From what kind of relationship a father builds with his daughter, it largely depends on how her personal life will develop.

The role of the father in the upbringing of the girl is difficult to exaggerate. A father is nothing less than the first man in the life of a future woman who can instill self-respect in her, raise her self-esteem, teach her to understand the psychology of the stronger sex, which will be very useful to her decades later. Unfortunately, in many Slavic families, an anachronism is still incredibly tenacious: as soon as a girl enters puberty, the father seems to be “thrown out” of his daughter's life.

Not every parent is able to overcome the natural bashfulness in communicating with an emerging girl who seemed to be taught to ride a bicycle yesterday, and today you find her kissing in the park “with some kind of juvenile scoundrel”. Meanwhile, psychologists assure: for teenage girls, emotional closeness with their father is even more important than for their peers-boys. Because on what kind of relationship “daddy” builds with his daughter during this difficult period, it largely depends on how the relationship of the grown daughter with men will develop.

- Of course, for most fathers, raising a girl is much more difficult than a boy. After all, if each of the dads involuntarily sees himself twenty or thirty years ago in his little miracle in pants and with a water gun, then the psychology of charming creatures with pigtails and barbies in their hands is a parallel galaxy for them, says psychologist Anna NEGLINNAYA. “But it is necessary to approach this unknown world in time. So that later, as an adult, the daughter does not do stupid things, building relationships with her men.

Specialists in family relations in many countries of the world have noted the fact that most often those women who do not have emotional contact with their father are unhappy in love. Of course, this is not an axiom. Many women raised by single mothers successfully marry and have children. But still, in about six cases out of ten, when a woman cannot arrange her personal life in any way, when she burns herself in love every now and then, when she makes similar mistakes with every new man, it turns out that she has complicated relationship with his father.

“Complex” is a multifaceted concept. For example, do they not communicate at all? Or outwardly everything looks decent, but the daughter and father do not have real intimacy, sincere conversations about personal, psychological support?

— Quite right. Simply put, the father did not "direct" the scenario of his daughter's future personal life when she was aged 12-18. However, he is not necessarily a drunkard, a gulena, or an outright domestic tyrant. No, it can be a wonderful person who honestly supports his family, enjoys doing it with his daughter homework giving her pocket money. But with all this, she hardly remembers the names of her girlfriends, and she doesn’t even know where, when and with whom she got her first sexual experience. The fact of the matter is that the appearance of a family is not enough for the future personal happiness of children. There must be a psycho-emotional contact: conversations, common interests, encouragement, a desire to be aware of most, if not all, events in the girl's life.

- In the fact that a man treats his wife or girlfriend disgustingly, does not want to build family relationships, frankly skimps on signs of attention, we usually blame his mother: she raised him poorly, did not teach him to respect a woman. And when a girl has constant problems in relationships with young people, is her father to blame?

- Partly yes. Of course, we are not talking about, for example, a bad hostess. Dad will not be able to teach his daughter to bake pies and cook dinners. Although this happens too. But in recent times from all sides we hear: modern women They don’t value themselves at all, they are ready to endure an alcoholic, a sadist and a gigolo next to them, just not to be alone ... Here is already a direct hint at some “flaw” of the fathers of such women. Most likely, at a certain stage in life, when a girl develops a model of behavior with men, the fathers withdrew from raising a teenager, deciding that the main thing is to earn money for her clothes and education, and the rest will follow by itself or mom will help. This is fundamentally the wrong approach. Only a father can raise his daughter's self-esteem, teach her to love herself, which in the future will play a decisive role in her relationships with men. In general, this world is fraught with many dangers for the fair sex. And the task of the girl’s father is to contribute to the fight against violence against women, against the sexualization of teenagers on the Internet, against pornography, against advertising companies that earn trillions on girls’ self-doubt, and most importantly, with the opinion that “boys are better than girls.”

Top 5 rules for dad daughter

Talk to her. And not only about school marks. Focus on what really matters: what your girl thinks, what she believes, what she feels, what she dreams about and how she acts. You can have a huge impact on her vision of herself.

Encourage her. Let her love her body and herself. Tell her and prove by your actions that you like her for who she is. It is very important. Look at her as a whole person, capable of great achievements. And then, most likely, your daughter in the future will choose a partner for life, similar to you with her actions and her understanding of life values.

Get involved in her life. Not only mother should know who Galka is, why your girl refuses to be friends with Fedka from a parallel class, and explain how to “kick off” elderly womanizers flirting in transport. Learn the names of her girlfriends and suitors. It is very important that your daughter goes to you for advice in her personal life. After all, you understand men better because you are one of them! Therefore, it is much easier for you to help your daughter understand the ups and downs of love.

Find a common hobby. For example, sports. Why not? By the way, it has been proven that the most physically active girls are those who go in for sports with their fathers. And this category of daughters, by the way, is less likely to get pregnant in adolescence less likely to drop out of school and less likely to associate with bad company.

Learn from other fathers. With the current development social networks it's easier than ever! Communicate with advanced dads on the forums, be interested, discuss, ask for advice and offer it. Remember: your task is to raise a Woman. The one about which no normal man can say a single bad word.

Blitz Poll

What needs to be done to ensure that fathers do not withdraw from the upbringing of their children?

Olga POTKO, single mother, Minsk:

- The upbringing of the future dad should begin even before the pregnancy. Our men need to be accustomed to the idea that we will have a child. We both have. And in no case encourage those who say: “The fear of the young dad is understandable, before the woman belonged only to him, and now someone else will appear! ..” Sorry, this “third man” is the flesh and blood of his father. He also took a direct part in his planning, the conception of a child. So the responsibility is equal. And dad should start raising the baby even before he is born. Together with his wife, go to the doctor, walk on fresh air. And then, just like mom, get up at night, rock a capricious baby, change his diapers, play with him ...

Sergey LOMONOSOV, father of three children, Brest region:

- Yes, just love your kids! And to understand that you still won’t earn all the money, and once lost time, unrealized communication and remoteness from a grown child, while the father honestly made family capital, traveled on business trips and hardly remembered how old his son or daughter was, then he didn’t return. There is something that you can not buy for any clothes or mobile phones.

In recent decades, our wonderful people have suddenly begun to borrow so much from other cultures. We use borrowed words, eat borrowed food ... And we began to have holidays alien to us. For example, St. Valentine's Day has nothing to do with our Orthodox culture. After all, there is such wonderful holiday Day of Peter and Fevronia! That's what we decided to make traditional in our kindergarten.

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Holiday script

"Dads and daughters, mothers and sons"

HOLIDAY PROCESS

The song "Chamomile fields" sounds

Leading: Good afternoon, dear guests! We are glad to see you at the family holiday. Family is the most important thing in life for each of us. The family is close and dear people, those whom we love, whom we take an example from, whom we care about, whom we wish good and happiness. It is in the family that we learn love, responsibility, care and respect.Leo Tolstoy said: "Happy is he who is happy at home." You will become adults, and each of you will have your own family, how do you see it?(children's answers).

In the family circle, we are growing,
The basis of the foundations is the parental home.
In the family circle, all your roots,
And you came into life from the family.

No wonder there are so many proverbs and sayings about the family in Russia, which ones do you know? I know these:

A family in a heap is not terrible and a cloud

Treasure is not needed when the family is in harmony

When the family is together and the heart is in place

Though closely, but better together

With a sweet paradise and in a hut

Live soul to soul

At our family celebration, there are family teams and a family council that acts as a jury. Introducing the teams and the family council (jury).

So here is our family advice:

Chapter _______________

Members of the family council _____________________________________________

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Our competition will be held in several stages:

Stage I: "Business card": self-presentation in free form using any form of presentation. During the competition, participants demonstrate their hobbies, show creativity, imagination. The presentation time is 5 minutes.The maximum score is 5 points.

Stage II: competition "Erudite":during the competition, family members reveal the breadth of their horizons, common culture, improvisation, ingenuity. The maximum score is 5 points.

Stage III: "Family Miracles":during the competition, all families will be given the opportunity to show their various talents: drawing, needlework, singing, reciting poetry.

IV stage: lick your fingers competition: presentation of a signature family dish. The maximum score is 5 points.

Well, it's time to start our competition program.

So the contest "Business card".

(Performance of teams, presentation).

Well, the first contest is over. We learned a lot about our families.

The day of family, love and fidelity is a kind, bright holiday. And who knows what Orthodox saints have become for all of us a real example. One flower has become the Symbol of the Day of Family, love and fidelity ...

They call her a yellow-eyed flower,

They plucked a flower - they guess with petals.

That's right, it's chamomile. Chamomile is a flower of Russian fields and meadows. And besides this, chamomile most directly relates to love. Who knows how? On a camomile they guessed - "loves - does not love."

Now it's time for the second contest"Erudite".

There are many proverbs and sayings about the family. Let's remember them. Now a little warm-up and the first task. You need to correct what is wrong.

- Do not be born beautiful, but be born rich (happy).
- Love is a ring, and the ring has no problems (there is no beginning and no end).
- Seven nannies have a child in sight (without an eye).
- Lovely scold only on Fridays (amuse).

Now continue the proverb.

• A guest on the threshold - happiness in ... (house).
  - A house without a mistress ... (an orphan).
  - Lead the house ... (do not shake your beard).
  - The apple never falls far from the tree).
  - What are rich, ... (they are glad).
  - Being a guest is good, but being at home is better).

The workout went well. Now the second task. From the set of words that you will now receive in envelopes, make up a proverb. You can change the case, form, add prepositions and particles.

Tasks:

- Family, heap, scary, cloud.(A family in a heap is not a terrible cloud.)

- Children, hardship, joy.(Children are not a burden, but a joy.)

- House, lead, sleeve, shake.(House to lead - do not shake your sleeve.)

- Family, treasure, fret, not needed. (No treasure is needed when the family is in harmony.)

– Family, place, soul, together.(When the family is together, so is the soul in place.)

Task three "Through the mouth of a baby."

- This is when everyone is together - mom, dad, grandmother, grandfather.(Family)

- In the family, this is the most precious thing, it is cherished, passed down from generation to generation.(Family heirloom)

- The most gentle, kindest, most beloved person for all people on Earth.(Mum)

- A place where we all go together.(House)

“It’s so small, it’s squeaky, it’s a lot of trouble, but it’s still loved.(Child)

She knits socks for everyone and bakes the most wonderful pies and buns.(Grandmother)
All children play in them.(Toys)

- This is not a man, but he is loved by all family members.(Pet)

Well done, teams. Now it's time to prepare for the third competition. We offer you a choice of several creative tasks:

Leading: While the jury is summing up the results of the two stages, the participants are getting ready, we will play with the fans.

Blitz tournament for fans.

1. Without what bread can not be baked?(Without crust)

2. In what year do people eat more than usual?(In a leap year).

3. What kind of water can be brought in a sieve?(Frozen)

4. What does half an orange look more like?(To the other half)

5. What tree does a crow sit on after rain?(on wet)

6. What fields do not grow grass?(In the margins of a school notebook)

7. What kind of comb will not comb your head?(Petushin)

8. What does the watchman do if he has a sparrow on his hat?(asleep)

9. Where does the water stand in a column?(In glass)

10. What disease does no one get sick on land?(Nautical)

11. What do they walk on but never ride?(On the chessboard)

12. The name of which bird consists of a letter and the name of the river?(Oriole)

13. What is between the city and the countryside?(Conjunction "I")

14. What can you watch with your eyes closed?(Dream)

15. Son of my father, but not my brother. Who is he?(I myself)

Leading: Well, our last competition is "You'll lick your fingers."

Team members will now introduce us to their family specialties.(Teams present their dishes).

Leading: So our competitive tasks came to an end, all participants did an excellent job. While the jury is summing up the results of our competition, we will play a little with you.

Now the floor is given to our family Council.

(Jury word. Awarding in the nominations “The most Friendly family”, “The most creative family”, “The most musical family”, “The most intellectual family”, etc.)

Leading: What is a family? A family is not just relatives who live together, they are people who are united by feelings, interests, attitude to life. There is nothing more precious than a family.

Family is what we share for everyone,

A little bit of everything: both tears and laughter,

Rise and fall, joy, sadness,

Friendship and quarrels, silence seal.

Family is what is always with you.

Let seconds rush, weeks, years,

But the walls are dear, your father's house -

The heart will forever remain in it!

And now, dear participants and fans, finishing this evening, I would like to say a big thank you to everyone and express the hope that the family holiday helped us get to know each other better, unite, take one more step towards mutual understanding and unity.

Final song

Tanya (1 year 6 months) went for a walk with her mother after the rain. The girl looks into the puddle, sees the reflection of the clouds there and declares:

Mom, the clouds have fallen!

Mom made tea with lemon for breakfast. Tanya tried it and says:

It's lemon tea. I didn't order this.

Tanya (2 years 3 months) with her dad look at photographs that depict scenes from life kindergarten. Tanya explains:

These are the children, these are the teachers.

The Pope elaborates:

What do kindergarten teachers do?

They eat and play.

Tanya and dad are playing. During the game, an argument arose. Tanya says:

Everyone, I'm mad at you! I'm leaving!

Mom asks:

Tanya, where are you going?

I'm getting married.

After sitting a little in the next room, he comes back and says:

Well, I got married.

Dad is going to work in the morning. Tanya observes:

Dad, where are you going?

To work at the university. And where are you going?

To work in the kindergarten.

What is your job there?

Playing.

Tanya and dad were looking at the Nikitins' books. Dad shows pictures and comments:

This is Grandpa Nikitin.

Tanya carefully examines and asks with bewilderment:

Where is Nikita himself?

Tanya (2 years 6 months) returned home from the kindergarten, heard that someone was talking in the room, and asked her mother:

And who is there?

What are they doing?

They eat and talk.

Tanya is indignant:

But it's uncivilized to talk while eating.

Tanya found the book "Piano Playing", opened it and began to pretend that she was playing. When she finished, she said:

I completed all the tasks, only the piano is missing.

Tanya and her mother are playing in the clinic. Tanya distributes the roles:

I am a doctor and you are a mother. Here is your daughter.

Mom, in order to complicate the actions of the doctor, began to list:

We have a runny nose, a red throat, a headache, a hand was hit, a leg was twisted.

Tanya the doctor indignantly declares:

Mother, why don't you look after the child?

Dad pats Tanya on the head and says:

Tanya is blonde.

To which Tanya says:

Our dad is white.

Dad and Tanya talked about sweets.

Tanya lists:

Chocolate, candy, lemon...

Dad asks:

Is lemon sweet?

And if you sprinkle it with sugar!

In the country. Dad plays with Tanya (4 years 6 months). Hearing his name, he is about to leave:

My grandfather calls me to consult on what size to build a bathhouse.

And you tell him - size 50 or 48 and come back to play with me.

Mom went to visit. Dad stayed with Tanya (5 years old). After reading a fairy tale to her at night, he says that he will no longer deal with her, as he was very tired during the day.

Tanya listened to him and remarks: “It’s not something for you to look after the child.”

Tanya (5 years 2 months) comments on her drawing for her parents (explains why the purple butterfly is all surrounded by a thick yellow outline). Parents did not quite like this explanation, and Tanya leaves. After a while, she comes back and says: "I have new brains" - and begins to explain everything differently.

The day before my mother's birthday.

Mom, it's your birthday tomorrow. And how old are you?

Well, let's say twenty years.

And-and-and, you're so old!

What do you think, how old am I?

Well, fifteen years...

April. Clear sunny day. Tanya (5 years 3 months) goes outside, sees green grass, broken buds on trees and bushes, and philosophically declares:

Yes… new life starts!

Tanya is watching TV and suddenly declares:

TV has no soul.

Tanya is 5 years and 7 months old.

Mom, did you fall in love with dad from childhood or at first sight?

Tanya returns from kindergarten and says:

Dad, I have such big news. For the first time, I truly fell in love.

The family is waiting for an addition. Liza (5 years old) asks her mother:
- And why is your stomach getting bigger and bigger?
- Ate a watermelon, swallowed a seed, now a new watermelon is growing in my stomach! Mom answers.
Lisa narrows her eyes and puts her hands on her hips:
“Are you pregnant, my dear?”

My son is 2 years 6 months old. I took him to the children's hospital for vaccinations.
We sit in the vaccination room, waiting for my aunt to load the syringe. Suddenly, he
turns to me and says:
"I'll wait for you in the car, okay?"

In summer, the son (4 years old) sits and takes a blade of grass in his mouth as if
smokes. He speaks:
- Mom, look, I smoke.
“Kolya, you can’t smoke!”
- Mom, I'm weed.

We're back from the fireworks show. Cub (3 years 6 months) all 50
minutes of the performance sat as if spellbound. It broke in the car.
He hugs me from the back seat by the neck:
"Mom, I'm so happy!" Thank you for giving birth to me.

Kirill (2 years 1 month) on the street saw someone coming out of the entrance
man and without unnecessary greetings, addresses:
- Did you go for a walk?
The man was taken aback:
- Yeah.
- Did you wear a hat?
- Yes.
And put on mittens. Cold. Very cold.

In the garden, the teacher says:
- What to do? We have two Kolyas.
Mine says:
- Call me, Nikolai the first ...

My five-year-old son is standing in the bathroom, looking at his "household" and
profoundly says:
- I understood - here it is, the end of the spine ...

Anton (6.5 years old) asks:
- Mom, I forgot, cows, sheep, chickens, geese - as in one word
called? Cattle or bastards?

Daughter:
- Dad, when the renovation is over, how old will I be?

My younger sister Once I decided to call my father at work:
— Hello! Is this dad's job? Call dad!

The other day I found my “diary of a young Natasha-mother”.
“My son is 15 months old (now 5.5 years old). Can't drive in public
transport, because I'm dying of laughter. Let's go, sit down, son
chooses a nearby young man smiling sweetly and saying:
- Dad!
Many "dads" got off at the nearest bus stop..."

Walked with my son (2 years old) in the park and saw the twins. seeing them and
staring at him for a long time, he says:
- Where's mine?

Mum:
- Yes, Veronica, we probably spoiled you ... You'll have to
punish!
- How is it - you spoiled me, and punish me?

The daughter of relatives has long been begging for a brother or sister.
Mom explains to her:
“Well, understand, dear, dad is on a flight, he won’t arrive soon, and without dad we can’t have a baby.
But the girl was quickly found:
- On the contrary, let's start it now, and dad will come, and we will tell him: "Surprise!"

I bought myself a silver set (bracelets and a ring) on ​​the ancient Egyptian theme. Daughter (4 years old) examines carefully, then asks:
- Mom, this is Ancient Egypt?
- Yes daughter.
Husband asks:
— Daughter, how do you know that this is Ancient Egypt? Could this be Ancient China?
- Dad, this is your watch - Ancient China, and my mother has Ancient Egypt.

Away. Adults are shy. The hostess says:
- Why don't you eat at all? Help yourself, isn't it tasty?
A child (4.5 years old) comes out and loudly gives out:
“You’re not at home here, eat what you get!”
I brought the phrase from kindergarten ...

I scolded my son (5 years old) for something. He sat down on the floor, took out paper, pencils, and "pouting" to me:
"Then I'll draw you fat!"

My husband and I got married when our youngest third son was 3 years old. Well, before everything somehow did not reach the hands. We once had everything.
A couple of weeks before the event itself, the middle son (9 years old) asks:
- Mom, why are you all fussing with Anya (his godmother), running somewhere all day long, what kind of carnival dress did you drag?
Anya laughs:
- Tolik, it's your mother who has gone crazy, she's getting married.
Tolik dumbfounded like this:
“Does dad know?”

A friend tried to teach her son to sleep in the nursery. He fell asleep with his parents, she took him to the nursery. After 15 minutes, he returns and again to his parents in bed. His mother took him back to the nursery. He returned again. She carries him to the “place” for the third time, and he, through a dream:
“Well, how long are we going to run like this?”

I took my youngest daughter to work with me. She walked around there, wandered, and went into the director's office. I sit and hear them talking about something, and the little one proudly says:
“And my mom can still grunt!”

My daughter asks me:
Mom, what time was I born?
I told her:
— At twelve o'clock.
And she scared me:
“Oh, I must have woken you up?”

Grandmother is watching a fashion show on TV with enthusiasm. Anton (4 years):
- Grandma, what is evening dress?
Grandmother, not looking up from the screen:
— Well, Antoshka, imagine that a girl puts on her most elegant dress, a boy puts on his most beautiful suit...
Anton impatiently interrupts:
“And they go pooping together?”

At the dacha of our grandmother - the simplest toilet of the "hole in the floor" type.
When Anya had to use it, she asked to be held by the hand. All the while she kept repeating:
“Just hold me tight. Do you remember that I'm your favorite girl in the world?

I watch the news, my son runs in and shouts:
— Oh, Medvedev!
I ask:
— Do you know who Medvedev is?
Yes, Putin.

The wife went to the hospital for preservation. I stayed at home, son Svyatoslav (4 years old) and son Egor (2 years old). I only know how to cook pasta. So, I cooked pasta for them, slightly salted. The first one came running, Svyato tried it. Without saying anything, he leaves the table. He goes to the nursery. At the door she meets Yegor, who is going to eat, takes him by the hand, takes him to the nursery and says:
Yegor, don't eat. You are my only brother...

I had to invite my mother.

We went to the store and left the car under a tree. While walking, a flock of birds flew in and pretty shitted on the roof and hood. I had to drive the car to the sink and wash to a state of cleanliness. After washing, my son looked at the car and issued:
- Well, the birds will look at the car and say: “Poop, poop and all in vain!”

The son at the zoo asks his father:
- Dad, if a tiger breaks out of the cage and eats you, then which bus should I take home?

Leo is 6 years old. We go with him to the neurologist. Lyovka is naughty - the doctors are tired of him. I tell him:
This doctor will not do anything to you, he will only talk.
— Is that all?
- Well, maybe it will knock with a hammer, but it doesn’t hurt.
We've arrived, let's go. Doctor:
- Hello, Lyovushka!
- Hello! Well, where is your ax?!

We hope that we have cheered you up, smile more often!

We bring to your attention a series of sketches about a family for children and schoolchildren.

Humorous scene - "Family Auction"

Wife, husband and two children are in the kitchen. The wife is standing by the stove, the men are sitting.
Wife: So, lot number one is borscht! The starting price is to wash the dishes after you.
Husband: I will wash the dishes for myself and for you!
Wife: Washes dishes for two - once!
Son: I'll wash all the dishes!
Wife: Wash all the dishes - once!
Second son: I will wash all the dishes and take out the trash!
Wife: Eldest son, smart girl! Once! Take out the trash and wash all the dishes! Two! Take out the trash and wash all the dishes...
Husband: And I'll give you a salary!
Wife: Sold! The man in the gray shirt!

Humorous scene about wife and husband

A woman pours soup from a pot into a man's bowl.
Woman: How are you? Why are you silent? Do you like how I cook?! I do not like?!! What are you wheezing?! Tell me like a human?! If you don't like it, you can leave! What's up?!!!
A man lies under a table with severe poisoning.

Family scene - "Male tantrum"

The husband is lying on the couch, watching TV. The wife enters the room.
Husband: I need a new T-shirt!
Wife: Why?
Husband: Look what I'm wearing!
Wife: in a T-shirt ...
Husband: In a T-shirt?! Is this a T-shirt?! Look, Seryoga from the 42nd wife bought a T-shirt - so this is a T-shirt! And I bought new sweatpants! Lying on the couch like a prince! And I?! I have nothing to lie on the sofa?
Wife: Honey, but we can't right now...
Husband: Oh right? I'm going to my dad!

Video: funny scene for children about a family

Friendly family. Mini-sketch for children

Vladimir Kozhushner

In the room there are: a table covered with a tablecloth, a sofa (couch), a TV and a bedside table. On the bedside table there is a vase of flowers, a magazine, a dry cloth, a carafe of water and an empty glass.
The furniture is arranged so that you can run around the table. A squabble of two voices, male and female, can be heard from the TV.
Brother and sister, Vova and Tanya, sit on chairs at the table and watch TV. A blouse hangs on the back of Tanya's chair.

Vova: Switch the TV to another channel.
Tanya: Why?
Vova: I don't want to listen to my aunt and uncle arguing with each other.
Tanya: This is not an aunt and uncle, but a husband and wife. Italians. Here.
Vova: I still don't want to. Switch, please.
Tanya: Okay. Only then let's play husband and wife.
Vova: How are we going to play?
Tanya: Very simple. You will do whatever I ask you.

Tanya gets up from her chair, turns off the TV (the quarrel stops), goes to the bedside table, takes a magazine, goes to the sofa, lies down and pretends to watch fashion magazine. Silence in the room. Vova looks at her sister and waits for her command.

Tanya: Bring me some water.

Vova gets up, goes to the bedside table, pours a glass of water and silently gives it to her.
Tanya casually puts the magazine aside, rises, takes the glass from Vova, drinks it, and gives it back.

Vova puts the glass on the bedside table, goes to the switch and turns on the light.
Tanya lies down on the sofa again, straightens her hair, shudders and pretends to be cold.

Tanya: Give me a blouse. Something got cold.
Vova: I won't give you a blouse. Get up and take it. You are already big.

Tanya jumps up from the sofa.

Tanya: That's not fair. You promised to do whatever I ask you.

Papa enters and, smiling, turns to Tanya.

Dad: Why are you commanding your brother?
Tanya: But because I am a wife and everything is possible for me.

Dad makes a menacing look and, waddling from foot to foot like a bear, goes to Tanya.

Dad: We'll spank you now! Is it possible to command men!

Tanya runs away from her father with a squeak. Vova also rushes after her. They are trying to catch her. The room begins to stir. Fast music is playing. Heroes run around the table, and joyfully squeal and squeak. On the way, Tanya accidentally knocks over the chair and pulls the tablecloth off the table. Then he runs to the exit and runs into his mother on the threshold. Hiding behind her back. On the face of a smile. It is clear that she loves the game.
Mom: What's the noise?
The music stops.
Tanya: They want to spank me!
Mom puts her hands on her hips, makes a serious face.
Mom: Two for one? It's not fair! Now we'll show you!

Now dad is running away, and mom and Tanya are chasing after him. Everyone runs around the table and Vova, who stands like a pillar. Fast music is playing again. Papa yells, “Oh! Ai! ”, Mom - “Now we will catch you!”, Tanya - “Catch him! Catch! Mom catches up with Dad at the couch and they fall on him. Tanya jumps from above. Then Vova comes running and also jumps on dad. It turns out a bunch - small!
Dad: Enough! Enough! You crush me!

The children are reluctant to let their father go. Breathing heavily, everyone sits down on the couch. The music stops. Mom looks at dad.

Mom: Explain what happened?
Dad: Daughter, had seen enough of the series and began to command Vova. I decided to protect him.
Mom: Yes, you came up with a good upbringing - to spank a child!
Tanya: Mom! So he pretend.
Mom: I already told you that you don’t need to watch adult films. The eyes are spoiled, the head is clogged with unnecessary information, and time is wasted.
Tanya: Okay, Mom. Can I watch children's shows?

Mom hugs her daughter. Gently strokes the head.

Mom: You can.

Mom and dad get up. They take hands. Children jump up. Vova hugs dad. Tanya hugs her mother.

Mom: My pranksters. How I love you!
Mom lets go of daddy's hands and tries to free herself from Tanya's hugs. Children hug their parents even tighter. Mom speaks kindly.
Mom: Everything. All. We played. And now, my dears, put the room in order, and I will go to the kitchen.

Children let their parents go. Mom comes out. Everyone starts cleaning up. Tanya takes a rag from the bedside table, wipes the dust and spreads the tablecloth on the table. Vova picks up the chairs and puts them in their place. Dad opens the curtain on the window.
Mom enters.

Mom: How clean! What good fellows! You deserve lunch! Come on, I'll feed you.
The children run to their mother. Mom hugs them and heads for the exit. Dad walks behind and smiles.
The curtain.

Sketches about a family are funny for children in kindergarten

Sketches about a family are funny for schoolchildren

Evening of rest “Together we feel good”, dedicated to Family Day.

Goals:

1. Raising love and respect for one's family;
2. Development and formation of a friendly team of children and parents.
3. Development creativity children.

Hall decoration: Balloons, birch with leaves, on each of them - a photo of the family of each child. Exhibition of creative works of families. Baby photos of mothers.

Equipment: for competitions - 2 aprons, 2 scarves, 2 pans, a rope, 2 chairs, 2 newspapers, 2 threads, 2 needles, potatoes, knives. Music Center.

Event progress:

Leading:

Good evening, dear children and dear parents!

A glorious holiday in our house,

I don't think it's more important.

Your dads and moms are here today.

Is there anyone in the world

Closer and dearer.

Our meeting is dedicated to Family Day. But what is a family?

Student:

Family is what we share for everyone,
A little bit of everything: both tears and laughter,
Rise and fall, joy, sadness,
Friendship and quarrels, silence seal.
Family is what is always with you.
Let seconds rush, weeks, years,
But the walls are dear, your father's house -
The heart will forever remain in it!

Student:

I love my family very much
Hello to her hot slut:
Dad, mom and sister,
An old granny and ... me!

Leading:

I congratulate all those present on this holiday. I wish your families happiness, health, prosperity and all the best.

Thank you for putting aside all your affairs and worries and coming here with your children.

Welcome to our family holiday “Together we feel good”.

We are gathered for an evening that we hope will give you good mood. Be active, play, participate in contests and just relax!

And now, I will ask you a few questions, to which I think I will get honest answers (an impromptu microphone is passed; the person who has the "microphone" in his hands after a certain signal answers the question)

• Were you begged to go to the party or did you agree right away?
• When was the last time you were at school?
• Are you interested in your child's life at school?
• Do you remember your first lesson?
• Which subject was your favorite?
• Do you communicate with your school friends?
• Have you always behaved well in class?
• Were you punished? If yes, then why?
• What did you dream of being as a child? Has your dream come true?
• How often do you spend free time with your children?

Thanks to parents. Now guys, guess who these words are about:

There are many of them in the world
Children love them with all their hearts.
Only, for everyone, she is alone,
She is dearer to you than all
Who is she?
I will answer: THIS my mommy.

Mom ... What a short and important word! Without it, life on earth is impossible. Years pass, mothers grow old, but still remain the most faithful and reliable friends and helpers in all matters.

Do you know what your mothers were like as a child?

Now we will check you .

Task for children: recognize mom from baby photo, name mom's birthday.

Student:

Mom's smile
Brings happiness into the house
Mom's smile
Needed everywhere, in everything!

Student:

Mom brings me
toys, candy,
But that's not why I love my mom.
She sings happy songs
We are never bored together!

Task for moms: Play a lullaby.

Competition " Hostess"

Mothers put on an apron, a scarf. Children tie an apron. After mom gets dressed - pick up a pan. Who is faster?

Competition for children.

Thread the needle.

Student:

Now we want to give our mothers some advice on how to behave with their children:

Student 1:

Must be mother's character

Necessarily humane very humane:

If I get three

Don't sigh all evening.

Student 2:

And say: "Go to the cinema,

Walk together -

Clear your head from your geometries!”

Student 3:

Must be mother's character

Definitely humane!

Must not be gloomy!

Student 4:

I will forget the promise

Take a bag of vegetables

On the dacha plot -

Mom must take it

Might pull up

Let her not groan:

"It's hard as hell!" —

Let him show courage.

Student 5:

That's the nature of my mother,

No doubt humane!

He is human friends!

And quite comfortable!

Leading:

Moms, do you agree?

They want to hear: "Yes" in response

And, of course, you hear "no"!

Leading:

Now guess who these words are about:

Student:

He can do anything, he can do anything
All braver and stronger
Barbell for him, like cotton wool
Well, of course it's PAPA

Leading:

Children wrote essays about dads. I will read excerpts from them. (Appendix).

Task for dads- recognize yourself by the description.

Student:

What is our house without dad!

Is it true guys?

Who will mend the stool

Will take you by car

Marks in my diary

Knows everything!

Student:

That's the miracle, that's the way things are!

Our newspaper came to life:

She's on daddy's nose

And in the tone of his snoring rustles!

Student:

Cape dad decided to do some cleaning.

"My friend!" Dad said.

"It's time to get used to it!"

"The idea is great!" - mom said

And then she ran away from home.

For three hours, my mother has been sitting in the park, Looking at her mobile with fear:

When will the cleaning end?

Will I finally be able to return home?!”

Leading:

We joke of course

But very nice

When next to you

Your smart dad!

Blitz. survey of children:

- Dad's favorite dish?

- shoe size?

- Favorite place in the house?

- Dad's birthday?

Dad Contest:

The child carries a newspaper, dad unfolds it, puts on glasses, sits in a comfortable position and reads.

Leading:

And now friends attention!

I propose a competition.

Who is strong here, who is dexterous here,

Show your skill!

Exercise: dads and children pull the rope.

The winner is awarded the medal "The Strongest Family".

Student:

How not to tell us warm words about dads,

Who love us so much

Who only sometimes quarrel,

And praise, praise a lot of times.

Student:

Thank them for their masculine severity,

For restraint, for will and comfort,

For strong and faithful male hands,

That they love us and take care of our house.

Student:

We are our moms and dads

We wish you good luck.

Success in business, and warmth in the family.

We want everyone to know

That our mothers

That our dads.

The best ever!

Parent's response:

Host: Who is smarter than everyone in the world?

Leading: Who is dearer to us all in the world?

Parents: Our children, our children!

Host: Who heals our hearts with love?

Parents: Our children, our children!

Leading: Who so longs for our meeting?

Parents: Our children!

Host: Your children!

Student:

How our moms and dads love us.

Student:

They dress us, put on shoes, wash us, cook food for us.

Student:

They worry when we get sick.

Student:

And sometimes they don't pay attention to how we behave.

Student:

Can we show how it happens?

Student:

What, let's. Although there are none among us, it will not hurt our parents to see this.

scene.

Mum:

Daughter, daughter!

Do me a favor!

feed your little brother

Butter Cookies!

Daughter:

Tired, mom, I have to deal with my brother.

On the swing I want to swing in the park!

Dad:

Daughter, dear!

Clean up the apartment!

On your table for a long time

Mountains of garbage and dust!

Daughter:

If you really need-

Remove yourself!

I've already decided for three hours