This article is a continuation of the article "How to return a loved one? And whether it is necessary to return him." Therefore, before reading it, I recommend reading the first part.

In total, we continue the conversation about how to return a man.

Third. What is the likelihood that the man will return?

To simplify completely, we can say the following. There is something that attracts a man to you. And there is something that repels. (Otherwise he wouldn't have left, would he?). Therefore, the more you can find attractive and less repulsive, the easier it will be to return the man.

What attracts a man to a woman? Attracts love, emotions, shared experiences, your sexuality, self-confidence, etc. Accordingly, the conclusion is simple: the more of these emotions are left, or the more merits you have, the higher, all other things being equal, the likelihood that a man will return.

How to determine whether a man has such emotions in relation to you or not? If a man tried to preserve your relationship before leaving, argued a lot, maybe even shouted, did something (it doesn't matter whether it was right or not in this case), was clearly worried about the breakup, and is trying to prove something to you now, then there are forces that attract a man to you.

If the break in relations proceeded sluggishly, the man did not even try to prove anything, argue, did not slam doors and did not worry, then there are clearly few attracting forces left. Accordingly, in this case, the likelihood of a man returning to you decreases. This usually happens when a woman was unable to change herself (and a man, of course, too) at a time when it needed to be done. And then there were the same conflicts, possibly repeating according to the same scenario for several months and years, without any hope of resolution.

After that, a man and a woman no longer believe that something can be changed, they are tired and the energy of love, ineptly spent on proving their innocence, instead of real changes, left the relationship.

Now about what pushes a man away from a woman and what to do about it?

Here here and the most secret secret happy relationships and the answer to the question "how to return a man", so to speak, and not at all in strengthening love feelings (although this is important, of course). You need to focus not on enhancing love feelings, but on reducing the negative qualities that push a man out of your relationship. Whatever you do, in any case, love feelings (let's call them hormones) inevitably diminish over time. It is difficult to control and enhance them, and what is important, you can increase them twice, but not more.

The repulsive qualities of men can be reduced hundreds of times, often with relatively little effort. Coming back to the topic of the article, if you can reduce the pushing qualities of men, he will most likely return.

What are the push qualities?

In your case, of course, I don’t know the specifics. But if the man left, then the woman drove him out by some of her actions. This is an axiom.

If a man did not meet with a woman only for Don Juan motives, then he will never leave a woman just like that. So she kicked him out.

The conclusion from this axiom is very simple. If you remove from a woman's behavior that which drives a man out, then a man will return. (I suppose, of course, that at least minimal forces remain, attracting a man to a woman).

Now again about the chances of a man's return. As you probably already understood, the chances are higher, the stronger the man's attraction to you and the more you can remove from your behavior that which repels the man from you. Timing is just as important. There is an optimal return period - from 10 days to 2 months. If a man has not returned for more than 2-3 months, then the chances are already insignificant, and it is no longer worth counting on his return. (Although there are, of course, exceptions).

Fourth. The technique of returning a man.

If a man left, after which he went somewhere to Australia and no longer writes to you and does not show himself in any way, then, of course, you can hardly do anything here. However, this is more of an exception to the rule. So now how to get it back?

For the most part, after 2-3 weeks, and for some protracted conflicts and after a month or two, the man will somehow meet with you, learn about you from your acquaintances, or somehow show himself.

If you have changed, that is, at least a little learned to attract men to you and removed repulsive behavior, if you are ready for him to come back just like that (I wrote about this in the first part), and if you are still free, then he is almost certainly will return, sometimes even if he left for another woman. (Maybe you don't need it in this case, but that's another question).

In fact, everything is very simple. The implementation is also not very difficult. What to change in yourself? I think that you know about this better than me, but a small questionnaire for reflection.

Why are you in Lately the man was constantly "trained" (pressured), but he still did not change? This is one of the most important questions. If you can accept a man in this matter as he is, with some of his shortcomings, then this is a huge step forward. What could it be?

- Bad habits (smoking, etc.)

- Selfishness,

- Sloppiness,

- Inability to listen and support.

You may ask that I have to come to terms with the laziness and selfishness of my man? No, I am not proposing this in a strategic sense, that is, in the long term. But a woman criticizes a man (as often and vice versa) not at all in order for him to correct himself, but in order to feel his importance, or by implementing her children's programs and complexes. After all, you will not seriously prove to me that a woman wants to correct a man, criticizing him for 10-20 years in a row, and most importantly, seeing that this does not work at all?

Of course not. It’s not a matter of wanting to fix something.

If you want to fix it, fix it. Take one quality, find an effective methodology, help him train, do not demand quick results, calmly treat some returns to the old, encourage the efforts of a man, etc. But just don't criticize.

But first you need to remove in yourself the program that provokes a man's return to the old. After all, it is a woman who often subconsciously does not allow a man to change. (For example, it is no secret that the wives of alcoholics, despite the often tremendous efforts they make to heal their husband, then in every possible way unconsciously provoke him to break loose). The best way to read about parenting programs and the method of how to correct male negative habits is in the book by Anastasia Guy. "How to make a man get off the couch 2. Secrets of happy women."

- The second thing that can be done. Consider what your man was asking for all the time, especially before leaving, but you thought it was unimportant and didn't do it.

For example, he whined that you do not delve into his affairs, that you do not know how to praise him, that you do not appreciate this and that, that you cut your hair short, but he likes long hair that you don't say you love him, that you don't meet him when he comes home. Maybe he wanted you to stop criticizing him for all sorts of little things. (And 95% of what happens in our life, because of which a man and a woman criticize each other, are, by and large, trifles).

If you think that you have already given your life for the sake of a man, you work for him as a servant, then, of course, you urgently need to develop self-confidence and remove the role of “mother” in yourself. How to do this is also described in detail in the book by Anastasia Guy "How to make a man get off the couch 2. Secrets happy women".

You, of course, have your own list. Take a couple of the most important points and remove them from your behavior.

— The third thing to do. Don't too hope that the man will come back.

It is, firstly, true that a man may not return, despite any of your behavior.

Secondly, the hope of a return only worsens the chances of this very return of a man. The ideal ratio is "good if he comes back, but if not, then no."

Even if you do everything absolutely right, this only increases the likelihood of his return several times, but is not a guarantee of the return of the relationship.

— Mind your own business... It doesn't matter what you do. Change
hairstyles, take classes, play sports, go somewhere, flirt with someone.

Do not think that you will miss the arrival of your man or his call. On the contrary, you will only attract. This point is much more important than it sounds. You need to go about your business, not only in order to distract from the thoughts that the man is gone.

Often a process in itself doing their own thing attracts men much more than anything else. After all, if a woman is only busy thinking about “him the only one,” then nothing interesting, in the man’s opinion, happens in a woman’s life and one can not return.

If a woman is doing something other than thinking about a man, then the former partner becomes curious about what is happening there, and even in his absence? Do not forget that men are owners and are often not ready to let a woman go so easily, especially if he has some positive emotions left for you.

Only, of course, again, do not expect this, but really immerse yourself in your affairs and, in fact, come to terms with the fact that the man will not return.

— If you started to communicate somehow, do not force this communication, and as I said, do not overly hope that it will necessarily lead to the fact that the man will return.

If a man only wants to talk, then listen, ask yourself something. If only for a walk, then take a walk. Consider it new man, which should conquer you, and not vice versa.

Do not rush to live together again, because quarrels can flare up with renewed vigor, especially if you are not very intensively engaged in accepting a man, did not have time to work out some skills, or just too little time has passed. After all, you need a lasting result, and not just the fact that the man returned, and left again a week later (or you kicked him out). And at a distance it is much easier to change something in yourself and think about it.

- Should you show initiative in communication? You know my opinion, I am against it. Maybe arrange a "random" meeting and ask how his life and listen, but this is the maximum for the most active women. Even if you cannot control yourself at all, then in any case, do not write about love for him. That's all, almost the end of the relationship. If your hands do not listen to you and are typing SMS themselves, then just apologize and that's enough. Do not write repeated SMS and do not wait for an answer.

It will be much better if you first come to your senses, and then change. Men feel 100 km away. the fact that the woman began to accept him. It seems to me that men do not even need to see a woman or learn any information about her for this, everything is transmitted through the air. Be prepared for his call or "chance" meeting.

- If three months or more have passed, you have not started dating again, but only do what you remember about ex-man, then you need to reformulate the problem. Not "how to return a man", but how to get rid of addiction to a man. Already with this formulation of the question, you can look for answers. The easiest way is to start remembering the negative traits and actions of the person who left, maybe remembering with a friend who did not like him.

Just don't dwell on this exercise for life, as some women do. Forgot a specific man and that's enough. You don't have to conclude that all men are not very good.

Of course, advice in such a situation is sometimes quite difficult to reach a person. Therefore, if everything is completely bad, then read only the first part of the article several times. If you have come to your senses at least to a minimum, then be sure to do other points. I would like, as usual, at the end of the article to say what to do and the man will definitely return. But in this case, this is not entirely true.

Therefore, rather like that. Do whatever is necessary. Go about your business, remove from your thinking and behavior that which repels men. If you do this, then either this man will return, or with another man, everything will definitely work out for you.

Best regards, Rashid Kirranov.

I have been dealing with dating, seduction and relationship issues for many years. One of the problems they turn to me is the question: is it possible to return the girl who left? This is a really very important topic, and today we will touch on it. If you broke up with your girlfriend, I can help you get your ex back. To begin with, every guy who comes to me wants to know what chance he has to get her back. From my own experience, I can rate it as a percentage by learning some of the details of the relationship. Of course, this is not a final assessment and everything can change along the way. For example, you had long-term relationship and the chances were high, but in the course of the work it turned out that she did not just leave, but moved to her lover, whom she had met behind his back for a year. Or the opposite example: only a couple of weeks pass and the girl herself gets in touch, admitting that she is bored and loves.

Is there a chance to get your girlfriend or wife back?

However, a woman who has noticed the first manifestations of a crisis should be very attentive and sensitive and try to survive it together with her husband, understanding and supporting him. Otherwise, there is still a chance that, faced with misunderstanding and coldness at home, a man will seriously hook on new life and will turn her so that there will be no turning back (for example, he will officially marry a new girlfriend, have a child, take an apartment on a mortgage and register it there).

Do children unite your family? This is also a very important question, because it seriously affects the moment that a man keeps in the family. If the children are still small, the man bears serious responsibility for them - material, household, must arrange them in a school, institute, then the likelihood that he will leave for good is slightly reduced.

So how do you get it back? part 2

It seems that life is still ahead and the very inner psychological mood for a new relationship can be much more active and deep than in the same 10 years, when life seemed to have begun to decline. At this sunset, with an unfavorable atmosphere in the family or when meeting an interesting woman, you also want to make some kind of leap, but it will be more emotional and superficial than deeply conscious and thoughtful.

Accordingly, all the joy from such an impulse can quickly disappear as soon as the first romance is replaced by the inevitable work on building new relationships. Who's guilty? The second point will be your own, but still, the most objective assessment of who was the source of your conflicts, who was “to blame,” who lacked what, who made claims, etc.

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And you will definitely be able to find out your personal probability, statistics and chances only after you try. As someone smart said: I'd rather regret what didn't work out than what I didn't try.

So all the same, does it make sense and what are the chances that a girl or wife will return in a situation if you broke up and she left for another? There is always a chance! To be more precise, there is a chance to restore the relationship as long as you are both alive. It may sound too arrogant, but it is. And what exactly this chance you can understand only by trying.

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And having tried it without confidence in the result. Yes, I know that you want guarantees, but life is pain and nothing can be done about it). Confidence in the result is an illusion. Starting to do something difficult (like returning a girl to a boyfriend or a wife to her husband), no one can be sure of the result.

The husband leaves. is there a chance to get it back?

Maybe in some ways you were too critical, but somewhere you did not want to give in, maybe somewhere you demanded more than he could, but once you could not support and understand him. In any case, even if it always seemed to you that he was nagging and in conflict, still there were some claims or discontent on his part. Try to figure it out: what if these discontent are not accidental? Maybe if you think very well and once again analyze the whole situation from beginning to end, then to some extent you will be able to understand his opinion and his claims? Perhaps, after all, in some way you went too far or, on the contrary, did not finish it? This is very important point, therefore, when everything is good, it seems to us that we are right in everything, we can act as it is convenient for us and as we want, and we believe that this is normal.

Take one quality, find an effective methodology, help him train, do not demand quick results, calmly treat some returns to the old, encourage the efforts of a man, etc. But just don't criticize. But first you need to remove in yourself the program that provokes a man's return to the old.

After all, it is a woman who often subconsciously does not allow a man to change. (For example, it is no secret that the wives of alcoholics, despite the often tremendous efforts they make to heal their husband, then in every possible way unconsciously provoke him to break loose). The best way to read about parenting programs and the method of how to correct men's negative habits is in the book by Anastasia Guy “How to make a man get off the couch 2.
Secrets of Happy Women ". - The second thing that can be done.

I will have to disappoint most of the visitors to this page, because, of course, there is no way to know the probability, but nevertheless, the question is important and I will try to explain the details. And before proceeding to the discussion of the topic “what is the probability that a beloved girl or ex-wife will return ”I will give a couple of examples of how the question itself usually looks.

Sometimes it is. Or so. Or like this. Or like this. In all these situations, the common thing is that a person wants to be sure of the result even before he even starts doing something. But as I said, you cannot calculate the probability. There is no probability and no statistics in a relationship.

Nobody submits reports to me with a full description of the problem and its solution. Therefore, it is impossible to give any kind of mathematical assessment IN ANY situation. All assessments are an attempt to hit the sky with a finger.

What is the likelihood that the ex-wife will return said that she does not love

Not "how to return a man", but how to get rid of addiction to a man. Already with this formulation of the question, you can look for answers.

The easiest way is to start remembering the negative traits and actions of the person who left, maybe remembering with a friend who did not like him. Just don't dwell on this exercise for life, as some women do.
Forgot a specific man and that's enough. You don't have to conclude that all men are not very good. Of course, advice in such a situation is sometimes quite difficult to reach a person.

Therefore, if everything is completely bad, then read only the first part of the article several times. If you have come to your senses at least to a minimum, then be sure to do other points.

I would like, as usual, at the end of the article to say what to do and the man will definitely return. But in this case, this is not entirely true. Therefore, rather like that.

If you started to somehow communicate, do not force this communication, and as I said, do not overly hope that it will necessarily lead to the fact that the man will return. If a man only wants to talk, then listen, ask yourself something.

If only for a walk, then take a walk. Consider that this is a new man who should conquer you, and not vice versa. Do not rush to live together again, because quarrels can flare up with renewed vigor, especially if you are not very intensively engaged in accepting a man, did not have time to work out some skills, or just too little time has passed. After all, you need a lasting result, and not just the fact that the man returned, and left again a week later (or you kicked him out). And at a distance it is much easier to change something in yourself and think about it. - Should you show initiative in communication? You know my opinion, I am against it.

As you probably already understood, the chances are higher, the stronger the man's attraction to you and the more you can remove from your behavior that which repels the man from you. Timing is just as important. There is an optimal return period - from 10 days to 2 months.

If a man has not returned for more than 2-3 months, then the chances are already insignificant, and it is no longer worth counting on his return. (Although there are, of course, exceptions). Fourth. The technique of returning a man. If a man left, after which he went somewhere to Australia and no longer writes to you and does not show himself in any way, then, of course, you can hardly do anything here.

However, this is more of an exception to the rule. So now how to get it back? For the most part, after 2-3 weeks, and for some protracted conflicts and after a month or two, the man will somehow meet with you, learn about you from your acquaintances, or somehow show himself.
Headings of the project Home "Psychology of men" This article is a continuation of the article "How to return a loved one? And whether it is necessary to return it ”. Therefore, before reading it, I recommend reading the first part. In total, we continue the conversation about how to return a man. Third. What is the likelihood that the man will return? To simplify completely, we can say the following.

There is something that attracts a man to you. And there is something that repels. (Otherwise he wouldn't have left, would he?). Therefore, the more you can find attractive and less repulsive, the easier it will be to return the man.

What attracts a man to a woman? Attracts love, emotions, shared experiences, your sexuality, self-confidence, etc. Accordingly, the conclusion is simple: the more of these emotions are left, or the more merits you have, the higher, all other things being equal, the likelihood that a man will return.

There are many questions from the beautiful half of humanity, to which they are looking for answers and cannot find. Girlfriends share their secrets among themselves, just like daughters tell their mothers "secret" information about their personal lives. After all, the relationship between a man and a woman is something special and exciting.

If a woman turns to a specialist, then with a probability of 99% will hear the phrase that she does not need to delve into what others tell her, otherwise she will do a bunch of stupid things and make a lot of mistakes. But how should a woman behave in a situation where at first the man leaves and then returns. How can she understand the logic of his actions and deeds? Let's take a look at the most popular questions.

How often do men return to their ex?

Based statistics- more than 50% of men returned at least once after leaving their woman. Why so often men, having decided on desperate measures, seek to turn everything back? There are several reasons for this. First, and perhaps most important, they realized how wrong they were. The second reason is that they are tormented by nostalgia, which in reality is only a force of habit. A man will repeatedly remember his ex-woman especially in the first two to three months. He will find common pictures, gifts from his beloved or a memory in his head. And he will scroll them over and over again, remembering and torturing himself more and more.

The psychology of men who will return

To the male left, he must have a good reason, just to break off relations, collect things and leave the woman with whom he lived for many years side by side, it is very difficult in terms of morality. If a man is looking for a reason to leave his woman, it means that he is weak morally, he cannot decide whether to stay or it would be better to break off the relationship.

He has constant doubts, he is in the middle of the bridge and does not know which way he should go. Such men are indecisive and irresponsible, they will try with all their might to find a reason for a scandal, in order to once again find out that the woman does not suit him, and leave the apartment with their things in a picturesque way.

Someone might hate such people, someone does not understand them, but when you have the same situation, you understand how wrong you were from the outside. After all, there is nothing more difficult than to understand what you want, who you want and where you want to go.

The psychology of men who are unlikely to return

Do not return men who have a solid character, a clear goal in front of them. Do not return to those women who cheated on a man or caused very severe pain... Men appreciate when there is peace, tranquility and happiness in the family, because where, if not here, can they take a break from work and people, see their loved ones and please them?

Here it cannot be said that everything depends on. The more likely truth will be the coincidence of all the factors that, when combined, help a man make his decision - whether to return or not.

The psychology of men who will never return

Will not return men who followed the "I said - I did" logic before the breakup, who make decisions quickly and don't spend a lot of time thinking about the consequences, they just take it and do it. Such a man has a strong and steely character and he knows what he wants. And let him then regret a thousand times that he did just that, but no one will know or notice.

If a man found new girl or a woman, with whom he began to develop a trusting relationship, with whom he feels like a king, and she is a queen, where care for each other and love is in the first place in a relationship, then what is the point for a man to return to his old family?

Influence of reasons for leaving on the likelihood of a man's return

What already mentioned earlier in the text, reason for leaving is one of the most important factors in a breakup. If a faithful and loving wife will wait for a man at home, who will not overload her husband's home for nothing, then why should a man leave? The male gender is famous for its habits, in other words, if a man is satisfied with everything, then what is the point of ruining everything and going into the unknown?

If the male left after a serious quarrel in the heat of anger, that is, there is a high probability that he will return when he cools down. A person has such a temperament and such a psychology of thinking. He needs to take a walk fresh air, think over everything, calm down, and only then can he return home.

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If you still cherish the hope of reuniting with your ex, then you should avoid the following mistakes in messages to him.

Parting causes temporary insanity that many people don't realize, or realize when it's too late. If you still cherish the hope of reuniting with your ex, then you should avoid the following mistakes in messages to him, so as not to distance yourself or just not look pathetic, discouraging him from all desire to return.

1. Write about how you are suffering because of your breakup.

“I feel so bad”, “I just don’t understand why you left, I thought we would succeed” ...

You should never show your grief and despair in messages to him. And you shouldn't ask the “Why?” Questions. Are you sure you want to hear the answer? “Because you are so pitiful and you always whine, so I went to your best friend"- are you ready to hear something like that?

2. Write something seemingly casual when you're just looking for an excuse.

"Hi, how are you?"…

So what? What does it mean? Do you want him back? Or are you just bored? What's the point?

Whether your ex wants to hear from you or not, just saying hello makes you weak in his eyes, like you don't know what to do.

3. "I miss you."

If you really want to bring him back, then you have to show by deed that you miss him, and not just write. You must rekindle the old feelings between you. “Miss you” is more of a pitiful cry for help than a willingness to do something.

4. Be jealous of his new girlfriend.

“I heard you're with Christina now. Well, I wish you good luck "...

If you find out like that, you should never talk about it with him. Whatever you say will not turn everything in your favor.

5. Try to brag about how well you are doing.

If everything was really SO good with you, you would not even remember about it. Otherwise, you want to make him jealous or envious, and he understands this.

6. Write more than he answers you.

- Hi, how are you?

- How is your mother? Haven't seen her for a long time.

- What are you doing?

- Sister says hello!

- Hey.

This is the worst thing. If you have already decided to write to your ex, then do not rush and first let him answer, and never blame or speculate. It makes you desperate.

7. Get upset that he did not answer in time.

“Hi, I saw you at the gym yesterday.

Why didn't you say hello?

Hey where are you?

Are you ignoring me?

OK. Do not mind it".

Honestly, after breaking up, he doesn't owe you anything. Your name may still be associated with bad emotions, so don't go overboard.

8. Try to make him jealous.

- I was so cool yesterday! Thanks for the evening!: *

- In terms of?

- Oh, I'm sorry, it's not for you ...

These are not the most pleasant feelings that will help bring him back.

9. Anything you don't want others to see.

There is no need to write drunk messages, in the heat of the moment, and in general everything that you would not want others to see. Who knows what your ex can do about what he knows about you.