Remember how, as children, we clung to the TV screen when our favorite film, The Three Musketeers, was on there. As we admired the fearless trio of musketeers, we sang along with the young d. Artagnan "It's time, time, we will rejoice in our lifetime." And how unpleasant we were the cunning Cardinal Richelieu, Rochefort and the most negative hero of the novel - Milady. She - the Countess de La Fère, Lady Winter - constantly pursued our heroes, created intrigues and brought death with her. But at the same time, some force attracted to this woman branded with a lily flower, her strength and cunning also deserved admiration ....

Terekhova - Milady

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Albatross

I don't believe in a child.
Here on all psychological sites they write: the main thing is faith in the child, support from parents.
Excellent, gentlemen psychologists.
And if there is no faith in the child? Well, you don't believe in him.
Always stupid children, children with SR, unteachable - they are somewhere out there, far away, in other families.
And you're talking about faith like that.

What if you have? If you yourself have an unteachable degrading child?
Whereas? Chanting "We believe in ourselves!" like in the finale of the movie "Requiem for a Dream"?
Spit and not do at all?
So the public is pushing.
- Ah, he will go to a school for fools (and he belongs there anyway,
because he is a fool)!
- Oh, you yourself are ruining your child.
- But with Tanya-Kolya-Petya they are engaged, and they have progress, but you do not study, and Vasya loses his skills.

And how to deal with it? How to force yourself? How to force it, Egyptian power?
So he sat down to study - and the province went for a walk:
You give him a finger in a book, and he plays cars with his other hand.
You remove the cars - it just spins.
You try to read a book - at every word he interrupts and carries some kind of heresy.
And yelling, yelling, yelling, spitting (sorry) on your clothes, poking a finger in your eyes, throwing things...

Sometimes I want to talk about my problem.
But who will you talk to?
With husband? He himself is horrified.
With parents? They won't listen, they'll say, "It's my own fault," or, "I don't have the nerve for all these things."
It's good when you can just say "I don't have enough nerves" and go home (hang up the phone, log out of Skype...).
And you can't afford that luxury. You have to spend the rest of your life with this child.
Every day, day after day. Always. You're on life, darling.

And you're always to blame, no matter what you do.
Do you give pills? - bad. Don't you? - worse.
Doing - breaking down - yelling? It’s bad, you can’t yell, it loosens the already pampered system of the child,
that jumps on your head while you lie half dead.
Are you not busy? It’s bad - the child doesn’t shine even now, but it will grow even more trenchant.
I went for a walk with him on the street, does he beat passers-by there? Too bad, take him home.
Are you at home with him? Too bad, the kid needs to move.
In short, from all sides bad, whatever one may say. For others, it is bad, but for oneself it is the embodiment of evil on earth.

You can go to the forum - there you will grab so much abuse that it lasts an average of six months.

Phew, I spoke up.
Let's chat, shall we?
Tell us about your difficulties with children and how you overcame them. Or not overcome.
If you really want to run with slippers - well, run, now what to do with you ...

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Maria

Hello girls. lost today wedding ring, while I was engaged in meat, I decided to take it off and put it on a hundred, and forgot to put it on. After that, the table was wiped many times and still there is no ring of mine! Already searched everything, every corner. Now what to do with the husband's ring? Should I keep it the same or put it off for now? We are not painted, just started wearing since 2017. We were going to sign next summer.

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The more I sleep, the less harm I do

Good afternoon!
What can you say about classes in paid speed reading schools?
I looked, they have a network in almost all cities. What is really useful? Some reviews write that it is harmful for children to learn speed reading, grammar allegedly then suffers ..
Girls from Ufa, tell me good developmental classes, sections, dances .. Right now there is an entry for September everywhere ...
Thanks to everyone who subscribes.

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Marianna Tarasova

Girls, please support.

I live with my husband and 4 year old child. Relatively recently I went to work, I'm just getting used to it and life is getting better. But it got worse with her husband. He stopped funding me completely. He doesn't even give me food or travel. He looks for something in my things, looks at the contents of my bag, pockets, reads the messenger on the phone, reads the browser history. She put on the wrong thing, put the plate in the wrong place, etc. She reproaches me with new clothes. It became very difficult. No hello, no reply. He goes to his parents, communicates with relatives, and I'm all at work or alone with the child on weekends.

The topic of divorce has been around for a long time. But I was not ready to move out to rented accommodation with a child. Once he changed the locks in my apartment in my absence. The child was 6 months old. I stood for 5 hours with a child in my arms at the entrance (((then my parents did not support me, there was simply nowhere to go, there was no one to leave the child ... Then, apparently, he took pity, let him in. Live. There were a lot of things. But I didn’t dare to leave. It sucked like a swamp It seems that I will not arrange my life, I will not earn money for housing.

Support with a positive experience. I am depressed and desperate.

162 Published on 26.09.18 22:52

Widespread fame Strizhenova, by the birth of Holoshin, gained a story with surrogate motherhood.

The infamous granddaughter of director Alexander Strizhenov again made itself felt by posting a post on her page in Instagram. Judging by the words of Alexandra, her common-law husband left her without explaining the reasons for his departure. However, she recently gave birth to a child from him.

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"What is the worst thing in this life for me? Betrayal. Betrayal from a man who screams at all of Russia intkbbee loved love and will love and ... leaves you .. leaves ... leaving you with a sick child without a livelihood ... my heart is torn to pieces from resentment, anger, pity for my children ... so much has been gone through and now I understand that I was left completely alone - there is no support or support nearby ... I am dying ... I am dying ... but all this is inside - I will hold on for the sake of my children - after all, as it turned out, no one but me needs them. Where to go? Where to run? What to do? How to live on ... I'm powerless ... I just don't exist ... broken, broken, crushed. Take everything that he gave, sell it, tell me I don't care about the child and just leave .. I don't want to live! I don’t want to!” wrote Alexandra Strizhenova (author’s spelling and punctuation preserved).

Recall that Strizhenov, by the birth of Holoshin, gained wide popularity with a history of surrogate motherhood. She was carrying twins, but the "customers" refused her services and disappeared shortly before the birth without paying. As a result, Strizhenova left the children to herself, although she already had two relatives.

Later it became known that the son of the "customers" announced a boycott to his parents and began to live with Alexandra, they had a son with developmental disabilities.

Note that Alexandra recently became a member of "The Stars Came Together" with Oscar Kucher, where she said that she had again become a surrogate mother in order to somehow solve financial problems. She also told the presenter in what conditions she now lives with her family.

“We live in a rented house. The water here is very bad. My husband earns only for food. I once asked my uncle Alexander Strizhenov to help me with housing, he met with me, gave me money. I am very grateful to him, said that I would return it. And when I asked: “Maybe we will start talking as relatives already?”, He answered me: “I’m not at the age to make friends,” Strizhenova said.

By the way, now Alexandra is pregnant again: as a surrogate mother, she is carrying the children of a famous artist.

06.04.2018 |

Surrogacy is becoming an increasingly common procedure in Russia. Allowing yourself to become a parent in this way can be a very wealthy person who does not pay too much attention to public opinion, for example, the star of show business.

What is surrogacy

Surrogate motherhood means the birth of a baby by a woman who is not genetically related to him. The procedure, at first glance, is quite simple. A woman is “planted” into the uterus with a ready-made embryo. Her task is to carry, give birth and give the child to people whose germ cells were used for conception.

The future baby will have the features of his biological parents: health characteristics, type of appearance.

For carrying a baby, a surrogate mother, as a rule, receives a solid monetary reward. There are cases when a woman expresses a desire to bear someone else's baby for free. Between the biological parents and the woman chosen to bear the child, an agreement is concluded that clearly regulates the relationship between the parties.

Key points in the contract:

• conditions of medical support for pregnancy (schedule of visits to the doctor, place of future birth, state of health of the woman);
• requirements for the lifestyle of a surrogate mother during pregnancy (no smoking, alcohol, hair dyeing, sports, etc.);
• monthly amount for current expenses (vitamins, medicines if necessary, testing);
• the amount of the fee that the surrogate mother will receive after the birth.

The contract is drawn up by an experienced lawyer. It is important to prescribe and agree on all kinds of points, even little things, so that after the birth of the baby, there is no conflict between the parties. The agreement is strictly confidential.

Surrogate motherhood is feasible only in specialized clinics. It is conducted not by an ordinary obstetrician-gynecologist, but by a reproductologist.

In Russia, this medical technology is only gaining popularity. The close attention of the press is riveted to the children of famous people who decided to become parents in this way.

Children of stars born from surrogate mothers

The public is still hearing about the birth of children from Philip Kirkorov, Alla Pugacheva and Maxim Galkin. But not only the King and the Primadonna of the Russian stage decided to use the services of a surrogate mother.

1. Alla Pugacheva and Maxim Galkin

Publication from Maksim Galkin(@maxgalkinru) Jan 27, 2018 at 3:50 AM PST

Star parents spend a lot of time with their children, and often post photos and videos on their official Instagram pages.

2. Anna Kournikova and Enrique Iglesias

In mid-December last year, the famous Russian tennis player and no less famous singer of Spanish origin Enrique Iglesias. Happy parents named the girl Lucy, the boy - Nicholas.

Photo: Instagram @annakournikova

The public speculated that the children were carried by a surrogate mother. No official confirmation has been received from the couple, but throughout her pregnancy, Anna posted photos and videos on her Instagram, in which there was not even a hint of a change in the star's figure. Although Enrique's mother gave an interview where she said that the pregnancy of the former tennis player was easy.

Photo: Instagram @enriqueiglesias

According to Isabelle Preisler, Anna and Enrique were not going to hide the fact that they would soon become parents: “Anna is a domestic girl, rarely goes out. Therefore, you did not know that they would soon have children. Several nannies help the star couple in raising children.

3. Ingeborga Dapkunaite

In the end of January current year there was information that the famous actress Ingeborga Dapkunaite became a mother. The celebrity's son's name is Alex, and he looks no more than two years old. Dapkunaite showed the heir on the occasion of her 55th birthday.

Ingeborga Dapkunaite with her son Alex

Various assumptions about the birth of Alex appeared in the press. Most journalists are inclined to believe that a surrogate mother gave birth to the son of an actress. Ingeborga Dapkunaite does not comment on these rumors. The actress rarely shares something really personal with the public.

4. Sergey Lazarev

For the Christmas holidays of the current year, the popular singer Sergey Lazarev posted a photo on his Instagram little boy. Fans have speculated that the Eurovision star has become a father.

A little later, Sergei confirmed this. It is known that the boy's name is Nikita. The artist even got a tattoo on his neck, which depicts the Latin letter N.

Sergey Lazarev with his son Nikita

Philip Kirkorov in the Secret for a Million program said that a surrogate mother gave birth to a son Lazarev. Sergei, after the Christmas picture, stopped hiding Nikita from the public, and often publishes photos and videos with his participation.

5. Philip Kirkorov

Philip Kirkorov immediately stated that. The daughter was born in November 2011, the son - in June 2012. Philip named the girl in honor of his mother and Russian pop prima donna - Alla Victoria. The artist chose the name for his son Martin-Christina spontaneously.

Kirkorov is a caring father. In numerous interviews, Philip emphasizes that now children occupy the main place in his life. Alla Victoria and Martin often go abroad with their eminent dad.

Philip Kirkorov with Alla Victoria and Martin Christine

Philip often posts the daily life of his son and daughter in his microblog. Children go to sports and music clubs, actively study English.

6. Dmitry Malikov

At the end of January of this year, singer, composer and songwriter Dmitry Malikov confirmed that. A 25-year-old surrogate mother gave birth to a son to him and his wife. The star couple was present at the birth, which took place in a prestigious clinic in St. Petersburg.

Photo: Instagram @dmitriy_malikov

The name of the boy is still unknown. Elena and Dmitry Malikov emphasize that they did not want publicity for this issue, but "someone leaked the birth of their son to the press, and they had to comment." The boy is completely healthy and, as noted by the eldest daughter of the Malikovs Stephanie, extremely calm. Dmitry often sings lullabies to his son, whom he has dreamed of for many years.

7. Alena Apina

Alena Apina was one of the first among the Russian beau monde to use the services of a surrogate mother. A healthy girl, whom the singer called Xenia, was born in 2001. Apina did not hide the fact that an outside woman and the achievements of modern reproductive medicine helped her become a mother.

The singer herself emphasized many times that she had dreamed of becoming a mother for more than 10 years. She had 9 miscarriages. “I was treated wherever possible. For a woman, this is a huge tragedy - not being able to conceive and bear her own child, ”said Alena Apina.

Alena Apina with her daughter Xenia

The singer has a great relationship with her long-awaited daughter. Ksenia has been studying at music school, and dreams of following in her mother's footsteps.

8. Emmanuil Vitorgan

In March of this year, 78-year-old Emmanuil Vitorgan and his wife Irina Mlodik. The couple does not comment, but it is possible that they had to resort to the services of a surrogate mother.

9. Cristiano Ronaldo

In the world, surrogacy has been considered an accepted phenomenon for many years. World football star Cristiano Ronaldo used the services of a surrogate mother. In 2017, the athlete fulfilled an old dream - he became the father of beautiful twins. Ronaldo already has a 7-year-old son, who was also born by a surrogate mother.

In November last year, a constant girlfriend, a model from Spain, Georgina Rodriguez, gave birth to a daughter to the athlete. The girl is actively pursuing a career, so the athlete’s mother Dolores helps raise children to star parents. The kids spend most of their time with her. For younger sons and daughters, the athlete hired two nannies.

Cristiano noted that he did not tell his eldest child about his mother. "My sons have loving father and many relatives who adore them. I will definitely tell my eldest son about his mother, but a little later. The younger ones are still small, and they perceive Georgie as their own mother.

How much does surrogacy cost in Russia

The information is hidden from the public, but according to the most conservative estimates, using the services of a surrogate mother will cost 1.5 million rubles. Each case is individual, and only by contacting the clinic, you can find out more about the cost of this service. It is known that the Malikov family laid out 2 million dollars.

About 500 of the 2 million Russian children who are born every year are born by a surrogate mother.

Surrogate motherhood has long been practiced in the world. and in Russia to pay attention to children born in this way. They are cute, funny and developed, just like children born traditional way. Couples who are not able to bear and give birth to a child on their own also have the right to the happiness of motherhood and fatherhood.