* call of Duty;

* Responsibility for your family members;

* self-restraint, subordination of selfish aspirations, passions to the interests of the family.

Family relationships regulate various requirements : compliance with mutual obligations by spouses, care for children, the elderly, etc.

4. friendship - it:

* interpersonal relationships that have moral value;

* relationships of mutual understanding, trust and support, which are individual, selective;

* based on mutual affection and community of interests and beliefs;

Friendly relations can be implemented in forms :

* emotional attachment;

* business community;

* spiritual community;

* complementarity (complementarity), etc.

Friendship as a moral feeling is based on selflessness, honesty and sincerity, selflessness. It excludes utilitarianism, selfish aspirations, measurement, etc.

Dominating moral values ​​in friendship: active support and mutual assistance (more characteristic of friendship between men), psychological support, mutual understanding. Friendship support is unconditional.

Partnership - relationship:

* having moral value;

* Manifested mainly in group relations;

* are an assessment of relations in a group of people (a team, etc.);

* based on equality and mutual respect;

* Level differences social, economic, etc.;

are based on the interests of the common activity.

buddies relationship:

* do not have a high moral value;

* are stable relationships;

* imply comfort of communication;

* do not include full mutual understanding, trust and mutual assistance;

* do not imply additional obligations, except for the usual norms.

Acquaintance - it is mutual sympathy that arose on the basis of a superficial perception of each other. Relations of acquaintance have no moral value and do not impose additional moral obligations.

Friendship. Companionable and friendly relations - the concept and types. Classification and features of the category "Friendship. Friendly and friendly relations" 2017, 2018.

What is friendship? Everyone understands this word in their own way, but it is easy enough to give it a general definition. Friendship is a special type of relationship based on affection, respect, trust and care. Friends rejoice for the successes of each of them and empathize with the losses. They try to be honest with each other, always ready to help. Most often they are connected by common interests, but sometimes friends can be addicted to completely different things. At the same time, people should respect each other's hobbies. There is a proverb: “A friend is known in trouble.” It seems to me that this wisdom conveys the whole meaning of friendship. What is the difference between a friend and a friend? In life it often happens that friends become friends, move away from each other. , which does not inspire much confidence.

Such relationships do not oblige to anything and exist only for a certain period of time. They are quite shaky, easily arise and also evaporate.

Let us recall the novel by E.M. Remarque “Three Comrades”. The main characters of this work went through the First World War together. It was then, having gone through many difficulties and trials, they became friends. And then, years later, they opened a joint business. Robert Lokamp, ​​Otto Kester and Gottfried Lenz hold on to each other and do not leave in trouble. Patricia, Robbie's lover, needs urgent medical attention, and Otto, postponing all his affairs and problems, takes off and brings a doctor from another city. Lenz gets to a fascist rally, his friends take him away from there, and when he dies, Kester does everything to find the killers. Thus, Remarque in his work shows an example of true friendship.

Now let's turn to M.Yu. Lermontov's novel "A Hero of Our Time". The understanding of friendship by the main character - Grigory Pechorin - is somewhat distorted. He believes that one of the friends is always the slave of the other. He does not know the value of true friendship. Maxim Maksimych met Grigory in the Caucasus. A friendship developed between the two characters. They lived together, hunted game, they were interested in spending time with each other. The time came and they had to part. And now, a few years later, fate brought these people together again. Maxim Maksimych was very glad that he was about to see his old friend Pechorin. But the meeting turned out to be quite different. Maxim Maksimych, overwhelmed with the joy of meeting him, approached Pechorin with outstretched arms, but he greeted him coldly, only shaking his hand, which greatly upset Maxim Maksimych. Their friendship, although we no longer dare to call it friendship, was defeated in the fight against time. After the departure of Pechorin, Maxim Maksimych wept bitter tears of resentment, in his thoughts they were very good friends, friends for life, but everything turned out differently. With this story, Lermontov showed the difference between the concepts of friendship and friendship for each person.

Thus, I want to conclude. We must be able to distinguish between friendly and friendly relations. After all, only with a true friend you will not be lost.