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or the psychology of men is similar to the psychology of dogs.

I can understand, and I am quite calm about when a man and a woman part because of different life values, principles and interests. After all, too different values ​​can be difficult to combine. But part of the conflicts and breaks occur because of the inability of women to "steer" men, and the second part - because of male irresponsibility and unwillingness to grow up. We will talk about the second part a little later, in other issues and articles, today we will discuss the psychology of men, similar to the psychology of dogs. Let's talk about how we, men, will like it and how to keep it. Men are very easy to manage, and basic knowledge and skills can be mastered within a month, well, a maximum of two.
Often my wife asks me about male logic and male psychology which she does not always understand.
How to please a man, how to keep him, and how to make a man fall in love with you?
How to ask a man about what a woman wants, and most importantly, how to ask and demand so that he does it, and does it with pleasure?
How to make sure that a man does not look around, at least in the presence of a woman?
How to tame a man and how to marry a girl?
Naturally, I am an “interested person” and I try to answer in more detail how a man needs to be controlled, in a particular case, by myself.
Recently, my beloved and I went to a cafe, and she asked:
- And what are you, men? How do you think and how best to communicate with you? How to please a man? And, most importantly, what should be done, and what should not be done, so that a man appreciates and respects you?
Then I said:
- Yes, men are generally simple, and in many ways similar to dogs. - Then he gave her a few comparisons. She laughed for a long time, and then asked:
Why haven't you written an article about it yet?
And so every day, for many weeks, she came up and asked:
- Did you write? Have you already written an article about how men are like dogs? You wrote?
Wrote, wrote...
1. Almost all dogs and men are the same in that they love affection and attention. They love to be stroked, “pulled behind the ear”, praised.
Dogs, when their owner comes, run out to meet him, wag their tail, and climb to be stroked. Or, when one of the owners is seen on the street, with joyful barking and wild wagging of the tail, they rush to him with all their dog joy, just to jump on light trousers with their shaggy, heavy paws and lick the owner from head to toe, while receiving a portion of affection and attention. Almost all dogs and men are like that. There are, of course, distrustful even to the owners of the dog (again, you need to understand “why”) and to the wives of men, but there are few of them. A man came home, it happens that he brought booty to his wife in the form of food, salary, bride price, some gifts, boasting of his real, and, sometimes, “slightly” embellished exploits. After that, of course, he really looks forward to being stroked on the head, hugged, told how they admire him. If a woman smiles at a man, hugs him, rejoices at what he has brought, listens to his boasting, then a third family problems may already be considered resolved.
This is not at all an obvious rule of communication with men, and according to my observations, women, especially young ones, do not always meet and hug a man with a smile when he comes home. And, most importantly, not at all because he is offended by him, but because he does not understand how important this is!
- Well, I met him not every day, but every other day, what is important in this? Well, I didn’t hug you today, I’ll hug you tomorrow, what’s important here?
- Important, very important. Periodically I observe the same situation. The dog ran away from the owner, and it's time for the owner to go home. He starts chasing the dog. Finally, he caught her, or the dog itself approached the owner. What do different people do next? A not very wise owner will break loose on the dog, start beating it, scolding it. After all, he is late, and the dog does not want to go home. Next time he will run after the dog twice as long. A wise owner will pet the dog, maybe even give something tasty, after she ran up to him. The next time he only calls her, and the dog is already running towards him.
How simple in theory, how rarely this rule is consistently observed.
2. Dogs love to follow doable and understandable commands. Men love to fulfill feasible and understandable requests for their beloved. Dogs expect commands from their owners, and the commands must be doable for the dog and easy to understand. Of course, with prolonged training, the dog understands the owner perfectly. But, in the beginning, you need to give simple and easy-to-follow instructions for the dog.
A man also likes to do something for a woman. But for this it is desirable that:
first: her requests were feasible by a specific man without undue stress, so that they were understandable to him.
second: you need to say them out loud repeatedly, if so, 500 - 700, and not think that the man will guess to do something himself.
An example of both points: no need to ask your boxer friend to help with higher mathematics, and mathematics to fill the face of a bored, annoying neighbor. This is usually understandable. When it comes to not so obvious things, then a mistake on a mistake. For example, sometimes it is useless for a man to demand that he do home repairs himself if he does not know how and quietly hates it. It is better to direct his energy to earning extra money for repairs. Another mistake is when a woman expects a man to listen and "just chat with her", like her friend, about problems. Do not expect from a man, as from a girlfriend, that after talking about his problem, he will sympathize with you, and will not give you advice with real recommendations on “how to fix the situation.” Because he is a man, he has such a nature, he gives advice, he loves to do it, but he can talk just like that, heart to heart, if you just discuss something with him. If you complain, then resign yourself to the fact that you will hear a question from specific proposals about how to help you and a bunch of recommendations to boot? In general, study the psychology of men, at least a little. Well, just a female hit. I always wonder where women are taught to think that men themselves will guess what is important for a woman? Well, he won't guess, he won't guess. Well, he will not understand on his own that a “broom” is important for a woman, unsuitable even for sweeping the floor, which she calls a bouquet of flowers. If, of course, you tell a man that flowers are very important to you, then gradually he will begin to give them. According to my wife, it takes about 714 repetitions for a man to remember something and start doing what a woman wants him to do. Again, if she requires it regularly, persistently, but at the same time in a calm voice, but without screaming, tantrums and manipulation. Do not think that men do not understand this, therefore, there are women whom their husbands, as they say, wear in their arms, and there are those who cannot achieve anything from a normal man. Start respecting yourself and your needs, then you will be able to achieve their fulfillment from us.
Of the most frequent things that a man “should guess”, but does not guess:
- he must guess to give a woman flowers,
- to guess to marry her,
- to talk and court her after he has achieved her,
- help her with household chores,
- to protect from his parents,
- take more care of your hygiene, cleanliness in the house, etc.
In general, demand all this from us, do not be shy. Talk about it, demand it calmly and confidently, when a man understands what is important to you, he will do it with pleasure. B - early years living together I couldn’t understand why all this hype around flowers, and now I’m happy to give flowers to my wife, she is so happy! How can I now deprive myself of the pleasure of being a hero and a breadwinner, hmm, you can’t wait. In general, study male logic and how to tame a man, and your man himself will not understand how he will start caring for you more, and then pampering you.
3. Dogs love all kinds of toys, especially for which they can run and hunt, etc.
Men also like to play all sorts of games and toys for which, or with which, you can run and hunt. Many men's games for women are: "Well, just real stupid!". Indeed, in many of them, men hurt each other very much (boxing, hockey), or do something that can be done much easier and cheaper, fishing, for example. Or they do such "meaningless" things as lifting the barbell back and forth, or throwing their arms and legs forward with a cry of "yayayay". - I understand it all. However, I ask you to be gentler with men. Without games, dogs and men quickly grow old, become dumb, become very boring, fat and lose interest in life and in their only woman. Therefore, no need to interfere with men's games. It is better if a woman encourages them. Well, I'm not talking about if she is interested in them and even slightly involved in them. Such a woman immediately becomes several points higher than other women. This is just the answer to my wife’s question “How to make a man fall in love with you and marry him?” Throw a stick a couple of times on the weekend so that the dog can bring it back, ask about your partner's car, listen carefully and memorize the name of the "innards of the car" - and you are out of competition. My wife is interested and understands, like me, investments, she can listen to me for hours, and often asks questions to which I myself do not always know the answer, or may notice something that I did not see. She is interested in what is interesting to me, which means she is interested in me - and, for this reason alone, she is out of competition. Of course, if possible, games that are not as stupid from a woman's point of view as others should be encouraged. For example, encourage football, business, investment, science rather than computer games, watching football on TV with a bottle of beer and gatherings in the yard with friends until night.
4. The dog loves to lie down in his kennel, and lie down. And they do not like a leash, especially a short one. In general, give your man personal space. As well as yourself. The dog cannot run continuously, it needs periodic rest. Likewise, a man cannot work, play or even communicate with his only and beloved woman all the time. He needs to be alone. Lie down on the sofa, etc. Give yourself and him the opportunity to be alone, and after a while he will come running to you bored, joyful and satisfied. Dogs don't like leashes, especially short ones. And if they are not released at all without a leash (chain dogs), then they become overly vicious, and they become underdeveloped intellect. However, there are many dogs that walk without a leash, and at the slightest call of the owner they gladly run to him. So are men. They do not like it when women put a leash on them, especially a short one. Where did you go, where were you, where did you spend the ruble, why did you say this, say this, don’t say that, if such questions and instructions go on continuously, then you want to run away from the leash. However, there are men, or rather their women, to whom men happily return , and they themselves ask how to help, etc. This is the position women should aspire to. How to do this is the subject of a separate article.
5. The dog loves bones and other delicious food. Everything seems to be clear here, but a few comments. Even if everyone in your family agrees that the woman mostly cooks, this does not mean that the man does nothing. My wife cooks herself, but she requires me to go to the store to buy groceries, cut and peel vegetables, and wash dishes. Involve a man more actively in cooking, and do not complain. And the second remark, do not overfeed the dog, that is, the man. The sooner you pay attention to this, the better and much easier. Losing 20 extra pounds is a hundred times harder than not gaining at all. excess weight.
6. The most important thing is that if dogs are not brought up, they can become completely obedient, and climb onto the sofa with dirty paws, grab food from the table, bite their owners and their children, etc. all in all. you need to educate your man - teach your man, at the same time increase your self-esteem. Almost everyone knows that puppies, especially large and fighting dogs, must be severely beaten even for the hint of trying to bite or growl at the owner or family members. Please note that not even for a light bite, but simply for growling at the owner, it is necessary to beat the dog. If this is not done, then she can lightly bite you. And then a little more, then a child happens, it’s impossible to do anything, and all that remains is to put the dog to sleep, which, with a different upbringing, would bring only joy to the owner. So it is with men, especially with strong and aggressive ones. Even a hint of disrespect for a woman should never go unnoticed. Today you ignored a slight hint of disrespect, “swallowed it and pretended that it would resolve itself”, tomorrow it may manifest itself in a greater form. And then it remains only to break up with a man who, with a different treatment, would carry you in his arms all his life together. And, of course, the stronger the male character, and the less he was brought up in childhood, the more attention should be paid to this. If you do not pull a man in this matter, then think about whether you can live happily with him. Maybe it's better to give it to another woman, and take yourself a less aggressive and strong man.
Sincerely, Rashid. Project " sunny hands» http://www.sun-hands.ru/

Sutherland spent a year at an exotic animal training school and successfully applied the same tricks to her own husband. In less than a few months, she managed to curb his negative traits a little.

Who doesn't want to achieve the same effect? Here are some tips from professional trainers to help you deal with your partner's bad habits.

Bad Trait #1:

He's allergic to housework

What to do? Try to indulge his love of entertainment.

How does this rule apply to chimpanzees?

These primates are big fans of all sorts of tricks, and it is very difficult to make them calm down. But if you indulge a little their craving for pranks, then you can get your way from them. “When we need to get the chimpanzees to obey, we get on the same level with them and play for 5-10 minutes,” says Eugene Cussons, director of Animal Planet's Chimpanzee Paradise. Having fun, they are more willing to respond to commands, because they instinctively know that it is their turn to meet.

Inside a man of any age lives a mischievous naughty. And this friend has the ability to remind you of his presence at the most inopportune moment: for example, when you are late for work or you need to do something around the house. “To get what you want, pamper him by fooling around with him for a few minutes,” advises Dr. Anthony Rich, author of Finally! How to stop dating losers forever. And then tell him that you will continue later, but for now let him take out the garbage and do everything else that needs to be done. Since he is happy and cheerful, he is unlikely to refuse. If you do this more often, household chores will no longer be perceived by him as a tedious routine.

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Bad Trait #2:

He behaves horribly in society

What to do? Reward the good, ignore the bad.

How does this rule apply to dogs?

An untrained puppy sniffs crotches and jumps on people. Instinctively, there is a desire to drive him away, but then he will only want to jump and sniff more. "Instead, trainers reward the dog when it behaves well and ignore the actions they don't like," says Sutherland. Since dogs crave love, they gradually begin to avoid bad habits and opt for good ones.

How to apply it to your man

Perhaps this will help him get rid of some indecent habits of behavior - for example, telling obscene jokes.

"Men don't want to be treated like children, and if you reprimand him, he'll think you've turned on mommy," says Dr. Patricia Kowalt, author of What Smart Couples Know. It's better to ignore him when he forgets what politeness is, and kiss or pet him when he's being cute.

One nuance: it is important to do everything on time and reward him at the moment when he does something well; otherwise it will not link one to the other.

Bad Trait #3:

He walks away from the conversation

What to do? Stay calm.

How does this rule apply to horses?

Under the powerful appearance of a stallion, a rather shy animal is hiding. “That's why they tend to respond well to the calm voice and touch of trainers,” says Dr. Patricia Barlow-Eirik, an equine behaviorist.

How to apply it to your man

Like horses, men are born to run if you startle them. So even if he exhausted all your nerves, try to remain calm (if this is not easy, then it is for your own good). For example, if you're angry that he was late and didn't warn you or forgot to do something, don't yell and keep your composure. Breathe for a few minutes before approaching him, and speak in a calm, even tone.

Touch also plays important role in this case: during the conversation, put your hand on his. The touch is soothing, it is not in vain that trainers stroke horses on the mane.

Bad Trait #4:

He will be stubborn

What to do? Use proper body language.

How this rule applies to cougars

When tamers want to subdue the cougar, they find a happy medium. “They try not to dominate or fawn over the cougar, but to form a cooperative relationship,” says Sutherland. They hold themselves confidently, straightening their shoulders. This approach ensures that tamers do not look like either victims or threats.

How to apply it to your man

“If you stand too close to him with your hands on your hips and legs wide apart, he will instinctively defend himself and try to fight back,” says body language expert Patti Wood, author of Signs of Success. Likewise, if you remain submissive and bow your head during a conversation, he may take this as a sign of humility. The best way to stay equal is to keep your posture up, with your head up and shoulders back so he sees you as an equal and wants to talk to you, Wood promises.

Bad Trait #5:

You can't get him off the couch

What to do? Approach him at the right time.

How does this rule apply to lions?

Lions are lazy. Tamers say that these animals sleep up to 20 hours a day and move only when they see some benefit in it. “Trying to get a lion to do something when it's in the mood to rest can be very difficult and even dangerous,” says lion trainer Dave Salmoni, host of Animal Planet's After Attack. "That's why we take advantage of the animal being active rather than trying to get it to do what it doesn't want to do when it's relaxed."

How to apply it to your man

If the guy turned on the couch mode, it's hard to shake him up. Catch him when he is active, then ask him to do what you want him to do. If you notice that he prefers to work in the morning, then go to him in the morning and ask him to help you when he finishes his business.

Taming a man- this is a whole art that is not available to every woman. Only very capable women can achieve the heights of this skill and what is called “twisting ropes” from their beloved.

In the matter of taming her soulmate, a woman has two ways:

  • Sitting and waiting for a man to visit the desire to please her with something
  • Take the situation under your vigilant control.

Before stepping on the second way of solving the problem, it is necessary to take into account certain points.

It is necessary to put aside tricks like blackmail with sex or statements that he does not like you with the shedding of n-th number of tears.

The main thing in training men skillfully prioritize and build chains that are correct from the point of view of strategy (of course, one cannot do without knowledge of male psychology here).

In no case should a man demonstrate his own intellectual superiority.

He must be sure that he makes all decisions himself.


We must not forget that male hearing is very selective.
. He perfectly hears compliments in his address, but loses it when they point out his shortcomings to him, criticize him. Therefore, criticizing a man is a thankless task. And you need to praise him at least three times a day. Yes, one more thing, while you need to look at it, as if Napoleon Bonaparte is in front of you (they say it helps a lot!). The constant repetition of praise will develop in your man a reflex and a sense of dependence on a person who tells him something pleasant, i.e. from you.

We must not forget that men also have problems, so men, as emotionally weaker beings, need constant confirmation of their significance as a person. Only that woman who will prove to her lover that he is the best will receive his location, and regardless of intelligence and external data.

Men simply cannot live without support, pity and attention to them. He fell ill, did not conclude an important contract, just came tired from work. You should definitely feel sorry for him, say how unhappy he is, that everyone underestimates him, etc.

And be sure to thank the man . You can thank everything with anything - a delicious dinner, sex, just words. You can't take something and give nothing in return. Gave a ring - received tender kiss, took out the trash can - earned a sandwich ...

Starting to tame a man, you need to start small. First you need to ask him about what he will definitely do, for example, bring your favorite cake to dinner.

And be sure to allow a man to do what is not included in your plans. Gatherings with old comrades for beer, a fishing trip, a camping trip ... The main thing is to always have a happy smile and gratitude on your face. Only then will the man himself want to do something for you - and get a star from the sky and take it to Goa ...

Many men are in no hurry to get married, and everyone has their own reasons for this. Bachelors are different after all, some are just not lucky enough to meet the woman they love, while others do not want to get married ever in their lives. If you meet a handsome, smart, and successful man, who, moreover, turned out to be free, then you need to know how to build relationships from a bachelor. Before you decide to build a relationship with a man, you need to understand why he is still single.

There are such reasons:

  • Unsuccessful experience of family relationships;
  • Not ready for responsibility;
  • Insufficient level of income;
  • Great love for freedom.

The method of taming a bachelor depends directly on the reasons why he really wants him to be. It is necessary to think about how to find a single man who has not yet met the right woman. Attempts to build a relationship with an inveterate bachelor who loves freedom very much and does not imagine living together with a woman is unlikely to bring anything good.

In order to tame a bachelor, you must first of all not show that you want to get married. Men avoid such women, especially bachelors who are used to freedom.

Responsible approach

In order to tame a man who did not marry due to the fact that he did not earn enough money, it is necessary to show his independence. Such a bachelor should feel that you yourself are coping with your financial problems. Try to become for such a man a partner and friend who is able to support and help.

failed marriage

A man who was already married, but the marriage ended in divorce, is most often disappointed in family relationships and women. He can be an excellent husband and father, but he will no longer rush to lead a woman down the aisle, because he will be afraid of the same problems that were in the previous marriage. For such a man, support and understanding are very important, and patience is needed in building relationships with him. Any person after an unsuccessful relationship closes in himself, and ceases to believe that it is different. Therefore, such a man will not want to fasten himself by marriage soon, if he has such a desire at all.

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Bachelor - a state of mind

There are men who are just fine alone, they are satisfied with an open relationship. They simply do not need a wife, they can cook and clean for themselves. Nevertheless, such men sometimes marry, but most often, even in marriage, they continue to adhere to a free lifestyle. They also drink beer with friends whenever they feel like it and cheat freely. If you are ready for such an outcome of events, then adhere to the following recommendations, how to tame a bachelor

  • Respect his freedom. An inveterate bachelor will immediately run away from a woman when he hears from her words about marriage and children. Also, he will be frightened by excessive attention to his life, and persistent questions about where and with whom he was.
  • Be his ideal. To do this, you need to share his interests and opinion, always understand him, and at the same time remain beautiful and well-groomed.
  • Give him comfort. Any man loves delicious homemade food and order in the apartment. At the beginning of a relationship, it can annoy him that someone is putting things in order in his house, then everything must be done gradually, but so that he notices that his life is only getting better.

You can tame almost any bachelor if you find the right approach to him. But still, it will take a lot of effort to tie the knot in marriage to an inveterate bachelor, so first make sure it's worth it.

How many girls dream that men become attached to them. And for this, many choose the only available weapon - to be themselves. Naturalness, of course, is a wonderful feature, but there are many tricks on how to disguise unpleasant traits of your character. And now we will tell you in detail how to tame a man.

Whatever men say about gender equality and the desire to see a strong chosen one nearby, they love to save and care. Source: Flickr (Alexey_Tsyganov)

Which girls easily conquer men

An important condition is to have your own personal life. Plunging headlong into someone else's, the girl becomes depersonalized, becomes obsessive. A passionate and working woman will command respect. If you talk about something with a passion, even if the topic is fashion or travel, a man will appreciate it. He must understand that when parting, you will always find something to do and will not shed tears at night. This shows that a woman is not affectionate and does not put a man above herself.

Important! Friends play a big role. It is useful to leave a man from time to time and have fun with friends.

A woman without unnecessary expectations and dreams, who looks at things soberly and does not expect anything beyond from a man, enjoys every little surprise. The golden rule works - the less you wait, the more you get. And men see this when, for example, in the eyes of a girl at the first meeting, the desire to get married and give birth to three children is reflected. Thus, the girl will subconsciously wait for certain events, which will not allow the man to show his imagination.

When choosing a dinner, you can do harm and insist on your favorite restaurant, but in global matters you need to give in to the male mind. If you don’t like his decisions, you can gently and unobtrusively change them.

Advice! With the decision of a man on an important issue, you must agree. In extreme cases, you will have to look for a compromise, but you can not put ultimatums.

An interesting feature of the ideal female character, according to many men, is the reluctance to throw a tantrum at the moment when it is really fair. The absence of screams for wrongdoing surprises men so much that a woman immediately goes into the category of unpredictable, interesting and outstanding. And such a lady is always more likely to tame a guy.

Important! perfect girl always feminine.

Whatever men say about gender equality and the desire to see a strong chosen one nearby, they love to save and care. A steel lady in straight trousers may and will attract attention, but will not tame a man. He will feel unnecessary with her, and it is contraindicated for a man to doubt himself.

The feminine lady is strong enough morally, but sometimes she needs help. She speaks in a calm voice and laughs pleasantly. Such a girl gets along with the guy's parents and his friends, never rude to anyone, does not condemn or discuss. She would rather give a man the opportunity to intercede for her than go on the rampage herself.

The image of the "fatal" lady

The appearance of a girl must always be impeccable. This does not mean that you need to visit the solarium, nail salon and hairdresser weekly. Just be neat and clean. Since the concept of beauty is subjective, elementary hygiene will help.

Advice! Any girl looks attractive if she takes a shower every day and keeps her nails in order.

Light dresses, knitted sweaters, high-heeled shoes should be added to the wardrobe. middle length. A very important detail is perfume. An unusual pleasant smell is very well remembered and the next time you meet a man will definitely remember you. It is advisable to leave the hair loose, not cut off above the shoulder. Light curls or neat hairstyles collected at the back of the head will do. From accessories you need to choose small handbags of a clear cut (not baggy). Decorations should not be flashy. Makeup is always light, not defiant - the best way to tame a guy.

What tactics to choose

Men definitely appreciate good manners. They are repelled by grumpiness, irritability, hypocrisy and gossip. Even if someone hurts you on the street, it is better to generously forgive. In this situation, most likely a man will rush to protect you and will respect you even more. If you shout at the culprit, then your companion will think that you are rude.

You can not focus on the shortcomings of a man, wanting to correct them in this way. Women's tactics are always invisible and unobtrusive. You should not try to show yourself smarter than a guy, even if it really is. It is better to leave him the leadership in his favorite area and demonstrate his knowledge on another topic. So, if you are both financiers, then let him “teach” you something, and then show off your knowledge of a related topic.

It is interesting! Men prefer those women who, in addition to the main needs, can also satisfy those that are beyond the power of other ladies. This is one of better ways understand how to tame a husband.

As a rule, a man will never leave a woman with whom he gets everything he needs. However, it is almost impossible to give everything. This also harms relationships, because then we begin to desire something else. There should be no indulgence, but the desire to give what most women cannot give will help a lot in taming a man.

Attracting a man is not an easy task. It is much more difficult to keep it, and even more difficult to tame it once and for all. Source: Flickr (Adam_Patrick_Murray)

How to take care of your inner beauty

Therefore, care must be taken to smart man there was something to talk about. To do this, you need to read, meet interesting people, study. The rich inner world captivates the guys and makes them want to meet. This is how the process of taming happens.

It is not necessary to know everything, there is enough knowledge in your field, hobbies and awareness of a man’s hobbies. It is important for a woman to have a stable system of values ​​and principles. “I don’t know what I want” is not coquetry, but uncertainty. You need to respect yourself and not go against your own rules. If you believe that sex is inappropriate on a first date, then, having stepped over yourself, you will feel disgust for your act and thereby ruin the relationship.

  1. Show that his wants and needs mean a lot to you. Make surprises, unexpected dates, give gifts. The idea that a man should pursue a woman is partly a stereotype. It is true, but without reciprocal attention, a man will think that he is simply unimportant.
  2. Don't make fun of him. Values, ideas and attitudes are important components of every person. And everyone has their own. Even if he firmly believes in the impossibility of sex before marriage, respect this. Contradictory views can be corrected, but not all thoughts can be changed. It will simply change the essence of a person. And by mocking any, even the most bizarre idea, you devalue the very personality of a man.
  3. Give compliments. Another stereotype that women should not praise men has long been worn out. Everyone loves praise, and men even more so. Celebrate his merits, but do not overpraise, and everything will be fine.
  4. Don't impose. Perhaps one of the main rules that many break. Let the man be the lead player. Let him at least think so.
  5. Remove criticism. Modern women know how to change Windows and fix a faucet, so they don't need help. Even if they allow a man to fix something, they immediately jump in with advice, which in fact turns out to be criticism. Don't give him a reason to doubt yourself.
  6. Do not Cry. This does not apply to some sad events or days when excessive fatigue takes over. It is enough not to throw tearful tantrums every day and, if possible, give positive.
  7. Be sincere. It is important for men to trust. To give the opportunity to feel completely safe next to you is how to tame a guy seriously and for a long time.

Attracting a man is not an easy task. It is much more difficult to keep it, and even more difficult to tame it once and for all. We hope these tips will help you attract attention and lure a man without compromising your personality.

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