If you opened this article, then most likely you are tormented by one question: “How to propose to a girl?”. This is a very important stage in the life of every man, as it is the first step towards creating his own family. Therefore, you simply have to make sure that your proposal is remembered by your soul mate for life (in good sense this word, of course :)).

A lot of girls dream of a beautiful declaration of love and an unforgettable marriage proposal from their young man. They dream, dream .. and in the end they receive an offer: “Let's live together”, “Move to me”, “Let's sign”, “Well, since you are pregnant, then we will get married”, “Let's get married”. There is absolutely no romance! It's a pity, because this moment should be one of the most unforgettable in life.

What not to do when you propose to your girlfriend:

• you can’t make an offer “as if by the way”, on the go;
• you can’t offer to get married when you are in a state of intoxication - by doing this you show disrespect for your girlfriend;
• it is impossible to chew, listen to music or otherwise be distracted by extraneous matters during the offer;
• never propose to your girlfriend over the phone;
• do not try to propose to your chosen one after having sex, in bed;
• it is advisable not to make a show out of the proposal - many girls do not like too much attention to themselves at such moments. So, if you still decide to do something enchanting, for example, to propose in live some TV show - think about it 100 times;
• hiding the ring in food is already a hackneyed idea. Yes, and a girl can, after such an evening, get into a chair to the dentist;
• if your girlfriend is not a fan of any sports game, do not try to propose at the stadium;
• don't propose marriage in front of her entire family. For your soul mate, this will only result in extra stress;
• if your girlfriend did not immediately answer “Yes”, but said “I will think about it”, do not make a tragedy out of this and do not express your complaints to her. For her, this is a very important decision in life and she is not obliged to immediately answer you with her consent;
• do not propose if you are not 120% sure of your girlfriend!

Before you propose to your girlfriend, you must:

• Talk to your lover about a possible life together.
• You must be sure that both of you want it and that you don't have any disagreements about your future (living with your parents or separately, having children right away or in a couple of years, etc.).
• Inform the girl's parents.

Note that you must inform, not ask their permission. After all, you're living with the girl, not her parents, so even if they don't particularly approve of your marriage, you don't have to listen to their opinion. By talking to your parents, you will not only show your good upbringing, but also express your respect for them.

• Pick your own ring.
• Make a plan. If you can’t come up with anything original, we advise you to contact special agencies for organizing marriage proposals. .

You should pick up a ring without the participation of a potential bride. It is very important not to miscalculate with the size and appearance of the ring. How to determine the size of the ring on the finger, we will definitely tell you in the next article. But in order to pick up a ring that would be to the taste of your chosen one, you will have to sweat a little.

To do this, ask what rings your girlfriend likes the most, for this you can “accidentally” walk past a jewelry store window and ask her about it. You can also involve your mother, sister or best friend girls.

Be sure to think through all the little things: in what place will you propose a marriage, on what day (you don’t need to propose on those days when your beloved is loaded with other problems), what you will tell your beloved, how you will hide the ring, etc.

21 original ways to beautifully propose

1. Choose a beautiful restaurant, agree in advance with its administrator about the upcoming event. Plan everything with him down to the smallest detail: when you enter the restaurant with your significant other, what food will be served, how many candles will be and where they will stand, when the necessary music will play, when you need to turn off the lights. Well, then, in such a romantic atmosphere, it will be possible to get on one knee, get a ring and make a marriage proposal.

2. The version with dolphins will be very original (if, of course, there is a dolphinarium in your city :)). Swim with your girlfriend along with the dolphins, and then, when she gets out of the water, distract her for a minute, and at that time a dolphin will swim up from behind with a box on her nose. When the girl sees this miracle, propose to her.

3. There is another option, but it is a bit dangerous. You need to fly to your beloved .. by helicopter, propose, and take her to some beautiful place where you can relax for a few days.

4. A "school option" is also possible. At night, you write the phrase “Marry me” on the pavement outside her window, and in the morning, when the girl wakes up, come to her with a huge bouquet of flowers and shout to the whole yard about your feelings for her.

5. You can make an intriguing birthday present. To do this, you must hide the box with the ring in several boxes nested in each other. Imagine with what impatience your girlfriend will open this box-matryoshka until she reaches the most important gift!

6. An offer to your beloved girl can be made on New Year or for Valentine's Day. On such days all dreams should come true. It will be generally chic if you do it high in the mountains, inhaling the fresh fragrant air. Such an offer will certainly be remembered much more than an offer in the same restaurant.

7. All girls dream of a prince on a white horse. Well, fulfill the dream of your beloved: you are a prince, the only thing left is to find a white horse. Imagine how surprised your girlfriend will be when she sees such a rider! Well, if you can find a knight's suit, then success is 100% guaranteed.

8. If you like skating, take your girlfriend to the skating rink, and you yourself leave for a minute and tell the whole arena about your feelings for her on the speakerphone!

9. Unforgettable will be a marriage proposal on the roof of a 9-storey building (if you can find a higher building, it will be even better :)). Bring a table, champagne, sweets, don't forget flowers and a ring. Quite a real and original proposal.

10. Arrange with your work (or institute) partners to bring a letter to your girlfriend in which you would write to her about your feelings. When she reads it to the end, you go in yourself and ask her a question.

11. Offer your soulmate to go on vacation for a week in another country. There, in a romantic setting, it will not be difficult to propose :).

12. Invite her to the place where you first met. Take sweets, champagne with you and propose to her.

13. On New Year's Eve, hang a box with a ring on the tree and tell your future wife that you have prepared for her a small gift that she will find on the tree.

14. Rent a balloon. In the evening, at sunset, high in the sky, tell your girlfriend that you love her very much and cannot imagine your life without her, and ask her to marry you.

15. Consider putting your photo on T-shirts. You can learn about applying to T-shirts on the Texprint website.

16. Make a video in which you tell a girl how you feel. Arrange with the administration of the cinema to show this video before the movie starts. Don't forget to come to the movie with the girl a little earlier so as not to miss your video :).

17. In the evening, on the seashore, write a marriage proposal on the sand. Spread a blanket on the sand, cover a romantic dinner and invite your girlfriend to see this beauty. The best time to propose is at sunset.

18. Offer to give her a foot massage and discreetly put your toe on the ring.

19. If you are in the village, you can leave a note to your beloved, in which the place of your meeting will be assigned (it is desirable that this place be a gazebo on the shore of a lake or river).

20. If you live together, then write a marriage proposal on your stomach, putting a box with a ring on top and a note “Sunny, if you agree, wake me up :)”

21. If your significant other loves adventure, you can do the following. You send your beloved a message saying that you are waiting for her at the entrance in 5 minutes. She gets out, but instead of you she sees your friend with a bouquet of flowers and a note that says: "Get on such and such a bus and go there."

She arrives there and sees another friend of yours with a clue. Etc. It turns out a kind of quest, at the end of which she will meet you with an offer to marry you.

In conclusion, I would like to say: it is not as important as proposing to a girl, what is more important is what feelings you have for each other! With a loved one, as they say, and paradise in a hut!

I offer you my hand, you will be happy with me
Believe me, I will not break my oath if you become my wife!
And at the fire of hot love you will endlessly bask,
It will shine, the sun is brighter .... Take my heart as a gift

The step is quite serious and responsible. Valentine's Day is coming soon and this is one of the most suitable moments for the implementation of your plans.

An offer is one of the most important things in a relationship. The proposal should be made in an official tone, with some degree of formality. A marriage proposal is very important point in the life of a couple, which marks the transition of relations to a completely different level, so it cannot be done in between times, inserting into the conversation a phrase like "the weather is fine today, it's probably time for us to get married." The best way to propose a hand and heart is the traditional phrase-question "Will you marry me?" (or as an option "do you agree to become my wife"), uttered in an even, calm voice, without embarrassment and excessive excitement.

Be ready for any response from the girl. Of course, when a guy proposes, he hopes that his beloved will immediately rush to hug him with the words "yes, I agree", but you need to recognize the girl's right to say "I can't answer now, I need to think" and "no". And if the answer of the chosen one is not the same as the man expects, he should treat him calmly and with understanding.

Your happiness is in your hands and in order to do everything beautifully and correctly, be sure to take into account the tastes and desires of the girl.

It is important to choose the right moment for a marriage proposal. The guy needs to guess the moment so that at the time when he makes an offer, his beloved is not tired, in a hurry somewhere, not getting enough sleep or bad mood. Therefore, for an engagement, it is better to choose a weekend or a holiday, or to propose on a day that means a lot to a couple - for example, the anniversary of an acquaintance.

Make sure in advance that nothing could spoil the moment of the marriage proposal. For example, if a guy plans to propose in a restaurant or other public place, it will be useful for him to agree in advance with the people who work there (administrator, waiter, musicians, etc.), tell them his plan and ask for assistance. Also, the future groom needs to take care of his appearance- a marriage proposal is considered a solemn moment, and at this moment you need to look accordingly.


It is better to choose a ring yourself. Involving a girl in choosing a ring automatically implies that a marriage proposal will not be a surprise for her, and romance in a situation where everything is known in advance is also not enough, which means that it is better to buy the ring yourself.

Finding out the ring size that will suit a girl is quite simple - you can look at the size of the rings that she already has, ask her friends or relatives about it, or even measure her finger while she sleeps, and then compare the result with the ring size chart . Determining which ring a girl will like is also simple - just analyze what jewelry she wears, or stop at the classic version - an elegant gold ring with a small pebble.
Here's a tip for you - 50 original ways to make a marriage proposal to a girl and hear Yes in response


1. Do it the old tried and true way: get down on one knee with a rose in your mouth and a ring in your hand. The place here is no longer important: an expensive restaurant or a noisy intersection, the edge of a forest or the very center of a metropolis. The main thing is the unique romance of the gesture itself.

2. Arrange with the waiter to bring her favorite dessert with a ring inside. (Be careful that she doesn't swallow it).

3. Invite her to the theater and ask the administrator to let you go on stage and propose immediately after the performance.

4. Show up at her office in the middle of the day with a red rose, a bottle of champagne and a glass in which to put the ring.

5. Write with chalk on the street under her windows: "(girl's name)! Will you marry me?" The same can be done in winter by writing in the snow or laying out an inscription from numerous candles.

6. Call your local radio station and ask them to play your offer live at a time when you know for sure she/he will hear it. Dedicate a song to her.

7. Gather all your friends and family together in some cafe, restaurant or at home and propose your hand and heart.



8. Gather your friends and family around her house and give them posters that say, "Will you marry me?" and stand in front of everyone on one knee, holding the ring in your hands.

9. Arrange with someone to bring her a telegram to work, which will describe your romantic feelings. A couple of minutes after the delivery (after all, she still has to read all this), go in yourself and ask your question.

10. Create a web page on the net: everything about your life together. Photos, places that mean a lot to both of you. Send her an SMS with the address of your page and a few romantic phrases. Most importantly: do not forget to write a cherished question on the main page of the site.

11. Take big box, put a smaller one in it, then even less and put a ring in the last smallest box. It will be more interesting if each box is presented as a gift (it will be interesting for her to unfold them all). Or you can take a plastic box or something glass and fill it all with foam, and put a ring on the bottom. No one has ever given such a gift to your girlfriend!

12. Find a big box and bring it to work with your loved one. Decorate it (the box, not the girl) beautifully and ask someone to tell your friend that a package has been brought for her. At this time, climb into the box yourself and when she opens the present, she will see you there - the man of her dreams with a ring in his hand. Dare!

13. Call her to nature (picnic) and there, “to the sounds of a nightingale,” tell her about your feelings.

14. Get up early, cook her favorite breakfast, don't forget the rose and champagne. Wake up your beloved with a passionate kiss and ask your question.

15. Or get up a little earlier than your beloved, put a letter with beautiful declarations of love and a ring on your pillow, and retire to the shower yourself. May your awakening be pleasant.

16. Sprinkle rose petals all over her bed and place a wrapped ring in the center, tell her you bought her a present to show how much you love her. When she opens it, tell her that you want to spend the rest of your life with her.

17. Prepare a romantic dinner and put around napkins with inscriptions, for example: the person sitting opposite wants to marry you. Or slip a napkin (use cloth, not paper!) through the ring, when she unrolls the napkin to place on her lap, she will find the ring.

18. Take her on a date to the place where you first met, take a bottle of champagne and a couple of glasses with you to celebrate your engagement (after you propose to her).

19. Bake a cake or order a cake from the store that says: “Will you marry me?

20. Buy your loved one a watch and write "let's get married"!

21. Pour her a glass of wine and put a ring on the bottom, when she finishes the drink, the ring will also be revealed.

22. new year idea: Hang the ring on the Christmas tree and invite her to find a new decoration.

23. If you are dining in a restaurant, ask the waiter/waitress to write, "Will you marry me?" chocolate cream on a saucer around her dessert.



24. Prepare her a bath with fragrant candles, throw rose petals into it and after your beloved is comfortable in her, lower a rubber duck with a ring into the water in front of her.

25. Give her oysters in bed and put the ring in the shell.

26. Write your proposal on a piece of paper and place it in the bottle. When you are at the beach, pretend to have fished it out of the sea. Have her open the bottle and read the message.

27. Write your proposal out of light-accumulating and glow-in-the-dark stars and glue them to the ceiling. When she goes to bed, she will definitely read it.

28. Propose at the ice rink

29. Paste arrows in various places in her apartment and tell her that if she goes all the way to the end, she will see the surprise that you have prepared. The last arrow will point to you holding the ring.

30. Write your proposal in the cold on the windshield of her car.

31. Invite your girlfriend to go to football (hockey) - because your favorite team is playing! Ask the commenter to say your suggestion.

32. Propose after returning from the store. Let the ring seem to be accidentally lost among the purchases. For example, if you know for sure that your beloved will not miss the chance to enjoy hot donuts, place the ring next to them, and at the same time prepare a touching speech.

33. Go to the beach and write on the sand in big letters: "Will you marry me?"

34. Offer her a ride on the ship and ask your question.

35. Go up with her in a hot air balloon, take a bottle of champagne with you and say and make a romantic proposal.

36. Invite her to a concert of her favorite band and ask one of the participants to propose on your behalf, in such a situation everyone will make concessions to you.


37. Go looking for treasure. Make a small chest, put the ring in it and lock it with a key, and hide the key. Post your clues about the location of the key everywhere (at work, at home, around the city - fantasize!). When she finds the key, she can open the chest and find the engagement ring.

38. Compose a sentence in verse and tell it under her window.

39. Throw a birthday party, invite friends and family, and propose.

40. Give her a thick, dated album full of photos, memorabilia, and miscellaneous commentary. The last should be the date of the day when you present your gift, and in front of it, let the question be displayed in beautiful letters.

41. Offer your beloved a break from the hustle and bustle by going to Venice, Prague, Paris for the weekend to inhale the romance of these cities and make the most unforgettable declaration of love.

42. A rainy day is not the time to be sad at home, and even more so for two people who love each other. Stretch multi-colored rubber boots, waterproof jackets and go ahead - conquer wet sidewalks. Carefully drop something into a puddle, let her raise the ring herself.



43. On a day like this, you can afford a fancy car, expensive champagne and a sparkling ring. Arrange a real holiday for your beloved, let her enjoy this time to the fullest. You will need a personal driver who will take you to a picturesque place, leave for a short time, and then rush off to celebrate such a significant event.

44. Are you waiting for your beloved from work? Prepare her a hot bath with abundant foam, light an aroma lamp that exudes the aroma of lemon, decorate everything with rose petals. Let your beloved relax, and then kiss and put a ring on your finger. Nice offer in a pleasant environment.

45. Pamper her after sound sleep waking up with a cup of aromatic coffee and a light breakfast served in bed. Put a rose and a box with a ring on the tray. With sleepy eyes, she may not immediately notice her, but how much joy there will be when she finds a pleasant surprise. A good start to the day, a happy start to a new, life together.

46. ​​Outside the city, lying under a huge all-consuming sky with millions of shining stars painted on it - is this not the best place for a frank declaration of love? Lunar nights set you up for frank conversations, long confessions and touching moments.



47. Women are extremely loving high heels! If your girlfriend can also be attributed to the category of women who run all day long in high heels, then she will be grateful to you for an evening foot massage. During it, put a ring on her toe.

48. If your sweetheart has dreamed of skydiving all her life, why not give her such pleasure? Set a time for the jump, and don't forget to take the treasured box with you. After jumping out of the plane, propose to your beloved. Say that you will not pull the ring until she says yes. True, it is better to present the ring itself already on the ground, so as not to accidentally drop it.

49. Place your proposal on one of the pages of a newspaper or magazine that your loved one reads regularly. And be there when she reads it.

50. One of the most beautiful and memorable surprises on this day is to decorate her room with a huge amount of balloons and flowers. In the middle, plant a large bear cub, in whose paws let there be a box. Or meet your beloved yourself with a ring in your hands and a rose in your teeth!

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"Let's get married" - the cherished words for girls who dream of getting married, starting a family. When there is true love, I want not just to be together, but to tie the knot of marriage with my beloved and dear person. For a man, this is a serious step that needs to be approached responsibly, and accordingly make an offer.

If you have been together for a long time, it would seem that you already know everything about each other. This does not mean that a marriage proposal should be made simply or corny on a date, in a restaurant.

The key to a long and strong relationship is the ability to surprise, to present pleasant surprises. And one of the most wonderful and unique days is the marriage proposal.

To get the coveted "Yes", you need to try, especially in our time! Here are some interesting options to help you!

1. Dinner with the bride's parents. This is an option for those who honor traditions and believe that you must first ask permission from the bride's parents, and then officially from the bride! Most likely it is suitable for families strict rules. Prepare dinner and invite the bride's parents to visit.
2. Classic variant- dinner in a restaurant, a ring in dessert (or in a glass) and musicians! Flowers and of course a cozy romantic place where no one would interfere!
3. Breakfast offer! After a romantic dinner and an unforgettable night, wake up your beloved with a cup of your favorite coffee (tea), a sweet dessert and a box with a ring next to it! Of course, it is important to say the right words, I'm sure you will find them!
   
4. Marry me cake. If your girlfriend is very fond of sweets, then she will definitely appreciate the cake. Especially if it has such an inscription on it! All you have to do is wait for a positive response!
   
5. Limousine ride. You can simply invite your beloved on a date so that she does not know what you are planning. There will be flowers, champagne in the limousine, you can ride around the city, and at the most unexpected moment present a ring and ask the question: Are you ready to be with me, my love, always? " Yes"
   
6. Shopping trip. It's like foreplay, go with your soul mate to the store for a new dress, be patient, your opinion is very important to her. In the package with the gift dress, put the box with the ring. At home, when she runs to try on a novelty, she finds a ring, and she cannot resist!
7. Gel balls. If your chosen one lives in a high-rise building, it will not be difficult for you to inflate the balloons and write one letter on them (marry me). Of course the ring and flowers. It's original and not expensive!
8. Public recognition. An option for daredevils, for those who are ready to scream about their feelings. The place should be crowded, a train station, a shopping center, a square in the city center ... you can take a loudspeaker, or just draw attention to yourself, read poetry, declare your love, and ask her for her hand: “You are the girl of my dreams, ready to be there all my life, marry me!" (ring).
   
9. Theater proposal. Arrange in advance with the director of the theater. Somewhere in between, go on stage and propose to her. Such an act, she will not forget, and the audience too!
10. Radio proposal. If your loved one listens to the radio, choose the moment when she will definitely listen. And don't just say hello, make an offer. It is desirable that she be in the next room at this time, the answer is yes, you are provided.
11. Impromptu. A proposal in the summer rain, just walking in the park, in your favorite place (the choice is yours), the main thing is that it be unexpected and romantic!
12. Balloon offer. To propose in the sky, give in to learn how to manage hot air balloon. It's not easy, but it's possible! Just imagine how romantic the captain of an airship opens champagne in the sky and offers his favorite article to his queen!
13. Proposal in a bottle. The option is suitable if you have the opportunity to spend time on the seashore or at least somewhere on the river. The meaning is that while the beloved is sitting with her legs in the water, a bottle with a ring floats to her feet!
14. Skydiving. Totally for the daredevils. In order to realize it, you need to dress up like courses, prepare accordingly. When you're ready, you can jump off with your loved one. Propose to her during the flight.
15. Notes. Create intrigue, play. Let your beloved find the ring herself, and you leave notes for her, like: open the closet and there will be the following instruction ... Perhaps you have seen something similar in the films!
16. 100 reasons. Favorite box "" can be used in different ways! For example, add a ring there. Beloved girl opening scrolls with nice words, suddenly finds a ring! All the work is done!
17. Video from photos. This video is very romantic. Create a video clip from your photos. Finish the video with the inscription on the screen "Let's get married."
18. Proposal in Paris. Paris is the most romantic place, your proposal can be made on eiffel tower. Where hundreds of people climb it for this very purpose!
    
19. Proposal under the moon. Choose a place closer, such as the roof of the high house In your city. It is good if the sky is clear, the moon is full, candles, wine, flowers.
20. Relaxation. Prepare for your beloved a bath with rose petals, a glass of champagne, and when she has already relaxed, put a ring on your finger.

In this article, you looked at 20 ways to make an original proposal to your girlfriend. I hope that in this list you found something for yourself. In any case, create a romantic atmosphere, choose pleasant music, and give your loved one a gift!

You have met the one and only girl with whom you want to connect fate, go through life together and grow old surrounded by children and grandchildren. And to hear: “Yes! I agree! ”, It remains to make an offer. How to make it memorable and become a family history, and your chosen one bragged about it to her friends?

Training

Find out the size of the ring

To propose to a woman, first of all, you need to buy a ring.

There are two options: you make a surprise or go to the store with your chosen one, and she chooses the ring herself.

In the latter case, the surprise effect will be lost. We will not consider such a situation.

Does the girl really love you

In order not to get into a stupid position, you need to be 100% sure that the girl loves you. You can read about how to do this in.

How to choose the best words to talk about

Before proceeding with the implementation of your plans, it would be nice to think about what you will say.

In fact, you can say whatever you want. The only rule is to avoid pompous, bombastic phrases. It will look stupid and unnatural. The more concisely you formulate your thoughts, the better. Ideally, just say a few words: “I love you. Will you marry me?".

House offer options

romantic dinner

It is necessary to create a romantic atmosphere around: light candles, decorate the room with balloons or flowers. For a change, you can sit on a bedspread on the floor.

Don't forget to buy a bottle of champagne.

No need to throw rings into glasses, put them in cakes, fruits. A ring placed in food you can choke.

Wrap the ring case in cellophane and place the case in the center of the cake, on the bottom, so that it is not visible. Ask the girl to cut the cake. When she cuts the cake and pulls out the box, you can get on more than one knee and make her an offer she can't refuse.

Such a proposal will cost about 3-4 thousand rubles. Without the cost of the ring.

If you have the skills to work in Photoshop, create collages from photos, create websites, you can create a website or post collages from photos in a certain order on a photo hosting site.

Photos can be arranged in the form of a tree: first, each of you is small, then photos of teenagers, adults, then you met, your joint photos. End it all with the question: “Are we going to continue this tree with our family photos? Will you be my wife?"

Professional website creation will cost from 5 000 rub. Good hosting will cost about 100-150 rubles. per month, but for such purposes it is quite possible to use free.

Quest at home

Come up with tasks, solving which, the girl will move around the apartment, approaching the finish line. There the last riddle will be waiting for her, the answer to which will be a box with a ring and a cherished question. Here it is only your imagination and the Internet to help you.

Photo puzzle

Order a puzzle from a photo where you kneel in front of your girlfriend with a box in your hand.

You can merge 2 photos, your new one where you are standing in front of her and the existing photo of the girl. You will put the puzzle together, and in the final you will hear a request: “Become my wife!”

Ordering a puzzle from a photo costs from 300 rubles to 6500 thousand depending on the size. The main thing is to choose a magnetic one. You can then place it in the refrigerator.

You can find a suitable agency using Yandex on request: "Puzzle from a photo in (your city)"

Suggestions in a restaurant

Gather relatives and friends, make an offer in front of everyone.

After the musician puts on her favorite music, invite the girl to dance. Arrange with the waiter to bring a tray with a ring and a question about marriage laid out on a tray of fruit pieces or written chocolate. Get on your knees and propose.

Combine business with pleasure, if you already have a vacation planned and you are going on a trip, make an offer on the trip.
Or arrange a romantic trip specifically for the proposal.

5 most romantic places in the world to propose

Paris- one of the best places. Propose a girl to marry in a restaurant on the Eiffel Tower.

You can fix the result at the Père Lachaise cemetery at 12 o'clock at night, giving the sphinx a kiss on the grave of Oscar Wilde. According to giving after this, the lovers will no longer part.

Verona. Juliet's house. You can attach a note with your proposal to the stand next to the sculpture of Juliet. You can propose on Juliet's balcony.

Stroke the parts of the Juliet sculpture so that happy love does not end.

Relaxing in a bungalow and writing on the sand, coupled with an atmosphere saturated with romance, is the key to a positive response.

Charles Bridge in Prague. Carry your girlfriend through it, according to legend, this is the road to happiness. And at the end, make an offer.

By the way, the length of the bridge is 520 m. Therefore, before carrying the girl, it does not hurt to practice a little.

Butterfly Valley in Turkey. Untouched nature, many butterflies, the beauty of waterfalls and silence. The only way to get there is by sea. What could be more romantic than a proposal on a boat? Tie a box with a ring with a thin fishing line, and make the girl “catch” it

public offerings

Here you can not do without agencies to organize such events. Agency employees will agree on everything and settle issues with the administration of the place chosen for the event. You can find a suitable agency in any search engine for the query: “Agency for organizing holidays in (your city)”, “Make an offer to a girl with the help of an agency in (your city)”.

Here are some options:

• In the theater, go on stage after the performance;
• In the cinema, after the film, launch a video dedicated to your relationship (From 18,500 rubles);
• On the field after the match, an inscription with a question appears on the scoreboard.

Flashmob will cost from 13,500 rubles without shooting. With video and bells and whistles (balls, fire show, increased number of people, etc.) about 100,000 rubles.

How will it look like? For example, you invite her for a walk. She will be approached strangers, and give a rose. The surprise of the girl will not be the limit.

Do not forget to make a surprised face, otherwise, the girl will immediately guess everything.

The last person will give you a bouquet of flowers and a box with a ring, which you will give to your chosen one.

You can organize a flash mob for free, with the help of friends:

• Friends will raise their parts of the posters at once, constituting a marriage proposal;
• The guys begin to dance, diverting attention from the stand with a poster, on which a proposal will appear at the end of the dance;
• The guys dance, balls appear and a banner with a proposal;

The most creative ways

Balloon and the offer on it will cost from 5000 rubles. depending on the airline.

Organize a pseudo-interview(pseudo business meeting). This can be done either through an agency, or arrange with friends who are unfamiliar to the girl so that they play the role of personnel officers (customers).

The option is suitable if the girl is looking for a job or if her work involves meeting with customers. This guarantees the full effect of surprise both from your appearance there and from further actions. The meeting must be scheduled in a cafe in a shopping center.

Then sing a song for her, or play an instrument if you can play compact instruments (violin, guitar, flute) and are not afraid to draw attention to yourself.
Present the ring after the performance. If there is a beautiful fountain nearby, with light music, get the ring out of there by tying it to a fishing line. And give it to the girl.

Proposal in the form of a diary. Make a diary. Enter there significant events and date of relationship. Describe your emotions, impressions and thoughts at that moment. You can add photos. Celebrate the day of the offer. Further, the diary will become a family one.

Kinder Surprise. If a girl loves sweets, then you can hide the ring inside the Kinder Surprise. To do this, carefully divide the chocolate egg into two parts, put the ring, “solder” the chocolate with a warm knife and carefully wrap the wrapper.

If the risk is in your blood then you can do something like this:

Prince on a white horse. All girls dream of a prince on a white horse. Why not make this dream come true literally. The biggest problem is finding a horse. This can be done at the nearest equestrian club.

Knock on the window. You can rent a car with a lifting basket from electricians. Your beloved will be very surprised when you wake her up by knocking on the window and give her a huge bouquet of flowers.

Organize an unexpected and unplanned picnic in nature or in the park and propose marriage during it. Take the girl on a walk to a place where a picnic blanket will be spread out, there will be a basket of food, a table will be set on this blanket.

If you decide to get out into nature, do not forget the insect repellant.

How not to propose

If you do not want to receive a negative answer, spoil such an important moment in the life of two, then you should not make an offer:

• via sms or phone. It looks frivolous and looks like a joke or a mockery;
• in extreme ways if you have a homely or conservative girlfriend;
• in public ways, if your girlfriend is shy and does not like to draw attention to herself;
• on the run and by the way;
• in a state of intoxication.

Whatever method you choose, it will be a truly memorable event in your and her life. For her, the very fact that she is the only one, the one with whom you decided to connect your life, will be pleasant. So keep it up!!!

So you've found the woman you want to spend the rest of your life with. How do you ask her to be yours forever? You have to stop being nervous and remember that if you have a plan and know what to expect, you will be able to propose to your girlfriend without ruining everything. You shouldn't do anything supernatural or crazy unless you think that's what your girlfriend expects. The most important thing is to speak from the heart and find the most perfect way to tell her how much she means to you. If you want to learn how to propose to a woman, see step 1. Make sure you choose a romantic hideaway or, on the contrary, a crowded place, but one where she would say a cherished “yes” and not “no”! And do not forget to ask your parents for the hand of your chosen one, otherwise, they may dislike you!

Steps

Make sure it's your "one". You have probably already thought about this more than once. The most important thing here is to know that you love her and think that she is the one. Make a list or think of all the reasons that make you want to marry her. This action is very important for expressing your love for her during the proposal, and it will also help you make sure that you are making the right decision. When you see your girlfriend, you should feel that you want to share the rest of your life with her, and that now is the time to tell her about it.

Be as sure as you can that she will say yes. Although it is impossible to predict this 100%, you should have a strong feeling that your girlfriend loves you and wants to spend the rest of her life with you. Think about whether she has hinted that she wants to marry you, that she wants to live with you, have children, that she wants you to be part of her family, etc. If she never mentioned these things, then you can try to start with her conversation to catch the direction of her feelings; if she feels out of sorts and moves the conversation to another topic, then she may not be ready for marriage.

• If you've only been together for a couple of months, make sure she's ready for the long haul. Although many happy married couples get engaged after just a couple of months of being in a relationship, spend more time with your sweetheart to make sure you are made for each other and then she will be more likely to say yes.
• While you may be nervous about figuring out the direction of her feelings, if you're unsure, it can save you from an awkward situation during the proposal itself when you figure out she wasn't ready.

1. If her parents are a little old-fashioned, and she won't take it as an insult, you can ask your parents for the hand and heart of your beloved. Although many consider it old-fashioned to ask permission from the father of the bride, this act can definitely not be superfluous and will be considered a gesture of respect on your part towards the bride's family and will show that you will always be attentive and tactful to her relatives. It's also a sign of courtesy, would her family mind? But again, this really depends on the girl and the situation in her family, so test the soil well.

   Decide when you want to propose. It is very important to correct the time, because it is, in fact, the only thing you can determine. It is impossible to say for sure what is the best time to propose, it is important to choose a moment when you are not in a hurry, when you are calm, collected and ready. The time when you have planned everything in detail and are ready can be considered ideal. Although there are things that you always need to keep in control:

   • Is there a special day for both of you, like your anniversary or first date?
   • Sometimes, the time is chosen by itself, especially when you live in different cities and you only manage to meet together on holidays and this is the only chance to ask her.
   • Think about the time of year when she would like to get married. It's a good idea to ask her or ask her friends and family if she has a favorite time of the year, month or time period when she would like to get engaged so that she can plan her wedding without haste and shock. If she mentioned she wants a fall wedding, try to propose around that time in the year - if you propose just a few months before fall and she wants a bigger wedding, she might not like the idea of ​​waiting any longer. more than a year to get married.
   • Offering a hand and heart on holidays or birthdays has its positive and negative sides. On the one hand, on such days this event may look more significant, especially if it all takes place in the family circle or it is a big joyful holiday. But on the other hand, in the future you will always have to combine this important date for you with some other holiday. If you want to celebrate the day of your engagement, for some this day will seem in no way special, but for someone it will be remembered forever!
   • Whenever you propose, make sure you have some alone time after the proposal. If, for example, you want to do this for Thanksgiving when your families gather, be sure to invite her for a walk or a private place before the whole family is stunned by the news and you don't have a moment to digest what just happened.

2. Decide where you want to propose. Place and atmosphere - they will be remembered for the rest of your life, and the most important thing to remember is that you are the main creator of this atmosphere! In principle, you can make an offer absolutely anywhere, but the main thing is that it be meaningful for both of you, so that you feel comfortable, calm and natural in it.

   Now you need to decide how exactly you will propose. Since you have already decided where and when it will be, it remains to think over all the secret moments of how to do it. You can usually go the traditional route and give the ring, but you might want to add something extra special to keep it in her memory forever. Keep in mind that the story of how you proposed will be told from her words many times, so make sure everything is done. the best way! There are many different options and possibilities, but the choice is yours. We offer you several options for inspiration:

   • Think traditional pose. Get on one knee, take her hand and ask her to marry you. The beauty of such a gesture is recognized worldwide through films and can be performed anywhere. Just keep in mind that if there are strangers there, they will definitely eavesdrop (out of good intentions, of course!), so be prepared for their interest and support.
   • Think about whether she would like public recognition or would she like it to happen in private? Although in the movies, girls are often proposed in public, in real life, most engagements take place in a private atmosphere. You might think it's a great idea to propose during halftime at some sporting event or at a close friends' party, but she can feel terrible about all the attention. Besides, if things go wrong, you'll be even worse off because you embarrassed yourself in front of a whole bunch of people.
   • Think about things that could complement the event, like a quartet playing a romantic tune or serenade, or a small fireworks display, etc. These things are completely optional and will be great on your budget, of course, if you don't have friends willing to help. But if this is in your spirit - such additions will add charm to the atmosphere.
   • Hide the ring. It's another one known way propose - she finds wedding ring and you offer your hand and heart. The ring can be hidden in flowers, chocolate, in a gift. Don't forget to ask her to open the gift right away or you might have to wait forever! And make sure you hide the ring securely, not so she can accidentally swallow it; it will ruin the whole holiday.
   • Be creative. If you don't want to propose traditionally, or you can't craft a confession yourself, there are plenty of ideas that involve planning but can be really entertaining and show that you are the one love-mad woman she wants to spend the rest of her life with. You can prepare, for example, your own puzzle or crossword puzzle, the solution of which will be the words "Will you marry me?".
   • You can make something small and cute with younger brothers and sisters, or even your pet.
   • If you have enough funds and you are sure that she will like it, you can order a plane that will write a cherished question in the sky while you are walking in the park.
   • Another popular way is to propose while on vacation. If you decide on this option, make sure she says yes! Nothing ruins your vacation like being rejected on the first day.
   • Consider a public offer, such as an ad in a newspaper that she will definitely read, or have the DJ of her favorite radio announce the offer, or post a question on a billboard she passes by every day.

3. Choose an engagement ring. If you know what kind of rings your soul mate likes, that's just fine. If you do not know or do not want to ask, take a temporary ring that she can exchange for something she likes; for many women, this is the best solution. But if you know for sure which ring she wants, try to quietly take the ring she is wearing to find out the size. She will be touched that you remembered the ring she wanted and you chose right size! But if you have no idea what kind of ring she wants, and ask "in between times", she can see through your intentions.

   • Don't spend your entire fortune on a ring, especially if you can't afford it. It is better to choose something modest and classic and spend this money on life together than spend all your savings on jewelry.
   • Read the article on "How to Choose an Engagement Ring" to learn more about it.

4. Dress as best as you can, according to the event and location. Wear something that makes you feel beautiful and attractive. This is a special occasion and deserves to make you "look perfect". She will definitely appreciate it. This, of course, applies when you plan to propose in an elegant place and you have time to change. If you declare your love on the beach, on a picnic, skiing or soaring in the sky, choose wisely what to wear.

5. Train. If you're going to propose, you need to practice. Practice asking and explaining the reasons why you love her so much and want to spend the rest of your life with her. This will help you not to stutter and speak nicely when the time will come. This does not mean that you have to force yourself. And although all these words will help your girlfriend feel the most special, she may soon remember nothing but the words “Will you marry me?”.

   • Keep your speech simple, to the point, and from the heart. For example, “Lena, my love cannot be described in words. You are the most kind, generous, beautiful and helpful woman I have ever met and honored to have the opportunity to spend a lifetime with you. Will you be my wife?"
7. “Kneeling down” is originally the pose of a gentleman showing full respect to his future wife, which is very cute!
8. Talk to her about it. If you think you can live together for the next 50 years, you can talk about things like getting married. Make sure she wants to marry you.
9. Don't worry if she says no. “No” or “I should think about it” is also a big step.
10. Originality is cool, but the main thing is not to overdo it.
11. If you don’t understand anything about this, ask her friends or relatives for help.
12. If possible, set up your camera or have someone take pictures. It would be cool to show the photos to family and friends afterwards.
13. During the marriage proposal, do not be nervous and do not say any nonsense (although this is normal). You can record your speech and listen to it in order to practice and avoid mistakes later.
14. Ask the waiter if they can serve champagne when you propose.
15. Consider hiring a professional. There are organizations that organize personal, creative events at the proposal of the hand and heart and help relieve tension that may arise in connection with a cherished question.

Warnings

• Try to avoid clichés like proposing at dinner or hiding your ring in your food. Pick a place she likes.
• Try not to confuse her by telling her that you are not made for marriage or that you will soon need to run away somewhere. This is cruel and unnecessary, and you can even get into trouble when she feels irritated because of your unwillingness to make any commitments and because of your excessive employment. If you spoil this evening, it will be difficult to bring back the good atmosphere. And even if she guesses what you are going to do, the uncertainty will torment her until you make the offer itself. Try to do everything "like in a fairy tale"!
• Don't give yourself away when preparing for an offer. If you need to buy a ring or arrange a place, just say that you are busy at work or that you have a meeting with friends. It will be better than inventing some complicated stories.
• Avoid sentimental or "defeat" phrases such as "I know this is all you wanted and now I'm yours for life."
• Calm your nerves; it is unlikely to be romantic if everything ends in incoherent babble or feeling unwell due to fear.
• If you're really nervous, hire someone to plan everything for you so you don't have to worry about the details.