Jokes for the wedding in the holding. The scenario of the wedding at home “Everyone to the ball! Competition for guests "Mutual contact"
Newlyweds meeting in a restaurant
(Instrumental music sounds, young people are waiting for an invitation, guests receive balloons and pipes)
Host: Hello, dear participants of the big celebration! I ask you to take your seats at the festive table. Allow me to introduce myself - my name is Natalia, and today I will lead this wedding celebration.
Let me, on behalf of our newlyweds, thank you for responding to the invitation and deciding to spend this significant day with them. A wedding is the greatest event in the life of every person. They dream about it, look forward to it, prepare for it with special trepidation and excitement. So let's give our newlyweds today only the best, so that only warm words and happy faces of their relatives and friends remain in their memories.
Dear guests, let's greet our young people with a “salute”, while clapping loudly, shouting “Congratulations!”, Because, as you know, loud sounds scare away evil spirits, all evil spirits and human envy.
Therefore, dear friends, we loudly and joyfully meet the main characters of a wonderful evening! Here it is - our new family!
(Under friendly applause, explosions of balloons, the newlyweds go to their places of honor)
Host: There has been a belief in Russia since ancient times. For a happy life, a newly-made couple needs to close the symbolic lock, the key to family happiness. Let your road be long and neither grief nor trouble will separate you. Close your love tightly, to friendly applause! (The newlyweds close the castle).
Let's fill the cups to the brim to congratulate the couple again and drink everything to the bottom, for happiness, for love! Men, help the ladies cope with both vodka and Aghdam. You, dear women, follow the men, offer snacks. Since everyone is ready, my first toast is ready, from the most joyful and blessed words!
Fanfare sounds.
The first toast "For the young"
It happens, it happens, it happens
Sometimes two halves do not meet at once,
Sometimes two loves are not found at once,
They have to search and believe for a long time.
But this day is happy, it has come,
Per new family Let's raise a glass.
May happiness be endless
Let neither grief nor trouble knock on the house,
We know that all bad weather will pass you by,
For eternal love, we will drink at the table!
Without violating wedding rituals,
For the bride and groom to be happy
Let's rise, emptying our glasses,
My first toast is to the happiness of the young!
The song "White Dress" is included
Toast "For the rings of the newlyweds"
Host: Dear newlyweds! Today has become your reference point family life. A marriage registration certificate officially confirms your rights to a happy family life. At the same time, marriage is also a great responsibility for each other and a series of trials that can only be overcome together.
We wish you mutual respect, understanding and patience, so that joy, peace and God's grace settle in your souls and hearts until the end of your days.
The song "Wedding Ring" is included
Host: Dear newlyweds! The most precious feeling that you must carry is love, and not only for yourself, but for your close and dear people and, first of all, love for your parents. Thanks to your parents, you are here enjoying long-awaited happiness. It was they who took out hooks and sticks with you, solved puzzles, wiped away tears of insults, worried about your bruises and abrasions, rejoiced at your successes and helped you come to this happy wedding day. Before we raise our glasses to them, the parents will say words of congratulations to you, dear newlyweds.
The host of the wedding introduces the groom's parents, then the bride's parents.
Congratulations to the parents of the newlyweds
Host: Dear newlyweds, let me toast to my parents.
Listen today to the words of your parents, they are sincere, filled with love for you. Let's drink to those who once made the hearts of the newlyweds beat and gave birth to a new family. Let's drink to the parents whose love will light the way in hard times for your family. For dads and moms, whose thoughts and souls are filled with the joy of a solemn event. For parents!
(A toast for parents is pronounced at the beginning of the song "Parental House", which intensifies with the end of the text of the host)
Host: (With a chest in hand) Dear newlyweds, a wonderful, happy and very important day for you is gaining momentum. Important point holiday, this is congratulations to your family and friends.
The wedding custom is unchanged,
Congratulate the young family beautifully,
Put a gift in my magic chest,
So that the life of the young begins so sweetly.
Dear newlyweds, your sisters and brothers are in a hurry to congratulate you.
Congratulations to the newlyweds
Congratulations to the rest of the guests.
Final toast for all congratulations.
Host: Dear guests, let's wish our newlyweds that mutual understanding, friendship, happiness and boundless love reign in their family! And we also wish that any desires (name of the bride) coincide with the possibilities (name of the groom).
Board games for the wedding
"Entrance Examination for Marriage": for the groom. The groom, without prompting the guests, kisses the bride 20 times in different places.
"Entrance exam for the bride": the bride names her spouse as much as possible kind words. "Affectionate hedgehog"
Host: Dear guests, another congratulation for the newlyweds is next!
"Confused congratulations." A dozen guests line up in front of the young table facing them. In a chaotic manner, tablets with letters are distributed to everyone. On command, the guests must reorganize in such a way that the phrase “Congratulations!”
The words of the host for the first dance of the young
Host: Raise your hands! (guests raise their hands)
Put your hands down! (guests raise their hands)
Now pick up any things from the table (guests take any item from the table)
He took the glass again
Apparently he took little
We appreciate your great impulse,
But first, please
Leading: I give the right to open our dance evening to our newlyweds. So, the first marital dance of the young!
Under the chosen music, the first dance of the young people takes place, after the performance, a dance break is announced.
2 table:
Host: Many toasts have already been made today, but I would like to say one more with pleasure - this toast is for cheerful, energetic, young and handsome ... guests.
Musical pause.
Host: And I have a task for you, dear guests. Sing a song, recite a verse, name a movie that mentions your name. Let's get to know each other. The guest rises, sings, a toast to the young - drinks - sits down, etc. in turn.
We recall songs, films in which the names of the bride and groom appear.
- "Big name" - we remember famous people of the past and present who have the same names as the newlyweds
- "Couples in love" - famous couples in love, the host calls the man, the guests call the woman
- "Shifters" - guess the famous phrase for the given "changeling"
- "Shoe and shoe" - a comic distribution of duties between the bride and groom
- “Who is holding a glass” - a test for guests
- "Fairy Tale Impromptu" - "No one marries"
Game "Cinderella"
6 pairs are called. The guys are taken to another room. At this time, the girls sit on chairs in a row and take off their shoes from one foot and put them in a pile. The shod leg is pressed under itself or hidden in another way, and the bare foot is pulled out in front of you. The guys come in. Their task is to remember what their ladies' shoes look like and choose the right one from a pile of shoes. After the shoes are chosen and in the hands of the guys who try the shoe for their partner. If a pair of shoes converged, the pair steps aside, and the rest of the guys, exchanging shoes, without the girls' prompts, still try to find the right pair for the shoe worn on the partner's leg.
Game "Stash"
The host invites several couples. We take the girls to another place. I give out 10 bills to men. The task of men is to “hide” one banknote in their clothes in different places. Then we invite women, and on command they look for a “stash” in the clothes of a partner.
Plastic surgery game
Couples take part. Men sit on chairs with their backs to their partners. The girls stand, and on command they pull a stocking over the head of the young people, so that a small top remains. Then, holding on to the top of the stocking, the girls with one hand! pull the stocking off the guy's head. The guys are sure to smile!
Game "The most attentive husband"
Women line up in a row (including the wife). They stretch out their hands. The man is wearing a bandage. After that, all women are replaced by men. The task of the husband is to recognize his wife by the palms.
Nowadays, many newlyweds abandon the traditional wide feast about their marriage and replace it with a friendly party at the club and honeymoon trip, well, this is their holiday, which means it is up to them to decide how to spend this day. But the majority, nevertheless, arranges a banquet in order to have plenty of fun with friends, and most importantly, so that parents and relatives can celebrate this event with them, who, like the heroes of the occasion themselves, were waiting for this day with trepidation and bated breath. How to make such a wedding banquet fun and interesting for guests of different generations? How to arrange a modern holiday and at the same time observe wedding traditions and rituals? The way out is to find an original and compromise solution for organizing a wedding celebration. To help, we offer our option - New scenario wedding "Happy Day", in which we tried to combine classics and modernity, lyrics and fun, novelty and loyalty to traditions. The script is built according to the classic wedding plot, but all the rituals are presented in a new way, and all the games and entertainment are original, funny and musical.
ABOUT THE SCENARIO: the script is written taking into account modern holiday trends and practical experience events - traditional wedding moments are presented in a new way, softly, in a comic-lyrical form, worked out in detail and fully decorated with music, printing and video files (you can download in full version script). Since the script turned out to be very voluminous and labor-intensive, and many of you in preliminary requests asked only for the beginning of the holiday or, conversely, only for its final and entertaining part, it was decided to break it into two equivalent halves (each contains about 15 game episodes and chips) , for those who are interested in having the whole script, a good bonus discount is provided. Also, due to the fact that a couple of moments of the script are duplicated with a previously placed program" We have fun walking the wedding" , then when it is purchased, a bonus is also valid - details below.
Meeting of the newlyweds before the banquet" family birthday"
This is a new author's version of the meeting of the newlyweds before the banquet, designed in the bright style of a birthday - the birthday of a new family, in compliance with all the necessary wedding traditions, which, according to the plot, takes place on seven different bridges: " amulet " , " Past ", " Wealth " , " Love ", " Happiness ", " A family ", " Future " . Thanks to the chosen theme and inexpensive, but colorful props, such a meeting ritual will give a positive charge to the whole holiday, cheer up all participants and is very spectacular, which is good for memorable photos and video footage. In case of bad weather, the meeting can be arranged in the lobby of the hall.
General requisites for all participants of the meeting:
caps, headbands, colorful birthday paper ties, pictures of bridges printed on a color printer (if multiple use is supposed, then it is better to laminate the pictures, except for picture No. 6, because an inscription will be made on it, it will be printed again for each holiday and given to the newlyweds as a keepsake)
Props by groups:
First group of guests(Bridge "Obereg")- pipes, whistles, bells;
Second group of guests(Bridge "Past")- balloons inflated with helium, note paper, felt-tip pens;
Third group of guests(Bridge "Wealth")- crackers - bumfeti with money or gold foil, coins;
Fourth Guest Group(Bridge "Happiness") - sweets, rice, rattles, scissors, blue and pink helium balloons;
Fifth Group of guests (Love Bridge) - hearts and sponges on sticks or balls - hearts
Sixth Group of guests (Family Bridge) - LED or foil stars on sticks, felt-tip pen);
Seventh Group of guests (Bridge "Future") - loaf, glasses, colored ribbons
(Author's note: the scenario is designed for a newlyweds meeting on the street before entering the banquet hall, depending on the number of guests participating in the meeting, each group should have two or more people. The organizers are offered two options to choose from: the first is bright, lyrical and solid, the second is shorter and more dynamic. The theme of the meeting fits well with storyline the whole holiday, so we advise the presenters to keep this in mind when making their changes.)
Training. The host discusses the scenario of the meeting with the guests in advance and distributes roles and props between them. If most of the guests, together with the newlyweds, take part in a walk after the registry office, then you should ask them to arrive a little earlier than the car with the bride and groom arrives. Guests line up in a living corridor, the so-called "corridor of happiness", for all (if possible) paraphernalia for celebrating a birthday, in the middle (along the living corridor) seven pictures depicting bridges are laid out (important (!) - the bridges in the pictures should be located exactly in the direction of the newlyweds, so that the newlyweds seem to walk along them, and not step across them). All guests are divided into seven groups according to the number of bridges and, depending on the conditional purpose of the "bridge" near which they will stand, each group has its own props and tasks, the key moments on each bridge are supported by everyone: with a sound effect, enthusiastic shouts and applause. Pictures are laid out at a small distance (40-50 cm) from each other, each picture is 1x0.52 meters in size, if desired, you can make it larger, reducing the size is not recommended, because. will be uncomfortable. ( ready options images can be downloaded in full version - folder " Meeting (pictures) " ).
Meeting of the newlyweds. Option 1.
(When the newlyweds approach, the presenter begins to speak)
Presenter: Hooray! A beautiful and happy couple is approaching us, let's welcome them! (guests shout, make noise, applaud). No, no, dear guests, you probably didn’t understand, not just a couple is approaching us, but an incredibly wonderful FAMILY (!) COUPLE - (Names and surnames of the newlyweds), which means that it is necessary to welcome them incredibly and wonderfully! Let's try again! (guests shout, make noise, applaud even louder and more actively).
Expensive (Names of young people) today a wonderful event happened in your life - you became husband and wife! Your family is celebrating their first birthday today! And all your closest people have gathered here to congratulate you on this event, and also to bless and charge your newborn family for a long and happy life with the help of an ancient ritual - passing through seven bridges!
(points to the picture with the first bridge)
Presenter: First Bridge - "Charm"! You will pass it
You will confuse evil forces and scare away from yourself,
Just walk not straight, but unusually,
And be loud as hell!
(The newlyweds are walking, a group of guests standing near the first bridge on the left and right sides, creates a lot of noise: blowing, whistling, ringing)
Presenter: On the Bridge with the name "Past" step,
Let go of all the past and unnecessary forever ......
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Meeting of the newlyweds. Option 2.
(in this more dynamic and simpler version, the essence and sequence of actions is preserved, only the presentation and text of the leader changes when passing bridges, and also in this version, guests can not be divided into groups, but put in a common corridor of happiness on the left and right sides and just hand out props and paraphernalia in the style of a birthday)
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Banquet scenario.
Track 1 sounds
(from the folder "Music for the script - 1") - young people enter, then guests
(The beginning of the holiday can take place in different ways - it is better to discuss this moment with the newlyweds in advance.
1. Guests and newlyweds are invited to the tables and the host helps in seating, gifts in this case are presented during the celebration.
2. In order for the young people to put themselves in order after the wedding walk, a pause is arranged, and at this time the guests are invited to put gifts on a specially designated table and drop gift envelopes with money into a colorful box.
3. The newlyweds themselves accept congratulations and gifts from the guests and then invite everyone to the tables
Background music plays. If there is a screen, wedding pictures are shown)
FIRST Feast
Sounds track 2 - the presenter solemnly exits
Presenter: Everything starts with love!
Dream, flight, discovery, inspiration.
Everything starts with love!
Family, birth and union of hearts!
So our holiday began with Love and is dedicated to Love, wonderful, unique and beautiful, the Love of our newlyweds! …………………
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FURTHER IN THE SCENARIO OF THE MODERN WEDDING "HAPPY DAY":
- Musical acquaintance of guests "Close people". Option 1
This version of musical acquaintance is an alternative to the popular wedding presentation, which allows you to put an emotional emphasis on the newlyweds and their parents, unobtrusively introduce yourself as the host of the holiday, and the guests to relax, tune in to the festive wave and become closer to each other.
Presenter: It has long been customary that the most dear and close ones are invited to a birthday party. The birthday of a new family is no exception, although it has its own characteristics. Which? Yes, at least these! I ask you, raise your hands, those who sincerely wish the newlyweds happiness? (guests react) Of course everyone! And now respond those who are well acquainted not only with the young, but literally with everyone present in this hall? (guests react). As you can see, there are much fewer of them. After all, a wedding connects not only two loving hearts, but also two Worlds, Two Planets: the World of relatives and friends of the groom and the World of the bride’s relatives, who until this day rotated in different orbits, and, only thanks to the birth of this family, for the first time all met together for one table. And now, everyone just needs to get to know each other better, make friends, and maybe fall in love, right?
EXTRACT FOR ILLUSTRATION:
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But this happy story might not have happened if, in due time, their parents (names of the bride's parents and the names of the groom's parents) did not meet and fell in love with each other, let's greet the parents of the newlyweds and their wishes to the children - applause.
Sounds track 5 or 5a
Our newlyweds managed to fall in love with each other from the first smile, I propose to check with what smile you, the closest relatives and best friends of the newlyweds will succeed?! Do you agree? (guests support). Then let's make it fun and to the music! And help us to
- (DJ name)! Let's welcome him…………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………… .........................
11 ready-made cuts are attached - look in the folder "Close people"
- Toast"For love!"
Track 6 sounds ( from the folder "Music for the script -1") - banquet break
Presenter:"Foreva, Love!", "Love, Foreva!" Expensive (Names of young people)! Love, long and mutual, tender and real, is sought by everyone, but few find it. You're lucky! In this huge and so difficult world you have found each other! ………………………………………………………………………. ................
(Author's note: if grandparents are present at the wedding, then before moving on to the next toast, you need to say a few warm words about them, and give them the opportunity to congratulate the young with a couple of words of blessing)
- Toast - interactive"For parental home!"
Presenter: Yes, today is an amazing day! A day of emotional upheaval, vivid impressions and magical transformations! For this one day (Names of young people) from beloved girls and guys turned, first into the bride and groom, and then the spouses ringed by fate. It is not easy for young people to accept all these changes at once, but what about their parents ?! …………………….................................................. ...................
Track 9 sounds
(words of parting words from parents and words of gratitude from children)
Track 10 or 10a sounds.
- Rite of interbreeding "Matchmakers under hypnosis"
Cheerful and unusual, musically playful and at the same time lyrical version of the traditional wedding moment of rapprochement and intermarriage of two families, written in the style of the show "Stars under hypnosis"
EXTRACT FOR ILLUSTRATION:
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Heroes of the pilot issue - newlyweds and parents, please go to the studio!
(in the center of the hall facing the audience there are six chairs, if the families are incomplete, then less, and the text, depending on the specific family situation, is also slightly changed)
Track 1 sounds (from the folder "Matchmakers under hypnosis") - participants leave
Please sit down on our sofa! This applause sounds for you! (audience applauds). And we start with the most problematic, according to anecdotes, family relationships: mother-in-law and son-in-law! Yes, with you mother-in-law's names and son-in-law). Please change places (if not sitting next to each other) and sit closer to each other (goes up to mother-in-law and stands behind her).
- (While talking - quiet in the background track 2 sounds) Now I will put my hand on your head, and through my palm you will feel warm……………………….
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Thank you for such a bright and touching ceremony of twinning! Go to your seats! And remember this state, it will be very useful in life, because where there is mutual understanding and trust, hypnosis is not needed there. (says with a smile) But to consolidate success with a life-giving drink - it won’t hurt, right ?! …………………………….
12 ready-made cuts are attached - look in the folder "Matchmakers under hypnosis"
- Eyeliner to the first dance of the young
dance break
SECOND Feast
- Musical table game - warm-up for guests "Hot wedding ten"
An original role-playing game - an animation to warm up and activate the festive mood
Characters:
Money
Champagne
Flowers
Wedding rings
Songs
Dancing
toasts
Cake
Present
Kiss
Selection of participants and description of activities
(Author's note: the presenter goes around the hall and gradually distributes all the roles, explaining along the way the essence of the actions for each group, representing one or another symbol, the recommended text is below, but the organizers can do it in their own way)
Of course, our newlyweds will be responsible for the "Wedding Rings"! (referring to newlyweds) Your task: to gently stroke your sparkling rings, saying: "My charm!", as soon as you hear ……………….
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Presenter:(referring to the audience) Gentlemen artists, is everything clear to everyone? Then let's start! First, let's play together the introduction called "We got to the TOP", and then the staging itself……………………….
Musical accompaniment to look in the folder "Hot ten"
- Block of delivery of wedding gifts "Tangerine Darins"
Author's note: In this case, this is a surprise from the young people with the situation that the presentation of gifts to the newlyweds themselves has already taken place at the beginning of the celebration, if there has not been a donation yet, then this ritual can be carried out as an exchange of gifts……………….
(Liner and explanations are attached)
Track 17 sounds in the background -from a folder" Music for the script - 2"
- Table role-playing tale - the game "Head of the family"
This feasting fun is taken from our author's script #59 "We're having fun at the wedding", so when you purchase it along with it, there is a bonus discount, you can see its announcement there, but the ending is changed to go to the next game block.
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………… And try to find confirmation of the axiom,
What is more important and "most importantly - the weather in the house!"
Presenter: Newlyweds, please take the stage (to the center of the room)!
Track 18 sounds (folder "Music for the script - 2") - at the exit of the newlyweds
Game block for newlyweds. School of family life "Weather in the house"
Presenter:(sings or speaks):"There is me and you, and everything else is easy to fix with an umbrella." In my opinion, golden words! (referring to newlyweds) Do you agree? (newlyweds answer). The experience of family life shows that you can fix it not only with the help of an umbrella, but also with a trash can taken out, a nail hammered in time, a delicious dinner cooked, a washed shirt and many other household trifles, which, at times, are akin to feats. What exploits are you ready for? I propose to check with the help of a comic video game under the symbolic name "Twenty exploits of the newlyweds"
- Video game for newlyweds "Twenty feats of newlyweds"
A modern version of playing up the traditional moment of "Distribution of matrimonial duties" - in game form, with the help of comic pictures and appropriate musical arrangement.
Props: screen and projector or plasma TV and computer
The competition is made in Power Point format, the download link is at the beginning of the full version of the script, the author's explanations are attached.
Presenter: Attention to the screen! (on the screen the first picture). You are invited to express readiness to the groom - for his beloved, the bride - for his beloved to perform a dozen feats (picture 2 on the screen). You can choose in turn and in any sequence, if one of you finds ten feats beyond your strength, you can stop at any moment, but whoever stops, as a penalty, right here and now, fulfills any desire of his half. The essence of the game is simple: say the phrase: "I'm ready or ready for (name of the second half) ...", name the number, the DJ clicks on it, on the screen there is a picture with a feat, if you are really ready, dance, raising it in agreement thumb up (sign IN!) if, no, you dance with your arms or fingers crossed. Clear? Then let's go!
Examples of feats to illustrate:
(game in progress)
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- Lesson of reconciliation for the newlyweds "Step towards"
Ready-made pictures in the folder "Step forward", background music in the folder "Music for scenario -2"
- Kissing lessons "Bridges of Love"
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- (on the screen the fifth picture"Bridge of Sighs") In front of you is the Bridge of Sighs. And we have a kiss of continuous romance. So the bride is high on the bridge again (the groom helps the bride to stand on a chair). She is a young Venetian who is waiting for her hot lover - a gondolier. And as he swims towards her, she sighs deeply from each stroke of his oar. Then he swims up, takes her off the bridge to his gondola and kisses her passionately, in Italian.
Track 5 sounds - newlyweds kiss
(Author's note: all three games with the newlyweds, in this case, are designed with video or printing and it is better to conduct them using the screen, but if the technical capabilities do not allow, the first lesson can be replaced with a similar one in scenario No. 59, and the second and third can be conducted using printed pictures or invite guests and newlyweds to just dream up and present the appropriate picture)
Ready-made pictures in the "Bridges" folder, musical cuts in the "Bridges of Love (music)" folder
- Game decoy for a general photo"Family Support"
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…..Presenter: Now, everything is correct. Dear newlyweds, look around, look around! From all sides you are surrounded by faithful and reliable friends and relatives, this is your wall, on which, like each other, you can always lean! Photo for memory!
Sounds track 21 - everyone is photographed
dance break
- Game during the dance break "Who got married in .. "
See the musical arrangement in the folder "Who got married"
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CONTINUATION In, which is offered separately (500 rubles), then when they are purchased together, there is a bonus discount (250 rubles), for two (900 rubles). The discount is also provided when purchasing together the second part of the Happy Day wedding scenario, which is separately offered ( 650 rubles), and if with this scenario, then there is a discount (300 rubles), for both (1000 rubles). For those who want to have all three scenarios in their arsenal, a discount (400 rubles), and thus, for three scenarios (1400 rubles). Only for this scenario, respectively, 650 rubles will be enough.
AT recent times appeared new trend- organization of a wedding event without observing ancient traditions, during which a lot of time is devoted to fun game contests and competitions.
This means that in preparation for the celebration, funny and modern wedding scenarios for the toastmaster are prepared in advance. When conducting a wedding in this format, it is required to involve the newlyweds and guests in a fun, exciting game festival - an interesting show that will remain in the memory of all participants in the holiday for a long time.
Scenario with contests
The biggest celebration of a young family is rightfully considered the Day of Registration of the Marriage Union.
The wedding format has a wide range: from a modest student party to a grandiose large-scale celebration. It all depends on the wishes of the bride and groom, national traditions and, of course, on financial capabilities. Without exception, all newlyweds dream that their wedding would be a real joyful festive event filled with fun, laughter, jokes, songs, interesting competitions, dancing.
To do this, even during the preparation of the wedding, it is necessary to draw up an interesting scenario, according to which the wedding host will be able to competently and cheerfully hold the event, observe the customs and traditions of everyone.
According to the modern style, the wedding can be divided into several parts:
- Start of the wedding. Begins wedding celebration solemn part. Young spouses at the festive wedding table accept congratulations and gifts from all participants of the wedding celebration.
- Main part. During the second part, a fun entertainment program is held, full of numerous fun contests, funny competitions, game theatrical skits with the participation of the newlyweds and wedding guests. There are also fun song competitions and, of course, moving dances.
- Final part. In the final part, romantic wedding rituals are held: lighting candles hearth, sand ceremony, tying a scarf, throwing the bride's wedding bouquet and other interesting rituals. At the end of the wedding, guests are offered a delicious dessert - a wedding cake.
If you are planning a wedding with a large number of young people who are not interested in boring old traditions and want to have fun, you can offer one of the options interesting scenario with the participation of the presenter or toastmaster.
The wedding begins with the words of the toastmaster: “Attention, our dear guests! Now we will see an amazing and beautiful couple - our beautiful bride and groom are coming up to us. Let's greet our newlyweds with thunderous applause!
The bride and groom approach the toastmaster and stand in the center of the wedding hall. Tamada continues: “Good afternoon (gives the names of the bride and groom)! Let's start your wedding. Please accept our congratulations on entering into a legal marriage.
Congratulations on the birth of a new young family (gives the name of the young spouses)!”
The host recites the following short congratulatory poem:
“Our dear newlyweds! Let's now come to the closest and dearest - your parents. In the hands of your mothers you see a symbol of well-being - ruddy and lush wedding bread, a symbol of your home well-being and prosperity. I suggest that the bride and groom go up to their parents and break off a piece of the wedding loaf for themselves.
The newlyweds come up and break off a piece of bread from the sides.
"Dear guests! What conclusion can be drawn from the broken off young pieces of loaf? Now you can understand who in a young family is a big fan of food or will be the main one in the family!
Now salt your slices of wedding bread hard. Salt do not regret, salt as much as possible! With love and tender eyes, look affectionately at each other, exchange pieces and feed each other diligently! Dear guests!
Pay attention to how carefully they feed each other, they don’t want to be hungry!” There is laughter in the hall. Tamada invites guests to go to wedding hall and take a seat at the wedding table. While the guests are seated, the host says the words: “Dear guests! Please do not be shy, today we will have fun, try delicious treats and raise toasts in honor of the most beautiful couple.
I suggest gentlemen to look after beautiful ladies so that glasses and plates are not empty.
Participants of the wedding celebration fill their glasses. The leader's words are:
“Dear newlyweds! Today, on this wonderful day of the wedding, the most significant event– You have connected your destinies and united your life paths. From now on, you are no longer a bride and groom, but real spouses - husband and wife. Let me congratulate you on behalf of all the wedding guests on this step and on your legal marriage!”
“Dear (name of the groom, name of the bride)! What a joy to see a happy couple in love! Everyone knows that the greatest happiness in life is confidence in mutual love!
Our newlyweds have such great happiness. It is for this happiness that we raise our glasses.
Our first toast is to our beautiful newlyweds, to your happy family life!”
While the participants at the wedding table are trying festive dishes, the toastmaster invites the guests to get acquainted, congratulate the newlyweds and give them gifts.
The host approaches each of the guests, introduces himself and offers a microphone for congratulations.
After congratulations and presentation of gifts, the toastmaster offers to hold a quiz about the newlyweds: “Dear bride and groom! Now we will hold a quiz among the guests on the knowledge of the history of your acquaintance. Guests must answer questions, and for young people - please do not suggest the correct answers.
- The first prize is an air kiss from our beautiful bride. Question to the audience - who is the bride according to the horoscope? Answer: Taurus.
- The second prize - a strong male handshake of the groom - will be given to the one who answers the question: what kind of sport does (groom's name) prefer. Answer: sambo.
- The third prize is a kiss from our bride. Question to the guests: What are the bride's favorite flowers? Answer: roses.
- The fourth prize is a triple kiss from our fiancé. What is the groom's favorite sport at the wedding today? Answer: A unique opportunity to have a drink with our bride for brotherhood.
- The fifth prize for the bride and groom is the opportunity to give each other a hot kiss if they give the correct answers to the following questions: Question to our bride: What is the groom's favorite dish? Question to the groom: What long-running series (bride's name) has been watching since childhood and will not be able to watch it to the end?
After the comic quiz is over, the presenter offers to fill the glasses again and taste the dishes of the festive treat. After a while, the host announces a competition about parents.
“Today the bride and groom have new status"Husband and wife". In connection with this joyful event, the changes also affected their parents. We invite fathers and mothers of the newlyweds to learn their new statuses.
He turns to the groom's mother: “Our dear mother, you are no longer just a lady, but a mother of a wonderful bride. An eyebrow will never frown, our ideal .... (guests continue in chorus - mother-in-law!).
The following words are an appeal to the mother of the bride: “Now you have a new son - your wonderful wonderful son-in-law! Be with your son-in-law, you are simpler, as it should be .... (mother-in-law!) ”
Tamada proposes a toast to the parents of the bride and groom: “I propose a toast to the closest people - to the parents. It was these people who surrounded you, young people, with their selfless love and care, were your faithful support and support. Let's raise a glass in their honor and thank them for raising such wonderful children, our groom (name) and bride (name)!
The sound of glasses clinking. After a snack, it's time for moving fun contests.
Tamada proposes to hold a dance competition with the following words: “I invite all wedding participants to the dance floor so that our couple in love will have a pleasant training in our Kissing Academy.”
- The first lesson is "Royal Kiss". We offer the bride to sit on an imaginary throne (offers a decorated chair). Here she is, our queen! The bridegroom is her subject, who must kiss the hand of his queen. (The groom should get down on one knee and kiss the bride's hand) Tamada invites the guests to applaud the young for the first lesson.
- The second lesson is "Caucasian". The host addresses the groom with a request to imagine himself as a horseman standing on one mountain (puts a chair in front of him). Dzhigit shouts to his bride: "I love you!". The mountain echo (witness of the groom) repeats this phrase. The bride at the foot of the mountain (chair) in response shouts “I love you!”, The witness, like an echo, repeats this phrase to the witness and he passes it on to the groom. In conclusion, the groom and the witness perform an incendiary lezginka. The groom goes to the bride and kisses her.
- The third lesson is "Cossack". The bride is a beautiful farmer, and the groom is a Cossack. He enters the farm at a gallop, sitting astride a dashing horse (witness), circles his bride in a circle three times and kisses her on the go.
- The fourth lesson is "Graduation" or "Wedding Kiss". The guests stand in a circle, in the center - the newlyweds. The guests chant “Bitter!”, the bride and groom kiss, and the guests count how long their kiss lasts.
After this competition, the host announces the first dance of the newlyweds, which begins the dance program with the participation of all participants in the wedding.
When the guests get a little tired of fast dancing, the host offers to hold a popular contest "Guess the gender of the future first-born of the young."
Tamada announces: “We all know that a happy young family is a family with small children. Dear friends, let's all make magic together and order the first-born for the young spouses - a daughter or a son. I invite witnesses to be bankers and offer them bags to collect money for the baby.
Whoever collects more money in his bag, a baby of this gender will appear in the family.
While collecting and counting money, the host asks funny questions, and the guests quickly answer:
“I suggest our bankers announce the results! Witnesses, state the sums collected. Now you can make a statement: in the family (names the common name of the young) the first will be born (names the sex of the child). I propose the following toast to the health of the firstborn.
It does not matter what gender the first child will be, the main thing is that he be healthy and strong. Let's raise our glasses to love!"
Scenario without competitions and traditions
Thinking over the format of the wedding, modern brides and grooms often think about giving their main festive event a special personality and holding a wedding in their own style without competitions and observing ancient traditions.
The usual scenarios consist of numerous competitions, in order to participate in which the toastmaster has to persuade the wedding guests. Today's youth are perplexed by the contests of carrying an apple between the legs or kissing different parts of the neighbor's body.
In order to hold an interesting and spectacular wedding without competitions and without observance of outdated ancient rites, it is important to correctly plan the wedding event in advance.
The proposed order of the wedding celebration is as follows:
- Each of the future spouses, with the help of close friends, prepares for the wedding in their home.
- The groom with close friends goes to meet the bride at her house. When meeting the bride, the groom brings a wedding bouquet and words of love as a gift.
- Guests are offered light snacks and drinks at the bride's house. The first photo session is underway.
- The bride and groom with close friends, witnesses and parents go to the place of registration of the marriage union. The outdoor ceremony is considered a wonderful alternative to the usual ceremony in the official registry office.
- At the end of the ceremony, the newlyweds go for a walk and a photo shoot.
- From the walk, the newlyweds come to the place where the wedding banquet will take place. Guests and relatives form a living corridor through which the young people pass into the hall. Along the way, the newlyweds are showered with fragrant petals of multi-colored roses and greeted with words of congratulations.
- Congratulations from parents.
The bride and groom and invited guests enter the wedding hall, filled with the sounds of wedding melodies, and take their seats at the festive wedding tables.
Tamada pronounces the following congratulatory words:
A beautiful song plays in the background music wedding theme. The participants of the celebration begin the wedding banquet.
Some time later - after the guests had a bite, the host invites them to congratulate the young spouses and give wedding gifts:
“Let's congratulate our young people (the name of the bride and groom) on the most solemn birthday of the new family - Happy Marriage Day! Today, the closest friends and parents have gathered here and from the bottom of their hearts give you their congratulations.
The host in turn approaches each participant in the wedding and provides the floor for wishes.
After congratulations, the toastmaster pronounces an invitation to fill the glasses and continue the festive meal.
- Tamada announces the start entertainment program: "Today, real magicians came to congratulate our young people, who will be happy to entertain our guests with their wonderful and even magical numbers."
- After the performance of professional artists, the toastmaster offers professional dancers to conduct dance master classes, followed by the involvement of guests in their dance program.
- Those who wish to be photographed are sent to shoot in a decorated photo zone.
- Tamada announces the dance of the young: “We invite our dear newlyweds to their first wedding waltz. Now they are no longer bride and groom, but husband and wife. Now our wonderful couple will spin in a slow waltz dance, and let the wonderful sounds of music envelop them with their magic veil! And we will be happy to admire the happy couple in love!
- The sounds of the waltz are replaced by rhythmic fast music, the wedding participants join the young people and a kind of wedding flash mob begins.
- The wedding ends with the cutting of the wedding cake. The leader says:
The wedding celebration ends with a fire show or touching ceremonies launching into the sky Chinese lanterns with a lit candle inside.
This video will show you how to write a wedding script:
This is how, in a new way, without observing established traditional rites and competitions, you can hold an interesting wedding celebration. The modern entertainment industry and their own creative approach allow young people to make a real fascinating spectacle out of a wedding.
Option 4
We meet young people at the porch. Guests stand on both sides of the path from the car to the porch. Everyone should have rice and coins in their hands. While the young are walking from the porch, in the direction of travel, shouting "Congratulations!" they are sprinkled with cereals and coins.
On the porch they are met by the host and parents.
Dear newlyweds! By tradition, the most dear to you people - your parents - meet you here. Mom has a wedding loaf in her hands as a symbol of well-being and prosperity. Newlyweds! Break off a piece of bread and season with salt! You have the opportunity to annoy each other for the last time. Yes, salt more ... And now exchange slices of bread. Look at each other with tenderness and feed each other!
Newlyweds feed each other.
And now we'll see who will be the head of the family! Come on, bring your glasses here! And now on the count of "three!" drain the glasses to the bottom. Who is the first is the main one. Once. Two. Three!
The newlyweds are drinking. All guests are sick.
Witnesses:
- What kind of barrier is this?
- The border, but not simple:
family life ahead
behind is single.
You have a pass, friends,
To a house called Family?
Young people show a marriage certificate.
Briefly - the document is in order!
Come on, hurry up
The wedding feast is calling you!
We invite everyone to the feast,
To the wedding hospitality.
Everyone goes into the hall.
There is joy in this house
For relatives, friends, acquaintances.
Today is a big holiday here,
Because two are cute
Two loving, beautiful
They became husband and wife.
Make yourself comfortable, dear guests, because a wedding is a long business! Choose a more cheerful neighbor with whom you can talk, and a prettier neighbor who you can take care of. Men are closer to a snack, and women are closer to a drink. The duties of each include: pour, pour, do not deprive everyone of the neighbors and do not forget yourself. Now, prepare the champagne!
I ask everyone to raise their glasses,
Congratulate standing young
To announce the beginning of the wedding
And a new life for two!
May this day, like a bright holiday,
Will pour joy into your home
And your life will forever be decorated
Hope, Happiness and Love!
And let love dawn
Does not go out for many years
Let only the wedding be "bitter",
But never in your life!
And now, dear guests, do not be shy, gain strength before the festive program. Help yourself, while we read to you
RULES OF CONDUCT FOR OUR WEDDING
1. You can't be bored, you can joke.
2. You can't be sad, you can sing and dance.
3. Look at other people's wives and husbands,
And don't forget about yours.
4. We forbid you to swear,
Fight, argue under the table.
If you're a little drunk,
It is better to go to sleep in silence.
5. Everyone without further explanation
Place to keep your own
Pouring into a neighbor's pocket
Juice or wine is prohibited.
6. Do not grumble and do not swear,
Do not climb with everyone to kiss,
In no case do not get angry,
Have fun with all your heart.
7.If someone by mistake
I took with me sadness
Put it in the refrigerator immediately
For cutlets to the cook.
8. If you are before leaving
Found slightly
On yourself other people's things
That's right, it's not a problem.
But we strictly forbid
Go home then
When next to you
Someone else's husband or wife!
10 minutes for a feast
Guests, did you take the glasses?
- Yes!
Friendly, cheerfully raised?
- Yes!
Then "Bitter!" - shout to them -
"Bitter! Bitter!" - young.
Kiss, newlyweds
Let those kisses not be counted
Otherwise, the poor invited
And bitter to drink, and bitter to eat!
Let's get this couple
Let's drink a full glass!
Acquaintance of guests
Today, most of all will sing ____.
Most of all will dance ____.
All louder will shout "Bitterly!" ____.
Everyone will drink more ____.
Today ____ will give ____ one hundred rubles.
____ will give ____ his TV with joy.
And ____ will give ____ himself.
Now ____ will lend money to everyone. No return.
The most beautiful person today is ____.
The most shy person today is ____.
The hungriest person at the wedding is ____.
After the wedding, ____ will walk away on foot.
____ will leave by car.
And ____ and ____ will hardly take ____ away.
In an hour, ____ will say that he (a) is cool (th).
After an hour and a half, ____ will say that he (a) sneezed (a) at everyone.
Two hours later, ____ won't say anything.
At 22:00 ____ will fall asleep.
At 11 p.m., ____ will fall asleep.
At 11:30 p.m. ____ will wake up.
Tomorrow improve your health, ____ invites everyone to his place.
____ will come tomorrow with a case of beer.
Dried fish is taken to bring ____.
And ____ and ____ from 5 in the morning will cook fish soup.
Everyone drinks ____ for health.
For the health of the young and all, I have already drunk ____ seven times.
Word to parents.
Toast to parents
Let's raise the hello
For those who raised this glorious couple.
Who in life knew neither sleep nor rest,
Forged such great happiness for them.
Parents are sad, a little sad.
For this we will not judge them strictly.
After all, this has long been their eternal destiny.
Each of us would like to support them.
For work and care, for everything we could,
Let the children bow to you to the ground.
And we, in turn, are good guests,
For the work of your parent, let's just say to you:
Let time fly, but don't get old
Let the grandchildren grow up, you become younger in soul,
Good to you, health is a huge increase,
We raise a celebratory toast to you.
Presentation of joke documents
- young,
response to young parents,
Let's raise our glasses!
Presentation of joke documents
- parents, others.
The floor is given to grandparents.
The first dance of the young
Oh, how the bride looks in love,
Oh, how excited the proud groom is.
The first waltz for you young,
First dance for the two of you.
Unwilling to sit still to the sounds of a waltz,
Feel free to join the bride and groom.
Witness Contest
The witness lies down on chairs, sweets are scattered over her, the latter is placed on her lips. The witness must collect them all with their hands tied.
Witness toast
For those who, taking honorable care,
From now on, I owe many years in a row
Follow with desire, with joy, with pleasure,
To be in a family of friends and peace and harmony.
So that the wards walk together
Dear bright, sunny, big
Before the wedding before the silver at the beginning,
Well, then - before the wedding golden!
We drink, as you noticed
For young witnesses.
Board game for guests.
Envelopes for the bride's guests:
1. Honey, shall we buy a mink coat?
2. Zolotko, will you give me the entire salary?
3. My sun, will you serve me coffee with a bun in the morning?
4. Dear, will you buy me clothes every day?
5. Darling, do you want us to have three girls and no boys?
6. Good, will you help me with the housework?
Envelopes for the groom's guests:
1. Dream, dream, my love.
2. If wages allow.
3. As you say, my only one.
4. It all depends on you, dear.
5. I only dream about this, my good one.
6. Well, you will say too. Wait and see.
Ignition of the family hearth.
Happiness decided to leave one house. It's hard to say why, but it did. "But first," happiness said, "I will fulfill one wish of each member of the family in which they lived for many years. What do you want?" - happiness asked the mistress of the house. And she answered that she did not have a mink coat, - and the hostess received a fur coat. Happiness asked adult daughter hostess: "What do you want?" - and she replied that she wanted to marry an overseas prince - and married an overseas prince. The happiness of the mistress's son asked: "What do you want?" - "I want, - he says, - a bicycle, I will be happy if there is a bicycle," - and the boy got a bicycle. And already on the threshold of the house, happiness saw the owner and asked: "What do you want?" The owner thought and said: "I want the warmth of the family hearth to never leave my house." And happiness fulfilled the request of the owner and did not leave this house, because happiness lives only where the family hearth burns!
At the noisy wedding table
Like a beacon of friendship, kindness
Light you now together
Star of hope and dreams.
Let's raise our glasses to this small and still very young hearth! But he will grow up, get stronger and will be able to warm both the young, and their children, and their relatives and friends.
Competition for guests
Pour-drink-eat.
Distribution of duties (balloons)
Contest for moms
Mothers determine by voice:
1. The mother of the bride determines the son-in-law among other guys who take turns saying: "Mother-in-law, I love you."
2. The mother of the groom determines the daughter-in-law by her voice among other girls who take turns saying: "I can't bear to get married."
3. Moms together determine the voices of the young among other couples, who take turns saying: "Mom, it's us!"
Dance competition for couples (with a balloon).
Each couple is given balloon, which the partners must hold between their foreheads (backs of their heads, backs, stomachs, shoulder blades, pop, knees, at chest level - at the discretion of the organizer; during the competition, the method of holding the ball at the command of the host can be changed), couples dance, preferably to fast music and preferably in the nature of music. The pairs that drop the ball are eliminated.
Table competition for guests
And now the color contest. Dear guests, take a look at the clothes of what color you came to the wedding celebration. Pay attention to the neighbor's clothes.
Who came in red clothes? These people are joyful, beautiful, independent, they appreciate the fullness of life. Always ready for love, in a sense, for a great feeling. They prefer to spend holidays and vacations in the south. Let's drink to red.
Who is in clothes white color? often naive, honest people, with a spotless reputation, kind and decent. They prefer to rest among the snowy plains and polar bears. Pay attention, even if you drank for red, but you also have white in your clothes, you will have to drink again.
The black color of the clothes indicates that we have talented people who are able to bewitch absolutely everyone. They love black caviar and black coffee. Sexually attractive, prolific in everything! They like to relax in the country with lovers.
clothing of blue color guarantees their owners a noble origin, romance. These are faithful, glorious people, they literally worry about everything and everyone.
They like to relax everywhere, just to fly a plane.
The green color of the dress indicates that these are people overwhelmed with hope and dreams. Always fresh and attractive. For recreation, they prefer the nearby forest.
Who came in clothes yellow color? These people are pleasant, warm, romantic, but ... insidious. From jewelry prefer gold. Strive to occupy a place in the upper class. They like to relax on the "Golden Sands", they like to listen to the "Golden Ring", they like to be called "Zolotse".
Determination of the sex of the child.
Word to the Witnesses
Presentation of gifts (eating witnesses)
Order for a new family.
Definition of the groom (by ear, by hand),
Definition of the bride (on the elbow, on the knee).
Contests
For couples with tennis balls. (drive through the partner's trousers).
Hospital (on the sheets write "birth house", "hospital", "bynya", "registry office", "bedroom", "work".
Questions:
-How often do you visit this place?
-How long are you there?
- what are you doing there?
- with whom do you go there?
- what do you take with you?
- Do you enjoy going there?
Who would you like to go there with?
Competition for young "explanatory and justifying" competition. You can call it "I believe - I do not believe." The situation for the competition can be set as follows: “Three months of family life passes, and the young wife comes home at three in the morning. What will she say in her defense, and will the husband believe this? So, the husband opens the door, first looks sternly at the clock, then to the spouse and asks the question: “Darling, why is it so late?” In response, the bride offers her options for excuses, and the groom accepts them or not, while saying “I believe!” or, conversely, “I don’t believe!”.
In order to attract the parents of the young to the sweet kissing moment, the presenter can ask questions to the bride and groom: “Tanya, was there at least one subject in high school, a lesson in which you were taught to kiss?
They didn't teach Tanya to kiss. Let's ask the groom. Alexander, the program of the institute provided for such classes, where could you master the art of kissing? No, there was no such thing in the institute program. What to do? Who will teach the kissing lesson? Probably, as always, parents. We ask the parents of the bride and groom to rise and kiss each other firmly but gently. And we all the wedding feast shout to them amicable "Bitter!".
Newlyweds vows.
At the height of the wedding fun, the host offers the guests the game "In the Bottle". Brings out a large inflatable bottle of champagne that will spin up in the game. On the tray - a place with words. Guests stand in a circle, leading in the center.
Whoever the bottle points to, he takes a card with a word, and I explain the meaning of this word in our kissing game. The bottle is untwisted, during the game the cards are sorted out.
Here are the words and their meanings:
Fur - kiss the neighbors of all.
Pipes - kiss a neighbor on the lips.
Point - whoever you want, kiss on the cheek.
Arrow - let the girls kiss you.
Fingers - let the boys kiss you.
Verse - the groom will send an air kiss.
Bride - kiss the one whose place is next.
Competition for young people - to dress a doll with tied hands.
TASTING TO GUESTS
- Did you drink for the young?
All: Drink!
Did you drink for your parents?
All: Drink!
- To become closer and dearer to all of us,
Let's drink to the guests!
Throwing a bouquet and a garter.
Well, you can see off the newlyweds from the wedding along the corridor of burning candles held by the guests. The host will say that let so many lucky stars illuminate their joint life path that so many lights light up in the homes of relatives and friends who are always ready to help, give the newlyweds the warmth and joy of meeting.